Topic : Is This Normal Social Discussion

is this thing on????

Have you crashed your buggy???

Are you still unpacking??? (I hate doing that)

Good grief where are you anyways???

OK you are forgiven....its early in the morning there.

don't think I forgot about you!!! 

I'm waiting to hear from you too!!! 

Question time:

The "donor" has not paid child support in a very long time.  I think he owes about $15,000.00 right at this moment.  I have tried contacting him via old friends and acquantances (sp?).  Nobody knows where he is.  Now the ones I talked to are people I trust not to lie.  They all believe he is living in Calgary with his mom and working there somewhere.  Why the heck can't the gov't find the loser?  Anywhoooo

Ron is sick of this crap...he basically wants to adopt the girls and be done with it.  Now keep in mind the "donor" has not communicated with them in over 2 years.  Freakin' looza.  I do want Ron to adopt.....but I also want the "donor" to pay up.

So I'm in a WTF situation.  Comment if you want to.  Don't if you don't care.  Well I gotta do some chores around her...get purty and go to town.

later

 

Geesh, I almost forgot to tell you what a wonderful email you sent with the concert footage.  Thanks that was awesome.  If I could choose and instrument to play it would be the violin...or the piano, since they are my absolute favs.

But I hear ya sisterfriend! Drives me crazy sometimes. Like now when I could be hooking it up with Ami but she flat left. I personally think she doesn't want to me meet in person. Even though she's coming to my house for Derby!!!! And when I can't wait to hear about Trace's trip. You know how good she is at the telling of it all. I do hope all's well on the home front.

 

And about the looza. Ya know you might as well just cut your loses and let your man adopt. It's always gonna be more of the same and who knows? He may have to pay the arrearages any way. I doubt it, but he may. Or he could use that as leverage to let Ron adopt. In the end it all is better for those two percious babies of yours. And I do get your frustration on child support. Mine never paid me either and this many yrs later I'm still pissed about it. Here's the question. What's in the best interest of the kids? That's the thing I always asked myself when in a quandry.

 

How's your depression things going? Or was it the menopause thing? I remember you were having a rough time of it.

 

And no I haven't crashed yet. I don't have to use it much anymore and that's good. I'm losing muscle mass and it's difficult to walk long periods so I have to try to build the muscles up again. Poor little bird legs don't have all that much to work with in the first place!