Topic : Is This Normal Social Discussion

Question time:

The "donor" has not paid child support in a very long time.  I think he owes about $15,000.00 right at this moment.  I have tried contacting him via old friends and acquantances (sp?).  Nobody knows where he is.  Now the ones I talked to are people I trust not to lie.  They all believe he is living in Calgary with his mom and working there somewhere.  Why the heck can't the gov't find the loser?  Anywhoooo

Ron is sick of this crap...he basically wants to adopt the girls and be done with it.  Now keep in mind the "donor" has not communicated with them in over 2 years.  Freakin' looza.  I do want Ron to adopt.....but I also want the "donor" to pay up.

So I'm in a WTF situation.  Comment if you want to.  Don't if you don't care.  Well I gotta do some chores around her...get purty and go to town.

later

 

Geesh, I almost forgot to tell you what a wonderful email you sent with the concert footage.  Thanks that was awesome.  If I could choose and instrument to play it would be the violin...or the piano, since they are my absolute favs.

But I hear ya sisterfriend! Drives me crazy sometimes. Like now when I could be hooking it up with Ami but she flat left. I personally think she doesn't want to me meet in person. Even though she's coming to my house for Derby!!!! And when I can't wait to hear about Trace's trip. You know how good she is at the telling of it all. I do hope all's well on the home front.

 

And about the looza. Ya know you might as well just cut your loses and let your man adopt. It's always gonna be more of the same and who knows? He may have to pay the arrearages any way. I doubt it, but he may. Or he could use that as leverage to let Ron adopt. In the end it all is better for those two percious babies of yours. And I do get your frustration on child support. Mine never paid me either and this many yrs later I'm still pissed about it. Here's the question. What's in the best interest of the kids? That's the thing I always asked myself when in a quandry.

 

How's your depression things going? Or was it the menopause thing? I remember you were having a rough time of it.

 

And no I haven't crashed yet. I don't have to use it much anymore and that's good. I'm losing muscle mass and it's difficult to walk long periods so I have to try to build the muscles up again. Poor little bird legs don't have all that much to work with in the first place!

 

 

How's things with you all? Sorry I haven't been here in a while, but there is a reason for that, I've been one very sick girl. Still not 100% yet, but slowly getting there.

 

I started feeling ill Friday week ago now and thought I was having another UTI, went to the Doctor and he put me on antibioics and got a urine sample from me as well. Over the weekend, still feeling crappy and having the feeling like you need to pee all the time. Monday morning after taking Stephanie to school I went back to the Doctor and he told me that I didn't have a UTI, but to just finish taking the tablets and if I have anymore problems to go back to him or my local hospital if it gets that bad.

 

Monday evening I got next to no sleep at all, due to the discomfort I was stilling having downstairs. Got up on Tuesday morning to get Stephanie ready for school and just felt like crap bigtime! My blood sugars had been up since the Friday and they were getting higher by the day as well. My blood pressure was also up too. Mind you all this has to have happended while Mark is away and he couldn't come back home due to his work.

 

Got in touch with Mum and Dad and they said that they would try and get up here to help me get to the Doctor, but by then I just said to them that I was going to ring for a ambo to take me to hospital, as I really needed something done.

 

At the hospital, they finally saw me after I waited about 4 or so hours in the ER waiting room, by this time Mum and Dad had come to the hosptial and had gotten Stephanie and come back here until I knew what was happening. Well the Doctor rang blood tests and urine tests and there wasn't any bugs in the urine, but there was a white cell count in the blood, meaning that there was some sort of infection in my body. So the Doctor got me onto IV Fliuds and IV Antibioics to kill any bugs in me.

 

CONT:

After afew hours in the ER, the Doctor sent me home and so Mum and Dad came and got me and home we went.

 

Wednesday I felt like crap still and still had the horrible feelings downstairs as well. The IV antibioics didn't kill every bug it seems.

 

Went back to my GP on Thursday for a follow up visit after being at the hospital. He felt around on my lower pelvic area(outside that is) on my belly and just about everytime he pressed down it hurt me. So, he suggested a ultrascan of my lower pelivc area. Got that done Thursday afternoon and back to the Doctor the next day.

 

Turns out that I have a type of cyst in my cervix that is caused by an infection. The infection is at the start of my cervix on both sides, hopefully this will get better after taking the antibioics and also hopefully the cyst will go as well. The Doctor did also do a pap smear as well to rule out anything else happening there.

 

Today is Saturday and I am slowly feeling better and my blood sugars are getting back to normal too, finally!

 

I've just got to take things one day at a time and see how things go. Have to go back to my GP next Friday and get the pap smear results, please keep your fingers crossed that all my problems will be gone with this infection!

 

Well I hope you all are doing well right now and please Take Care, Love Kelly.

It's frickin' late and I have to get up early, but here I am!  Things are going fine here.  My Dad arrived from Calif on Tuesday and he and Erin spent Wed and Thurs together while I was at work.  They had a good time, mostly organizing a new stamp collection for Erin who's shown an interest in it for a long time.  Dad's been collecting for a REALLY long time, so he's thrilled.  They even rode bicycles (Dad rode mine) on a 4-1/2 mile RT jaunt to a Stamp and Coin Center in downtown Brighton, only the seat came off my bike and Dad had to walk most of the way home.  By Thurs evening Erin was pretty cranky (long story I won't go into) and I let her beg off going to chemo with us on Friday.  Dad drove me and everything went just fine.  Got home and had a good evening with Erin.  He's staying until June 9th, My Mom is arriving on the 12th and staying until the 17th.  Then my girlfirend is arriving on the 20th and staying until the 24th.  More company than not for the next month.  It's a =), but it's also a =(.

 

Tomorrow I'm going to see Indiana Jones with Ralph.  Things with his family are still really f%^&ed up, and the pressue on him is extreme.  He's basically trying to pay his bills AND support his sister and the girls and he's thinking he may have to rent his condo and move in with them. =( Not good for anybody in reality.  And now his Mom's in the hospital with bronchitis.  Things aren't going to get better any time soon,

 

Kelly, I'm so sorry you've been so sick.  It sound perfectly miserable.  I sure hope you feel better soon.  Thank goodness you have your parents to help.  At first I thought you said that Stephanie was sick, too, so I'm glad to realize that she is fine.

 

Vicki, I would never say I don't care about your situation with the ex, but I'm not sure what advice to give.  i really don't think you should give up on trying to track him down.  You may not be able to get much blood out of a turnip, but if he's working, you should be able to get his wages attached.  If you don't have any luck with that within a certain amount of time, write it off, let Ron adopt the girls, and chalk it up to the sperm donor's loss.

 

Trace, I'm so anxious to hear your stories!  But I know it takes time, and I'm guessing you might have some other fires to deal with...

 

JP, you definitely crack me up.  I'm glad that it sounds like you're getting better.

 

Roxie, wherever you are, Loretta, KAK -- I miss you and I love you.  And a special note to Kathy ~~ [very embarassed] I did receive the hats you sent so long ago, but it seems that my ability to write a thank you note has totally fallen to pieces.  I'm not pleased about that, but I keep feeling like I don't know where to start in order to catch up.  Anyway, they, and the thoughts that came with them, were very much appreciated and I hope you know that. 

I've been thinking about our old friend, DPDonna lately.  It turns out she's thinking about us too, and not so far away.  I think things have been rough and she could use some positive thoughts.  Send some out, would you?

 

Thanks!

I am so sorry you are that sick.  I have had UTI and that alone is awful.  Glad the Dr. found what was wrong and now you are able to get treated for it.

You gotta get better for when your man comes home!!!

 

I was really just being a pain in the ass the other day....lol.  OK, I was bored and needed to play.

 

Now on the depression/perimenopause thing.....I don't know what is wrong.  I have some really bad downs lately and I was on hormone replacement therapy, but that didn't help so I quit taking those.  I've been good now for awhile.  You know it might have something to do with not working and being at home all day feeling useless.  Time will tell.  And the hyperacusis is really bothering me more than usual lately.  Some days I wish I was deaf.  (not cool)

 

Glad you haven't crashed!!!

You just gotta tell me how the movie was!!!!!

 

Its great that Ralph has someone like you at his side to lean on, especially with his family being the way it is right now. 

 

When I posted my question about the "donor" it kind of came out wrong and then I couldn't edit and figured.....piss on it, but then I hope I didn't offend.  I know you guys care regardless.  I was just too lazy to explain myself and besides I had to get ready to go to town.....lol.