Topic : Is This Normal?

  Penis size never mattered to me until I met my ex, he was around 6-7in and good girth size and we had a very wild and wonderful sex life.  Now I'm married to the most wonderful man I could ever ask for he gives me anything and everything and my life is by far the best it's ever been.  However after being with my ex, when my husband and I have sex his size does nothing for me, I can't even feel him.  This makes me turned off to sex and I hate that as I love the feel and rush ones gets from having sex.

   My husband and I have had numerous talks about our sex life and the fact that it doesn't feel good to me, and it's because of his size.  I feel very very horrible that we have no sex life, but I can't enjoy it when I feel nothing.   Help, what can I do to make our sex life feel better with out making my husband feel even worse about his size?

Well my message got deleted b/c some people don't like the anatomy of the human body or can't stand that some people do different things in bed then they or something so I'll try to cover my terms even more so I hope you are still able to read it.

Well there are a few things you can try:

Oral s** can help you achieve an org*** seen as the cl**orus is much more sensitive then the lining of your vag***. Your mouth is also more sensitive so giving him oral  makes you feel him more as well.

There are different positions you can try since some allow him to get in deeper. you can search the web for different positions (try to avoid the p*rn sites among the search results)

Also I suggest you try training your vag*** muscles, they allow you to grip your partner's memb** better making you feel him better. As an added bonus training them will intensify your org***

You have toys that fit around the base of his memb** which vibr*** making the experience for the both of you more pleasurable.

Last if you are really adventurous you can try going in via the backdoor. It is not for everyone but seen as the muscles are really thight there you are shure to feel him there. If you want to try it you must be catious and follow these guidelines: take it slow, the muscles need to adapt to something entering. Use a cond** for hygenic purposes. Use lots of water based lub******** since this place doesn't do that on his own.

Now that are the tips about se**** activity that I can give you. But I do want to ask you the question if this is the real problem or are there any other things in or out of the bed that bother you? Aren't you atributing things to the size of his memb** that may be unrelated? It doesn't have to be I am just wondering...

Okay I hope this is covered up enough, I can't cover it up any more. If you are offended by this I am sorry but people do this in the bedroom and they like it. I am just trying to help people find there own way in it. Some things work some things don't. That is why I wan't to give the full spectrum (that I know of) of options. It would be easy if I could just use the names we are all acustomed to. But if it is over the line using a perfectly normal term like a*** (I really don't know another less offending word for it in english or dutch) then I am sorry

This is a little embarrasing to ask but I figure we are all adults here, so here's the situation.  My husband shaves his genitals and says that he prefers it this way because it just feels much cleaner and more sanitary.  I have no problem with this and in fact I actually prefer it too.  The only thing is that he wants me to do the same.  He would prefer that I shave off the pubic hair and says that it would turn him on more.  He's not forcing me into doing anything I don't want to do, but I know that this is what he prefers.  The only thing is, do many women actually do this?  Is this the norm now?  I never thought so until my husband and a friend of his got onto the topic of sex and my husband's friend said that every woman he's ever been with shaved their genitals and that he prefered a woman who did this.  Is this how most men feel towards this issue?  I've considered doing it but I'm not really sure how I feel about it yet.  I would like to please my husband more, but I'm just not sure how comfortable I would feel if I did this.  If I knew this was a common practice I would feel more comfortable doing it.  Any thoughts?

Sounds like you aren't getting enough foreplay.  When you org** before entry it tightens all your muscles.  Different positions will help also.