Quote From: bluetigressMy fiance and I have an absolutely wonderful relationship. We started out as best friends, and it only grew from there. Emotionally, things have been perfect. After we got engaged and started to get physical, it proved to be just as wonderful.
A few months later I ended up getting pregnant due to failed birth control, and became extremely ill. I miscarried a few weeks after finding out, but the illness stayed. I thought it was stress from moving or my family life, but I found out it was actually HG, a not very common, very severe form of morning sickness. The effects can last a really long time.
Needless to say, even though I was so sick I still felt the same attraction and longing with my fiance, and he's extremely loving and affectionate, but anytime he ever tried to initiate something I'd immediately get sick to my stomach, or feel ill. I felt really really bad, because we both wanted things so badly but I'd just get so suddenly and inexplicably sick. Despite how I felt, the reality of my sex drive was 0.
The effects of the illness are finally starting to wear down, but I still get this nausea on occasion when we start getting intimate. Not too much is known about HG, but if anyone else here has it, did you go through something similar? I have a high chance of getting it again in the future, and I'd like to know for then and the dwindling effects now, what I can do so I'm not so nauseated or sex-drive deprived. Me and my fiance have an extremely healthy relationship emotionally and physically, and I'd like to keep that up!
You should talk to your doctor about getting a prescription for anti-nausea medication. Make sure it is one that doesn't cause drowsiness.
