Topic : Is This Normal?

My husband and i were going at and all of the sudden i heard a loud snapping noise, then a loud cry came from my husband! His dick had gone to the side and the blood vesssels almost seemed to snap..... He now is afraid to have sex because when he gets an errection his penis is funny looking and we dont know what to do. Please help us Dr. Phil........

                                                                               Love,

                                                                                           Rosetta

Well after reading your message I had to wright something back and tell your what I was thinking. This is from my side of things and in no way is this to tell you what to do, But. I think your hubby is gay or is going through some kind of mid life change or just does not want to be with you that way. If you asked him about love he would probably tell you that he loves and does not want to leave and he is probably telling the truth.

But he is ok with what it is and that is comfort for him and safe.. But you need to get your feelings out and get them heard.  Love is like A muscle and if you don't work it out it goes away!!!!!!!!!

yes, it is. Just as normal as it is for men to masturbate while in a relationship/marriage.(or maybe a bit less normal but it should be as normal)

oh and it doesn't make you a bad sex partner or so, but sometimes you just want to get off quick without the fuss of having to please your partner aswell. And well since you know your own body best, it is quicker than if someone else gives you a handjob for instance.

Besides you do benifit from it since she knows her own body better which helps you please her better.

this is a normal part of life. i do it and by boyfriend does not mind because it gets him off the hook of having to do anything, plus when you do it yourself you know the feeling and the way to do it.

If your wife is still having sex with you as often as usual then you shouldn't worry.  However, if your sex life is decreasing and her masterbation is increasing, it could mean there is a problem.