Quote From: PleasanceDomestic Violence and Abuse is everybody's business.
Please educate yourself on the Dynamics of Domestic Abuse and Violence.
Learn of the brainwashing techniques........the programming, the systematic programming of the abuser against the women and the family.
The only person responsible for the abuse is the abuser.
The only person responsible for the violence is the violent abuser who made the CHOICE TO ABUSE.
I'm hearing victim blaming statements in your post......"the victim themselves have created"
BATTERED AND ABUSED WOMEN DO NOT WANT TO GET BEAT UP !!!!!!!!
Domestic Violence and abuse does not stay at home........and its everyones business even if thats the only place it occurs........its. YOUR BUSINESS, ITS THE NEIGHBORS BUSINESS, THE COMMUNITY'S BUSINESS, ITS THE SCHOOLS BUSINESS, IT visits the WORKPLACE, ITS EVERYONES BUSINESS.
It spills over into the community...............................and everyone else's life.
Please educate yourself on the facts........the dynamics...........and the solutions.
Please let me respond one more time. I'm not one to get into any heated debate about issues of domestic violence, abuse and the sort.
First of all you can tell me all you want that "it is everybody's business". I can chose to make it my business or I can chose not to make it my business. The only law I have broken is my moral law to not do something about it. I can even turn my back on domestic violence and pretend I did not see anything. What would be the repurcussions? Just my moral conscience would bother me.
I think it's a load of crap when someone says, "it takes two to tango." Please, leave that one on the dance floor of the Arthur Murry Academy. Yeah, I believe that the only person responsible for the actual abuse is the abuser and, that a HEAVY consequence needs to be paid for that abuser's action.
I'm not sure what you are referring to in your statement that battered and abused WOMEN do not want to get beat up! It's a very loaded statement. And with that said, are you saying that a person has no other recourse but to stay and continue to get beat up? That they have no other choice? Hey I'm not even coming close to BLAMING the victim. Cannot a person learn to take responsibility to save themselves from this abusive situation? After all, they have the final say so on their demise. They do have alternatives.
I'm not really interested in learning about the brainwashing techniques set upon the victims by their abusers or the programming method they use on their families.
The only fact I want to know is that abusers (men or women) beat up on their victims and for "love" the victim makes the final choice of taking all of that bull crap.
My heart goes out to all of those people who have become victims to abuse. But, you do have choices. Learn them fast before it is too late. About domestic violence, I make it my business because I chose to make it my business. When it comes to child abuse I make it my business even when someone says "It's none of your business". Thank You
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