Topic : 12/11 Dr. Phil and Robin’s Christmas Show!

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Dr. Phil and Robin invite you to celebrate the holidays with their family - Jay, Erica, Jordan and even Dr. Phil’s mom! As National Spokespersons for Toys for Tots, Dr. Phil and Robin are making dreams comes true for deserving families who fill the audience. The performers from Dancing with the Stars Tour have tangoed, waltzed and salsa danced into millions of viewers’ homes. They help Dr. Phil and Robin spread a little holiday cheer. Then, Vanessa Williams, who plays the mean boss on the new hit show Ugly Betty, brings a surprise guest. Plus, Jay and his new wife, Erica, share some of their favorite things, the cast of How I Met Your Mother drops by, and a celebrity performance you won’t want to miss! Get the scoop on the hottest games and electronics for your family’s holiday list! Talk about the show here.

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December 11, 2006, 6:44 pm PST

excessive

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By the time I got myself registered to post here, markvalv6 had very eloquently voiced my own feelings.  Deserving audience members - OK...but the loot give away was excessive.  I found myself getting increasingly upset as each bigger and better give away was revealed.

 

What broke the camel's back for me was a call from my sister-in-law who wanted to know what I HADN'T bought on the suggestion list she provided for my young niece and nephew so that she could go out and get the rest of it.  More "over the top"

 

No wonder people don't value what they have anymore - it's all so easy.

way way over the top,i totally agree with you
 
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December 11, 2006, 6:45 pm PST

I Couldn't Agree More!!!

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I found this on an other board and thought it was very interesting.

 

This is what Christmas giving is all about in my opinion.

 

 I remember my first Christmas adventure with Grandma. I was just a kid. I remember tearing across town on my bike to visit her on the way my big sister dropped the bomb: "There is no Santa Claus," she jeered. "Even dummies know that!"

 

My Grandma was not the gushy kind, never had been. I fled to her that day because I knew she would be straight with me. I knew Grandma always told the truth, and I knew that the truth always went down a whole lot easier when swallowed with one of her "world-famous" cinnamon buns I knew they were world-famous, because Grandma said so. It had to be true.

 

Grandma was home, and the buns were still warm. Between bites, I told her everything. She was ready for me. "No Santa Claus?" she snorted...."Ridiculous! Don't believe it. That rumor has been going around for years, and it makes me mad, plain mad!! Now, put on your coat, and let's go."

 

"Go? Go where, Grandma?" I asked. I hadn't even finished my second world-famous cinnamon bun.

 

"Where" turned out to be Kerby's General Store, the one store in town that had a little bit of just about everything. As we walked through its doors, Grandma handed me ten dollars.

 

That was a bundle in those days. "Take this money," she said, "and buy something for someone who needs it I'll wait for you  in the car."

 

Then she turned and walked out of Kerby's. I was only eight years old. I'd often gone shopping with my mother, but  never had I shopped for anything all by myself.

 

The store seemed big and crowded, full of people scrambling to finish their Christmas shopping. For a few moments I just stood there, confused, clutching that ten-dollar bill, wondering what to buy, and who on earth to buy it for. I thought of everybody I knew: my family, my friends, my neighbors, the kids at school, the people who went to my church.

 

I was just about thought out, when I suddenly thought of  Bobby Decker. He was a kid with bad breath and messy hair, and he sat right behind me in Mrs. Pollock's third grade class.

 

Bobby Decker didn't have a coat. I knew that because he never went out to recess during the winter. His mother always wrote a note, telling the teacher that he had a cough, but all we kids knew that Bobby Decker didn't have a cough; he didn't have a good coat.  I fingered the ten-dollar bill with growing excitement.  I would buy Bobby Decker a coat!

 

I settled on a red corduroy one that had a hood to it. It looked real warm, and he would like that.

 

"Is this a Christmas present for someone?" the lady behind the counter asked kindly, as I laid my ten dollars down.

 

"Yes, ma'am," I replied shyly. "It's for Bobby."

 

The nice lady smiled at me, as I told her about how Bobby really needed a good winter coat. I didn't get any change, but she put the coat in a bag, smiled again, and wished me a Merry Christmas.

 

That evening, Grandma helped me wrap the coat (a little tag fell out of the coat, and  Grandma tucked it in her Bible) in Christmas paper and ribbons and wrote, "To Bobby, From Santa Claus" on it. Grandma said that Santa always insisted on secrecy.

 

Then she drove me over to Bobby Decker's house, explaining as we went that I was now and forever officially, one of Santa's helpers.

 

Grandma parked down the street from Bobby's house, and she and I crept noiselessly and hid in the bushes by his front walk. Then Grandma gave me a nudge. "All right, Santa Claus," she whispered, "get going."

 

I took a deep breath, dashed for his front door, threw the present down on his step, pounded his door and flew back to the safety of the bushes and Grandma.

 

Together we waited breathlessly in the darkness for the front door to open. Finally it did, and there stood Bobby.

 

Fifty years haven't dimmed the thrill of those moments spent shivering, beside my Grandma, in Bobby Decker's bushes.

 

That night, I realized that those awful rumors about Santa Claus were just what Grandma said they were: ridiculous. Santa was alive and well, and we were on his team. I still have the Bible, with the coat tag tucked inside: $19.95.

 

May you always have LOVE to share, HEALTH to spare and FRIENDS that care....And may you always believe in the magic of Santa Claus!

This is an absolutely beautiful story! THANK YOU so much for sharing it here!!!

 

Merry Christmas,

BG :-)

 
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December 11, 2006, 6:54 pm PST

12/11 Dr. Phil and Robin’s Christmas Show!

Dr.Phil,

          I am really glad you could give all the gifts you could to your audience.But the way I feel is there are other families out here in as much need as those hurricane victims.My parents for instance has already told my sister and me that we will have to wait for Christmas b/c they do not have the money to buy for us.They have to catch up on the house and pay bills that are more important right now.My mom has not been able to work in three years and it has really been hard on the family.I thank God that those families are gonna get Christmas this year,I am not wanting to sound selfish.However there are other families in need.The gifts they got I will never see anything like those in my life.All I am saying is those shows do hurt some of us.Well I want say i do love your show,we watch it everyday.just today it got to me knowing how hard my parents have been trying to make ends meet.

 
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December 11, 2006, 6:56 pm PST

I WANT ONE, TOO!!!

I so enjoyed your awesome show today, even if I didn't get any goodies. :(

Robin, you described Grandma to "a tee" in your book. Heck, my husband and I were in tears and we weren't getting anything. We had planned to get a Treadmill as a family gift, but brakes for the van win over a gift. But I have the best gift of all...my husband survived a heart attack in February...thank you Lord for giving our family one more Christmas together!

May y'all have a Happy and Blessed Chrismas and a great New Year.

 

 
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December 11, 2006, 7:08 pm PST

12/11 Dr. Phil and Robin’s Christmas Show!

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I am a 26 year old parent of two wonderful children.  I have watched you're show every since you have been on TV.  I don't know what to do in the sense that I have just lost my job 2 weeks b4 Christmas and my kids are gonna have no Christmas presents on Christmas Day b/c i can't afford them.  I have to pay my bills and my bills are very expensive.  I went to the doctor about 2 weeks ago and he said i need a surgeory. I have no insurance no money, and my kids are gonna have no christmas.  I really wish that everything was different so my kids can have a Christmas, b/c it is very important to me.  I know the meaning of Christmas is about the birth of Jesus and they know it also, i have always made sure they know the true meaning of Christmas.  I am just really depressed about the whole situation, and don't know what to do.  Can you help me figure out what to do Dr. Phil?

Your family wll be in my prayers tonight.

I wanted to tell you this little story. When I was your age, I had 3 kids. They were 6 weeks, 4 years and 8 years old. I had to quit work on doctors' orders before the baby was born and the horrible wet & snowy weather had kept my husband off his construction crew job. We were broke.  I used the hospital gift certificate to get the baby a car seat & put it under the tree. After getting a little money together & putting off the power company, I bought a big wheel for my 4 year old and a "my buddy" knock off  from the dollar store. I got a $3 barbie for my 8 year old daughter & a couple of small things. I used that as a reference for years as to how tough we had it. I told everyone about the hard times. Well, that 4 year old became an adult with a child of his own. While talking over years past over a Christmas visit, he said, "You know the best Christmas I ever had was when I got my Big Wheel and My Buddy. That was the coolest! " I nearly choked up when I realized that what I felt, the failure & sadness I had carried all the years after that Christmas was a burden I never had to carry. Christmas is like beauty. It is all in the eye of the beholder. To know that I hadn't failed at all, because the feelings of security that I had obviously been able to provide those 3 small children had made all the difference. Don't get stressed. Have some faith and don't let the situation cheat you out of the joy! There are good people out there and I will be praying for God to send one your way this Christmas! 

 
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December 11, 2006, 7:08 pm PST

12/11 Dr. Phil and Robin’s Christmas Show!

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I thought it was really nice of Dr Phil and family to give those gifts to the studio people; however I started to think some of the people just  couldn't wait for the next freebie.  It's like kids the more you give them the less they appreicate it.   But it was a good show. A better show would have been to give the studio people one or two gifts and then donate some gifts to their local Children and Youth under the studio person's name to go to someone in need.

 

To those who think people should get over being depressed and blue at Christmas time.  It is really hard on a parent when you cannot give your children anything at Christmas.  If you've never been in that situtation you don't know how hard it is on a parent.   Our culture has made it hard on parents to be able to afford to give gifts duirng Christmas; because getting gifts is much more important to us then actually going to church.  Yes, we can tell them the real meaning of Christmas; but to a child it is hard when their class mates start talking about what they got for Christmas.  Some of you talk about giving during the holidays, but how many of you go to the store or walk down the street and see someone less fortunate then you and not think something ugly about that person.   People who use food stamps at the store, do you think it is sad that that person can't afford food on their own or is it "well there's another welfare person using up my tax dollars".  Or the kid who doesn't have clean clothes or hair is unkept; but do you all do during the year for those who have less then you.  Christmas should be just 12 days long, it should be 360 days a year.

 

I find Christmas  too commericalized and our country actually has forgotten the true meaing of what Christmas is all about.  Stores have stopped using the "Merry Christmas" greeting; the putting up of the Christmas tree or any thing realated to Christ's birthday is challenged.   We are all to blame and we don't do anything about it.   Nothing.

 

To those women who find themselves in hardship way at Christmas.  I hope that next year for you will be better.   Just hang in there and hug your kids.

Well at least THIS YEAR it was people who are in NEED getting those gifts.... Do you know that CELEBRITIES try to get tickets to the give away shows that Dr phil and Oprah have????? Now IN MY OPINION that is SICK!!!!!.... I am REALLY HAPPY that these people who don't have much were the ones who were SPOILED for ONCE in their lives.... and I hope Dr. Phil does it again next year for a new bunch of people who are in need.... I am SURE that the people who were there were the neediest of the needy.....
 

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December 11, 2006, 7:10 pm PST

I just finished watching the show

Thank you Dr. Phil and Robin for this Family Christmas Show.

 

Kudos to all who pulled this celebration together.

 

 

Lots of goodies for many deserving families.

 

( I got a kick out of the exuberance over the vacuum cleaner)      What a hoot!

 

 

Happy Holidays to all.

 

 

 

 

 

 
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December 11, 2006, 7:11 pm PST

after reading your post i serched and i ran across this hope it helps you .

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 I don't know what it is. I am not depressed, but I don't get the big deal with Christmas.  I don't even want to see this show, I don't want a tree or anything.  I've heard other people who used to love Christmas like me say the same thing.  Anyone else out there going through this?  Sure, I can't really afford much anyway, but I've always really tried hard every Christmas to make a big deal out of it.  I wouldn't feel guilty about this new outlook I am having, except that I have a five year old son.  I don't want him to grow up thinking he's missing out on the fun.  Am I crazy?  I am glad Dr. Phil is using this show to help people and not just show off a bunch of expensive junk.  Although I am sure there will be lots of that too.  Anyone else out there with me?

What do we say when someone is down about Christmas? Don’t we call them a Scrooge or a Grinch?

 

Dr. Seuss has the Grinch as an altogether miserable fellow.

It could be his head wasn’t screwed on just right.

It could be, perhaps, that his shoes were too tight.

But I think that the most likely reason of all

May have been that his heart was two sizes too small.

 

 

You have heard the saying “Misery loves company”? Well the Grinch doesn’t even have company except for his dog Max. The Gospels say that we should rejoice with other’s happiness, we should assist those in need and we should support people in their sorrow. We have to ask ourselves if at times we don’t follow the Grinch path instead of the one that the Gospel lays out. If we can’t win, we don’t want anyone to win. If we can’t have what we want, we choose nothing at all and very rarely let others have what we really desire.

 

Christmas is a time to tune into God. In tuning into God we can confront our feelings, emotions, and our actions to know what our motives are. We can with God’s help change our ways. In scripture we come across many people that have changed their lives. In James Kemp’s book “The Gospel According to Dr. Seuss”, he parallels Zacchaeus with the Grinch. Zacchaeus needed someone to love him. Jesus was just the person but no one around really agreed at the time that Jesus asked him to come down from the tree. If we are to follow Jesus we have to learn to recognize and to love people like the Grinch who are miserable and difficult to love because they are in so much pain.

 

The Grinch thought he took everything away from the Whos down in Whoville. He took their food, their presents, their decorations but the Grinch is the one changed by this experience.

And what happened them…

Well in Whoville they say

That the Grinch’s small heart

Grew three sizes that day!

 

Christmas is about the change of heart. Only Jesus can do that. Everyone knows a Grinch. Not everyone knows Jesus Christ in their heart and not just their head. Everyone who know Jesus as Lord and Savior can reach out by faith. You may not see a change but you might. Christmas is about making the ordinary extraordinary. We are the ones that need to share the news of Jesus being born and coming to live our lives. That is what will change people and it will change us.

 

The Grinch had it all wrong and so do we sometimes. We have bought into the materialistic lifestyle and find ourselves defined by what we have and own and we think that the more we have the happier and more fulfilled we will be. Money can’t buy happiness but we sure try. We have left our front porch which has caused us to leave community. We as a church are a community and we have something here that we need to share with the world. We pray each time we pray the Lord’s prayer “give us this day our daily bread”. The Grinch even stole the Who’s daily bread but it was the Grinch who listened for crying and wailing that got the surprise – there was the joy in Whoville just as it always had been.

 

“Maybe Christmas “, he thought “doesn’t come from a store.

Maybe Christmas.. perhaps.. means a little bit more!”

 
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December 11, 2006, 7:14 pm PST

Happy Holidays??? How about Merry Christmas!!!

Dr. Phil,

 

I loved the show and am very thankful for all the you do for the good of people. However, I am very disappointed that only, Happy Holidays was said. Why did you not say Merry Christmas once? Is it that you were not wanting to offend anyone? I have the up most respect for you, for many reason, but also trust. Trust because you are a man of God. But this show you really let me down because it was very obvious you avoided saying Merry Christmas. I would not have ever suspected you would have taken the same route as many of our department stores and retailers have.

 

Merry Christmas and God Bless you and yours!

 
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December 11, 2006, 7:18 pm PST

12/11 Dr. Phil and Robin’s Christmas Show!

Quote From: purplepenny

 I understand that people are less fortunate. Some people look at ME and have pity for what I don't have. That's life. I just don't understand why some people feel the need to drag down other people who enjoy Christmas.

It's almost as if, if you just enjoy the holidays then you are some how superficial. It's as if there is no line drawn between people like me, who do the gift thing modestly, but do the celebrating part HUGELY (which is free) and those who have screaming brats in the toy section of the store.

I hope you don't make your kids feel blue. There are free things to make a great Christmas, snow ball fights, singing, playing games. Things that cost very little like buying a few strings of lights and buying a plastic sled.

I grew up poor, on food stamps. We got only one or two small things at Christmas time. And my memories of Christmas were so wonderful, why? Because my parents didn't mope at those who had more than us, we were too busy having fun, making memories, looking at decorations, singing songs....My memories of Christmas are good, NOT because of what I got, but because of my family being together and laughing.


You may have grown up poor, but you were given untold riches by your parents :)  Even today you are a very "rich" person!
 

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