Topic : 12/13 Holiday Horror Stories

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Created on : Friday, December 08, 2006, 02:32:23 pm
Author : DrPhilBoard1
The holidays are here, but some households never experience “peace on earth.” Dr. Phil’s guests refuse to embrace the spirit of the season, and say Christmas is the worst time of the year! Joyce has been married to Rick for 27 years, and has hated the holidays for 26 of those years. She refuses to put up a tree, decorate her house or listen to Christmas carols. Rick says Joyce even flipped out when he tried to dangle some mistletoe over her head!  Joyce has succeeded in ruining her family’s joy, but is she about to destroy her marriage? Then, Val has 11 kids, but says her three daughters stop at nothing to wreck the holidays. One daughter even resorted to breaking her sister’s finger on Christmas day! The constant fighting has pushed Val to consider something drastic. And, find out what special event Robin and Dr. Phil hosted to help celebrate the true holiday spirit! Talk about the show here.

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January 9, 2007, 3:20 pm PST

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Is that an allegory to whether Creationism actually occured vs. whether man invented God?  Or am i reading too much into it?
I think you are reading too much into it..LOL
 
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January 9, 2007, 3:36 pm PST

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Is that an allegory to whether Creationism actually occured vs. whether man invented God?  Or am i reading too much into it?
that i really dont know lol but this was a queston only god can really answer for only he knows the answer.
 
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January 9, 2007, 3:41 pm PST

LMAO

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They both evolved together...LOL
I like that answer!  Like your Bono pix!  Bono rocks.
 
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January 10, 2007, 9:14 pm PST

Both of you are angry

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wow i cant beleive you carry a angrey heart in to a new year, it would seem to me if it were going to anger you soo why did you contact dr phil in the first place? and you are correct it would not cost me any money loss to take 2 days off to go on a all expense paid trip to sunny california, it would be like a mini vacation to me, maybe had you seen that time as i would have you might be able to let go of what ever anger you harbor from your wasted trip to calif. one thing for sure you wernt listening to dr phil. it would seem you wasted his time as well. and yes as a matter of fact as far as my life is concerned i do in deed have all the answers, you see i listen to others,i live with an open mind and i am capable of changing to what ever i need change to get along with others,you too have this capabilty. you just need to stop being so angrey, anger only blocks your mind from change. try it you will be a happier person.you seem to worry about money more than you do your own happiness.you can make more money. you cant replace the happiness you have altready lost. but if it will help you to be happy for  yjis yearim sorry i offended you in my postings. look past my words if it will make you happy. and remember in the feture if you cant afford to let go of a few worthless dollars to go seek help you deemed needed in your life dont go.after all if all you can do is look at what you lost in going to see dr phil not only did you waste your time and his money but yiou stood in the way of some one who would have used his help to better the quality of life they were living. really all you looked for in all this was getting your face on tv hoping in your own mind to be seen as a star.and you assume im an expert at appearing on dr phil? well hell no im no expert BUT i did what you failed to do I LISTENED you do not.
You cannot judge her, only God can judge her.  If you track down her response to you, you will find it all started with you making judgements on her.  You have never apologized to her for that.  It is only human to become angry and defensive at being judged.  You both seem angry.  You both feel judged.  You have said yourself that you cannot judge others and that you want to see others as God sees them.  You have sincerely apologized to others in very heartfelt words. Why not her?  Who knows, she just might apologize to you too.
 
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January 11, 2007, 9:04 am PST

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a lot of Christians misinterpret what they read.  I don't really think the world is 10,000 years old.  The Bible says (God talking) "A day could be a thousand years to me, and a thousand years like a day".  So evolution could have taken place in the genesis of the world.  A million years could have been "a day".  So it's the old "which came first, the chicken or the egg..." question.  The Christian argument could be that if God created the world, then the Christian faith has really been around since the beginning of the universe.  But the term "Christian" and worship of Jesus came later ( the term "Christian" began in Antioch)....but I ramble on, my uncle teaches Biblical archeology at a Christian university so I have a genetic tendency to ramble! LOL!

 

 

LOL  That's okay, I have a tendancy to ramble too. =)
 
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January 11, 2007, 10:34 am PST

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I like that answer!  Like your Bono pix!  Bono rocks.
Yes...Bono does rock! I am gonna change it back now that you mention it. (Currently have Napoleon Dynamite LOL)


 
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January 12, 2007, 5:07 pm PST

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You cannot judge her, only God can judge her.  If you track down her response to you, you will find it all started with you making judgements on her.  You have never apologized to her for that.  It is only human to become angry and defensive at being judged.  You both seem angry.  You both feel judged.  You have said yourself that you cannot judge others and that you want to see others as God sees them.  You have sincerely apologized to others in very heartfelt words. Why not her?  Who knows, she just might apologize to you too.
well if you already know where i judged her go back to it and use ur note pad and re post the post i was quoting and my quote please.
 
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January 12, 2007, 10:45 pm PST

Judgement one

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the mother would seem to use this holy time of year to punish her children  by making one feel not as worthy as the other!
 
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January 12, 2007, 10:50 pm PST

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wow we give gifts to all the children, no matter whear they live, as for you spending money to go on dr phils show? wow not only do you lie to your self but you sit infront of a computer and dare lie to me as well, dr phil paid your way 100% if you were a guest on his show!! and val i wouldnt want you to contact me in any other way than  posting me back here on dr phil dot com, after all i know dr phil looks out for us all and will not let any one have personal info, and this way also keeps key loggers out of my computer, you see there are a lot of theives out there and as far as i know you could be one aswell, no i think you will just have to be happy with the mods here at dr phil dot com, i trust them to keep the topics clean and safe for every one,and fair !!! as far as getting set in the right direction? which way is up !!!!!?

 

She was called a liar here.
 
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January 12, 2007, 11:13 pm PST

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wow i cant beleive you carry a angrey heart in to a new year, it would seem to me if it were going to anger you soo why did you contact dr phil in the first place? and you are correct it would not cost me any money loss to take 2 days off to go on a all expense paid trip to sunny california, it would be like a mini vacation to me, maybe had you seen that time as i would have you might be able to let go of what ever anger you harbor from your wasted trip to calif. one thing for sure you wernt listening to dr phil. it would seem you wasted his time as well. and yes as a matter of fact as far as my life is concerned i do in deed have all the answers, you see i listen to others,i live with an open mind and i am capable of changing to what ever i need change to get along with others,you too have this capabilty. you just need to stop being so angrey, anger only blocks your mind from change. try it you will be a happier person.you seem to worry about money more than you do your own happiness.you can make more money. you cant replace the happiness you have altready lost. but if it will help you to be happy for  yjis yearim sorry i offended you in my postings. look past my words if it will make you happy. and remember in the feture if you cant afford to let go of a few worthless dollars to go seek help you deemed needed in your life dont go.after all if all you can do is look at what you lost in going to see dr phil not only did you waste your time and his money but yiou stood in the way of some one who would have used his help to better the quality of life they were living. really all you looked for in all this was getting your face on tv hoping in your own mind to be seen as a star.and you assume im an expert at appearing on dr phil? well hell no im no expert BUT i did what you failed to do I LISTENED you do not.

Here her feelings are judged, her motives for doing the show are brought into question, and in your defense of yourself she is being attacked for judging you.  It's easy for you to track her posts to see which what you responded to and how she responded. She does not have many posts.  Just click on her user name on the message here and you will reach her profile.  Then click on "view all messages of this member."

 

I know how hard it is to not fire back a response when you see a post that is upsetting or when someone says something that hurts.  And I can see from your writing style that you like to pour out your feelings.  I just don't like to see two people go at each other on message boards.  You could try getting up and taking a drink of water, thinking somethings out first before responding.  Don't mean to judge you myself. 

 

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