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July 30, 2005, 6:09 am PDT

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Rebecca, you are very eloquent.  Don't ever apologize for writing all of your feelings.  There's nothing wrong with a long post.  The thing that struck a chord with me in your post was the thoughts of being disgusting.  This has been on my mind quite a bit lately.  I didn't see the recent dr. phil show on sex, but one of the quotes really resonated with me.  You know, having eleven children doesn't mean I love sex.  I don't.  I rarely enjoy it.  My husband has obviously demonstrated to me that his feelings for me have not changed.  He is in love with me and desires me just as strongly as he did when we were first married.  I'm very grateful for his attitude and his love.  But I wish I could feel the same way.  I'm embarrassed and feel the "disgusting" label every minute of my life.  It is easy to feel this way because of the looks I get if I wear shorts or even if I don't.  People are disgusted by me and I am by myself.  And even though my husband isn't, I can't get past it.

 

Beverley, lovely to see you here and counting the days to when you'll be a regular fixture again.

 

Cindy, I have still stayed off the scale, but must confess to measuring the other day.  Personally, I don't think staying off has done any good.  I need the daily reinforcement.  I like the daily reinforcement.  Also, it gives me clues, like if I eat salty food, I immediately gain water weight, so it helps me know what will not help me!  I'm afraid I'm just going to go back to weighing.  There is value in it and I don't see any negatives.

 

About your job, I'm sorry you weren't able to get the position, but it doesn't make you any less of a quality person.  I think you're great and I'm sure your patients love you.  Would that I could be one!

 

Love,  Millie

 
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July 30, 2005, 8:36 am PDT

Thanks for sharing all these great posts

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Lifting weights, aerobic workouts, and stretching all benefit skin, the largest organ of the body.

 

 

Exercise increases circulation, which increases delivery of nutrients to skin cells and speeds removal of damaging toxins, especially surface contaminants like cigarette smoke, air pollution, and even certain chemicals in hair spray, deodorant, and shower gels.

 

 

Exercise gives skin the optimum conditions for making collagen support fibers. Fibroblasts, the collagen-producing cells in the skin, become fewer in number and lazier with age so skin becomes less firm, drier, and more wrinkled. Exercise infuses skin cells with oxygen and nutrients.

 

 

Exercise mediates the production of testosterone-related hormones such as DHEA and DHT, a major part of acne flare-ups, androgenic hair loss, and stress.

 

 

Exercise increases sweating, which in turn can unclog pores and have a positive effect on breakouts.

 

 

Certain exercises can break up pockets of cellulite which forms when fibrous connections in skin are pulled tighter creating those puckering pockets of fat. Toning and pulling the muscles with Pilates or weight training reverses that tension because a well toned muscle is more pliable.

 

 

Exercise relaxes your whole body, including the muscles in your face. Eventually crow's feet and anger expression lines soften up.

 

 

Exercise gives a rosy pink glow, as compared to a yellow-green or ashen grey cast, to the skin.

 

 

If you are properly hydrating during exercise you will get better blood flow to the skin. This encourages the elimination of toxins that would otherwise accumulate in the skin cells, especially for those who overindulge in alcohol, drugs, and / or junk food.

 

 

The effects of facial exercises, beauty calisthenics, are temporary at best and may cause you to develop more lines and creases from overusing certain facial muscles.

 I really love the posts you share with us--all these great comments on exercise have me fired up again to do something GOOD for my body again. I know I've been working hard at decluttering and getting ready to sell the house, but it's not really for ME--it's for the house. And it doesn't give really good cardio OR resistance, just a lot of intermittent bull work and puttering amidst a sea of junk. Well, today I will get in some IE that has NO PRODUCTIVE REASON other than to help my body.

Have a great weekend.

Cherie

 
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July 30, 2005, 8:39 am PDT

NEVER FEAR

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You better try an get you some much needed rest this week-end lady(PLEASE) you're starting to worry me.I want you to do at least alittle something for yourself(even if its just a nice long nap,shower,bath.....SOMETHING! I know you have ALOT on your plate(don't we all) but we all need to take care of ourselves along the way to. I love you
 Just wanted to reassure you that I did get a lot of sleep last night -- 7 hours. And I'll be taking several naps today as well as getting in some IE other than working on decluttering this house. Most of what I have been doing is weeding out boxes of junk anyway which is mostly sedentary except for the trips up and down stairs to get to the boxes. Well, today is "take care of Cherie day" and I'll be doing a little more of that every day from now on. But today is TOTALLY devoted to me. I really got too run down this week and need to focus on things that rejuvenate me.

Thanks for caring and have a great weekend.

Cherie

p.s. What kind of "open house" were you having? Are you selling your place? And how did it go? Hope it was a good one.

 
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July 30, 2005, 8:43 am PDT

BEV

 I'm so happy to see you here a couple of days early!! What a nice surprise! Hope your month was productive and restful. I'm so glad you found your way back to us and evidently didn't decide to leave us behind in your next year's plan. Enjoy the weekend and we'll see you back on Monday for sure.

Cherie
 
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July 30, 2005, 9:28 am PDT

Beverly! Hey!

Hi Bev!  I'm so glad your back and posting!  I really needed to hear your post on negative thinking!  I've been down today but I've been shaking it off.  Your post gave me the kick I needed to get my stuff done without the negative sometimes not so little voice!  I hope you have a great day!  Hugs from Dee!
 
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July 30, 2005, 9:30 am PDT

Cindy!

Hi Cindy!  I'm glad your not putting yourself down.  I KNOW what that's like.  Like Bev said it's something you need to stay on top of and change.  I'm not as good at that as I'd like to be, YET!  Have a great day!  Hugs from Dee!
 
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July 30, 2005, 9:33 am PDT

Who got the patches?

Hey do we know who got the patches yet?  I know I'm not one but I'd like to know who kicked my butt! LOL!  Have a geat day! Dee!
 
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July 30, 2005, 9:50 am PDT

Thanks...

Thanks everyone for your kind remarks, Some of the things that helped me the most this past month were... *Not weighing, Did it only twice. *When I wanted to eat something I shouldn't tell my self I had to wait until tomorrow then I could have it. By then I didn't want it LOL *Reading motivating stuff everyday. *Telling my self I would exercise 5 out of 7 days then if I only hit 4 it was OK. Most of the time I hit 5 though. Cherie, I think you might be surprised how much you could lose in a month if you eat perfect everyday no temporary offs or cold water thrown on your fire. Exercise 4 to 5 times a week even if only for a half hour. and don't weigh. I would never have thought I could lose 24# either not sure it will be that much this next month but I'm going to give it a try. I challenge everyone to just try this for one month.     Well, we got the car fixed I really think it was the Lord telling me we should have it checked out. There was this squeak in the left front wheel. I figured since we would be traveling we should make sure everything was OK. So on Wed. we took it to one place who told us it needed brake pads 2 calipers and a roder and would cost over $600. He was real pushy and I just didn't feel right didn't know why but you know the gut feeling you get and if you don't listen to it something bad can happen. Well I just figured maybe we only needed pads and the guy was ripping us off and that was why I felt the way I did so I told Dave I wanted to get another estimate so yesterday Thur. we went to another place and they said the same thing except that it need 2 roders not just one which would cost less then the first guy for just one, but then he said we also need ball joints REALLY bad and for everything it would cost $890 he said the ball joins were so bad that we could be just driving down the rode and the wheel would fall off and it could cause an accident the car could roll it could be serious. So I talked to Dave and said lets go one more place, Bell Tire where my Dad always took his car. Because now I'm wondering why the first guy didn't tell us that. So we went there. They said the very same thing the second guy said and even showed David. He said you can't drive it like this it could kill you. He charged us $850.   Yesterday I was really depressed about everything but didn't eat over it. I had gotten my check for writing $140 I thought it was going to be more because I had several people writing which I get money for also. Thank you Loretta, Cindy, and Autumn for your help couldn't have done it without you. The more people you have the more money you get. So it wasn't what I was expecting and then I had hoped to get my three wheel bike with it and because of car couldn't had to use it toward the car. I also thought I was going to have to spend my vacation with my Mom instead of dropping her off and going further up north by ourselves, because we wouldn't have enough money. But Dave got a couple cash charter runs so we are going to go at least for one day. So I'm feeling better today. At least my whole vacation won't be with my Mom. I know that sounds bad but I can't help it. She can really get on your nerves and she is very negative about everything. I'm also very thankful I listened to my gut feelings because I don't always listen. I really think it was the Lord. David is working Sun. morning and then we are going as soon as he gets back.   When I get back I'll start to try and save again for my bike maybe by next summer I can get one. It just gets frustrating because it seems every time I just start to get some money saved something happens and I have to use it.   I'm going to try and learn how to sell on e-bay I got a book so while I'm gone going to read it and find out what to do so maybe I can make money that way. My neighbor was moving and tossed out tons of baby toys that were his little boys hardly played with he was a weekend dad so I brought them home going to try and sell them plus stuff we have around here. I just don't know what to charge for stuff. Like I have a set of very old bibles and know they are worth something. My Mom thinks I should keep them but all they are doing is collecting dust and I would rather be out riding LOL so if I can get a price some how,  good by books LOL Well hope you guys have a great weekend Hugs Jan
 
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July 30, 2005, 10:53 am PDT

Just dropping by to say hello

Hello E 1 what is everyone up to on this fine Sat.  I as reading some one post about negitive thinking. That is a tough one and I know I still struggle with that a lot of the time still.  I resently went to a childs birthday party and I didn't know everyone  but I sat near the people I knew.  The yard is on a slant and I had a difficult time just walking to my seat.  So I decided not to move but stay put until I had to leave.  I made eye contact w/ people and I smiled and said hello and a few people said hello back and smiled.  But the ones that just look at you and don't even acknowlege you.   I can feel shame rising up inside of me and I just want to dissapear.   I must say I did okay w/my eatting but the neg. thoughts I have towards ME because I did this to myself and I not only hurt me but my family.  My sons have never said that they are ashamed of me but some how I know.  My husband on the other hand has said things to me and yet it just never got thru to me.  I think I am doing pretty well this  month w/ my eatting I have had a few slip ups but have gotte back on track ( I love Jan's thoughts about the train so I am using her idea to keep on down the track w/ very hot fire)   I just thought I would put in my ramblings.  Please all have a wonderful weekend healthy choices and 1E.  See you all on Sun.  Have a Good one Wendie    
 
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July 30, 2005, 11:08 am PDT

Good Afternoon E1!

Welcome back Bev!!!Glad to see you posting again,your words of inspiration really help me a great deal as well as others on this board.You have made such a change in yourself and it gives me the hope I need to stay focused while on this VERY CHALLENGING JOURNEY!I commend you and E1 else for taking a stand in your life and turning all those NEGATIVE ways into POSITIVE ones!!!W2G E1!We can do this.BBS
 
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