Quote From: dee0123Would be nice to hear from a man's point of view on things..Since, this is 'ask the opposite sex'..Like, whom they would consider 'hot' or 'sexy' or just whom they feel is pretty/cute/attractive, etc. etc..I have a question too...(ok maybe a few lol) Does men like 'belly' piercing? Because, me and my 17 1/2 yr. old daughter, just had one done..It was a FUN experience! This is the only piercing (besides, the ear) that I and my daughter likes...I don't like tatoos...sometimes, I like to use those fake ones..just, for fun...Another question for men...Would you say your idea mate, would be someone that is career minded and/or is in a career and makes good money? Because, I've never been into making my life about all that..I feel I'm into doing the best for me, and I like getting an education...and throughout my life, I will always want to better myself..I just hope that someone, would like me for 'me'...I like ppl that are educated etc., but do you think that a man, would/could fall in love with someone that isn't? I don't say that they consider themselves not smart, but I heard that a few times..What a man likes..and I don't consider myself as being 'smart' for say..My once brother-in-law, (ex's brother) married an ambious woman...She was so much so, that he divorced her..it didn't work out..But, he always said, that's what he's looking for...Well, the next woman too was ambious..but, that didn't last either..Then, sorry to say 'he died'...(he died young) I feel he died not really feeling 'love'...But, perhaps that's just my thoughts..Once, I hear a man say he likes intellectually stimulating women, I freeze..I guess, I feel I'm not one of them..(although, ppl are saying differently..but, I guess I don't believe them..just feel they like me..so, they'll say I am) anyway...I wish I didn't feel this way...but, I do..So, to you all feel differently on this subject? thanks Dee
I'm a man and have a point of view, lol
I consider my wife hot and sexy. In a fake world like movie stars and such, I think a women like Catherine Zeta Jones is nice looking or at least my type. I like a classy women, not a Britney Spears type, but a Diane Lane type or Susan Sarandon. I'm 31, blonde hair, blue eyes, but like the more sophisticated women, someone that likes me. I like belly piercing on the right person. My wife also has one, lol Tattoos, just depends on the area, on a women tattoos can look bad in certain places like arms. My wife also has 4 tattoos and I have 5. I love a women who can think and talk about deeper things, such as politics, religion, etc. I love a sense of humor, because how can you not laugh in a relationship.
I like a working women and a woman that can defend her stance on anything she believes. I like the natural look on a women, because something about make-up, makes me feel a women is hiding behind something. I want to know she will look the same when I wake up next to her. I feel that women hide behind the make-up, so much so that they cannot be seen without it. I don't like insecurity, even just ok women can look good with confidence. I don't care about money and it's a turn off when a women does. If I had a first date and a women asked what I do and how much money I make, That would be a red flag for me.
I guess my biggest thing is the money. I feel people can be happy without much and money causes many problems in relationships. Superficial women turn me off. Racists or Racists comments turn me off. Oh and the , I'm a women you are a man and the whole " we have our roles" thing turns me off. Things should always be equal. So I hope this helps a bit. I was summons off the Debating among different religious beliefs board to answer this question, lol
