Topic : Ask The Opposite Sex

doesit drive you crazy? I like it to. anyother women out there like it to. Let me know ok.

I have this wonderful women I have been involved with the last several months. WE both come with our own (ex) baggage ,and children. The thing is we or she/ I have a hard time working out problems with things. It is my thing with making changes in when seeing my daughter or we just not getting along with some things. I love this women, and I have ask her to marry me to. can we work it out or not? pleas elet me know ok God Bless   Randy

Why do you feel the need to marry her randy?  I don't think your anywhere near ready for a marriage.  If you seriously love this girl, then I would suggest you get some counseling and straighten some things out.  I'm not saying this to insult you, but I don't think your a very stable person.  Probably what caused problems in your first couple marriages.  You have much more baggage than you think. Doesn't she deserve the best of you?  Why don't you focus on repairing the damage that's been done in your life first? 

Oh, and it shows poor character to use this board to talk to her indirectly like you do quite often. 

Hey you do not even know me from another person on these boards to say I am unstable. First I have been seeing this women sense last August ,and  my two falied marrages have nothing to do with this. Just so you know this we talk on the phone, text ,and I M almost daily. We both also know ,and read each others post we put on here. There is a lot you do not know about here. There is or was a women stalking me on these boards so I/we had to  make it sould like we were talking (indirectly) to each other so this person would mind her own business. I would think Turk that you would be more respectful about things especailly with putting it on a public forum like this. The thigs is Turk If you would have replied to my post a few months ago you would have been brought up to speed on where things were really. There are others on here that have done this, and were shown why things were like thay are or were. We are not hiding any more. You may have seen this by (our) recent post. Now this women  may bee reading this ,and yurn our life up side down again  Thanks Turk.       Randy

first off, last august wasn't that far away bud.  Second, you didn't answer my question, "Why do you feel the need to JUMP INTO MARRIAGE WITH HER?  You've both failed 2 of them, why hurry to fail another?  Why not wait until you more ready for it?  Are you letting your ex manipulate you? I just don't get this.  As far as your unstability goes, do you really want me to give you a breakdown of my psychoanalysis on this public forum?  I don't think I have to, because I'm sure you have a better insight into than I could ever have.  Your compulsive nature is obvious.  I don't think you realize that your actually asking a person to marry you that probably is no where near ready for that kind of commitment with you.  You're acting like that naive little teeny bopper that jumps the gun because it's his first love.  Your the one that put this on a public forum.  Your the one that asked for our input!  Now you're upset because I gave you my honest opinion.  The mere fact that you've even asked her to marry you shows that you're a little unstable.  I'm not meaning this in a disrespectful way, it is just the way I see it.  I have nothing but good intentions for the both of you in mind.  There is no need to rush marriage. 

There is not rush into marrage, and has never been. We both have been spending time talking, and seeing each other to be more sure of our feelings. It would be stupid to marry so soon after meeting. As far as the unstable part there is none. I am no more unstable then you. For soem reason there has been people not wanting me to see this women, and for the life of me I cannot understand this. Anyway I have to get to work. Have a great day.      Randy

Hello. Long time no hear from you. Hope thigns are getting better. Anyway I have not heard from her in a while, but we botha re concerned with her coming to her email or the boards. We both know it is not her business (stalking women), but she feels she needs to mind others business. I have told her to spam the email address to stop them  also, but I do not know if she has done it. Thanks for your information on this. Hope things work out for you there.     Randy