Topic : Ask The Opposite Sex

Oh, my mistake, I thought this was all about you wanting to marry her.  I would say have a long term relationship first.  You say you're no more unstable than I am.  I hate to break it to ya bud, but I'm not the most stable person.  I share your compulsive trait which makes it easy for me to recognize it in you.  I, too, need to work on my impulsiveness.  Maybe, I have been given a false impression due to all this confusion from the stalker thing, cause you're posts are all over the place sometimes.  I am one of those people that doesn't think she should see you, until you get your mess straightened up.  You seem like a good guy, with good intentions, but from the little information I have, it seems you aren't ready for a relationship.  From what I seen lately, you are working on this, and hopefully things will work out if you keep on it. 

I think it says a lot when you can recognize your own compulsiveness. Most people do not and I give you so much credit for that. We all have our hurdles to overcome in this life and at least you acknowledge yours which is the first step in the battle. I probably have a few things to recognize and determine which to put at the top of the list for fixing. Maybe it would be wearing my heart on my sleeve???

I do not feel I am impulsive or any such thing about it. I do know what I need in life, ands she has also or we would not still be seeing each other,  I think you have bitten off more then you can chew at this point. I think also you need to look at your not so good points before you start working on others first. I think this is why these boards are here for the most point. As for seeing her we have made our choice, and I feel it is the right thing that we need. We get along great, and have fun when we are together. Yes it does say a lot to recognize your compulsivness. I agree. The thing is that when you have felt something to be right, and to make you happy then there will be things to work on to please the other you need in your life, and if both parties are willing they both  will make changes to see that there lives together are what we need them to be. Best wishes in yours Turk. I really mean this ok. As for us we will continue to work on the relationship, and to better it as we grow closer.    Randy

ok, I'm confused, are you talking to turk or vlinderby, or both? You quoted vlinderby, but I can't tell what part of what you said was directed at her, and what part was directed at turk.

I don't understand why y'all are worried about "stalker woman" Who cares if she posts on the boards? Most of us already know who she is, and know not to take much that she says to heart. Why go to all that work just to put up a front for her? If you can't change your email, then just delete them, no biggie. If you can't change your phone number then just don't answer it. She is only causing problems if you let her. Let her call, let her write, let her post. Just ignore the crazy woman! It's something to laugh about really. She's obsessed.

Bitten off more than I could chew?  Please buddy, I'm being kind by holdng my tongue and I will continue to do so as long as you what yours.  This post is low, and it further illustrates the character you probably keep in hiding.

I am done with replying to you Turk. I think your just to young to learn until you have a few hard knocks in life to understand tings more. Have a nice day buddy.

Well, that's never a good argument..the "you're too young" argument doesn't hold a drop of water.

Hi penny lady! I have to disagree with you on that one. I've been young and I've been old, and if I only knew then what I know now, and I hated hearing it then just as much as you hate hearing it now. But it's the truth and believe it or not, you will be the one saying the same thing some day. I'm not saying that it necessarly applies to the posts that you are referring to, but it does hold true in the basic scheme of things. SOMETIMES it is a good argument.

Hey maybe it is atill hard for the younger kids to believe it until they grow up, and get knoocked around in the life of living, and trying to survive. I think it is a good argument as long it is not abused. I tell me dad today 27 years after school was out that the older I get the smarter he gets or I tell my mother this to. WEll it is time to go.   Randy From Gods Country