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August 12, 2005, 7:26 am PDT

HI DONNA

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Sorry I have not been around a lot lately...just busy with work, grandsons, etc...good to see/read all the wonderful posts.  Bevo, love your turquoise and the song - great...like you I need to kick start...weight has been fluctuating a lot here lately, even showed a gain for several days - cannot figure out what or where the problem lies... 

  

Geez, Alice you need to grow fins you spend so much time in the pool (I'm jealous) I try to get in at least an hour myself, it is my favorite form of IE..but with the weather lately just when I get home the t-storms want to start and that kills pooltime - even a the water aerobics they make up get out of the water (lightening!!!) 

  

Karen and friends, you are all doing great on the RSP.  Reen is still out there golfing,,you are going to have the best toned legs going g/f..Karen, your job certainly does agree with you, look at you , up to your elbows in it - great job, proud of you sister,,,Susie, Shirley, Marion, Nancy, Vicki, Mary, Rose, Sharon and all my other lovely friends, I do hope you all know how much you mean to me and that you are all in my heart and prayers each day...God bless you all....keep up the good work, you are in control of your life, your plan, only you can do this for yourself...love yourself, give yourself the best present in the world, good health for a long life...love, peace and prayers.........Donna 

You had mentioned in your last post that you are very busy with work and your G/S's but so nice to see you back on the board, you have been missed. 

 

You say your weight has been fluctuating lately - sometimes in the summer I find that if it is extremely hot and humid that there can be a problem with water retention and then as soon as the weather evens out a bit that my weight goes back down - or it can even happen if you are not getting enough water.  You are so right when you say, "only you can do this for yourself", but aren't we fortunate to have each other for support. 

Hugs and Love, Shirley 

 
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August 12, 2005, 7:31 am PDT

Donna, you mean the world to me too...

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Sorry I have not been around a lot lately...just busy with work, grandsons, etc...good to see/read all the wonderful posts.  Bevo, love your turquoise and the song - great...like you I need to kick start...weight has been fluctuating a lot here lately, even showed a gain for several days - cannot figure out what or where the problem lies... 

  

Geez, Alice you need to grow fins you spend so much time in the pool (I'm jealous) I try to get in at least an hour myself, it is my favorite form of IE..but with the weather lately just when I get home the t-storms want to start and that kills pooltime - even a the water aerobics they make up get out of the water (lightening!!!) 

  

Karen and friends, you are all doing great on the RSP.  Reen is still out there golfing,,you are going to have the best toned legs going g/f..Karen, your job certainly does agree with you, look at you , up to your elbows in it - great job, proud of you sister,,,Susie, Shirley, Marion, Nancy, Vicki, Mary, Rose, Sharon and all my other lovely friends, I do hope you all know how much you mean to me and that you are all in my heart and prayers each day...God bless you all....keep up the good work, you are in control of your life, your plan, only you can do this for yourself...love yourself, give yourself the best present in the world, good health for a long life...love, peace and prayers.........Donna 

Always great to see your posts, they warm my soul always g/f... 

Yes, I do love my work, so do my elbows, tee hee... 

Just hang in there kiddo, and those stubborn pounds will eventually give up and let go...winking... 

I had a weak moment last night in the food dept but think it will be okay...It's a forever learning process for me...lol... 

Keep up the good work kiddo and don't get too discouraged...it will all come together for us all...smiling...we have a lifetime to live this lifestyle and one day it will all come so naturally...I believe this...lots of practice makes it closer to perfect..ha ha... 

Love, peace and prayers to you too sweetie..and have a wonderful day... 

Hugs, 

Karen 

 
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August 12, 2005, 7:35 am PDT

HI ALICE

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  I  live in SC so it is fairly warm but am not able to swim usually form November thru February so during that time I walk last winter my neighbor and I walked 5 miles each day and continued till it got too hot this summer but we hope to pick back up when the temperatures get a little cooler so we are not coming back soaking wet from the sweat.  Ok glowing.  I forgot.   

      I am so glad that you are doing so well with the RSP as for some reason when I have tried it after a few days I begin craving more foods and each time I have stopped it and gone on to the regular stage 2 plan I guess and it continues to work for me slow but it works when I follow it exactly.    You are very right that the time flies when you are in the water at least for me it does.  I think I should have been a fish as I love the water especially when it is hot outside and the water is cool.  I went in again tonight for about 30 minutes to cool down and do some aqua noodle exercising.  I call it my aqua bike.  But I got out as the mosquitoes thought that I was their dinner. 

        I hope everyone has a good evening and drank all of their water today.      Alice 

You have lovely weather in beautiful South Carolina.  So nice that you can swim right into October and then start again in March.  A 5 mile walk a day certainly gets all your IE in during the other months.  We will watch for you and your friend glowing along the way. 

 

 I had a bit of a craving again yesterday on the RSP and I chose to have a cracker and some peanut butter and that seemed to help.  I know that  was what you could call a slip - and I am not going to feel guilty over it - just carry on in a better fashion today.  Am rooting for you, Alice, to be under that 160 mark on Monday.  Have fun on your aqua bike today.  Hugs, Shirley 

 
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August 12, 2005, 5:08 pm PDT

Reen/Pooz

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I POSTED ON THE OTHER BOARD A EXPLAINED WHERE I HAVE BEEN. . MOSTLY IN THE HOSPITAL WITH MY 1 AND ONLY DAUGHTER. . .I HAVE ONLY SCANNED THE POSTS. . BUT I AM THRILLED. . .THAT . .VICKIE. . YOUR KIDS WENT SHOPPING AND BOUGHT WHAT THEY WANTED. . BUT. . YOUR PICTURES DID NOT COME THROUGH ON MY PUTER.  

 

 

 

KAREN. . I AM SO HAPPY THAT THE JOB IS BECOMING MORE REWARDING AND LESS PAINFULL. MARION. . . . WE ARE GOING TO HAVE THE TIME OF OUR LIVES. . IF NOT I DO DECLARE I REFUSE TO TAKE THE  BLAME. . .  

 

 

TO ALL OF YOU SHOULD YOU DROP IN FOR A VISIT/ / / PLEASE EXCUSE THE UNTIDYNESS. . AS MY PRIORITIES ARE NOW WITH MY DAUGHTER. . BUT BOTH SHE AND DON AND I WILL WELCOME YOU WITH OPEN ARMS IF YOU PROMISE NOT TO JUDGE. . .THIS WEEK HAS BEEN ANOTHER LESSON FOR ME IN JUST HOW PRECIOUS LIFE REALLY IS.. . AND WHAT IS REALLY IMPORTANT. . . . I REALIZE JUST HOW IMPORTANT SHE IS. . . TO US 

 

 

MAY YOU ALL HAVE LOVE AND LAUGHTER. . AND A LIFE WITHOUT STRESS. . .MAYBE WE SHOULD ALL ADAPT THE ATTITUDE THAT WE ARE HERE FOR A GOOD TIME AND NOT A LONG TIME. . BUT SHOULD WE BE HERE FOR A LONG TIME. . . LET IT BE HEALTHY. .AS WELL AS HAPPY. . .LUV YA ALL. . .REEN/POOZ 

Girlfriend--When I pop in for a visit, it will be you that I want to see.  I could care less how tidy your house is.........probably feel more at home if it is not too tidy.....LOL.  Don't worry about it.  As you said, your priority now is with your daughter as it should be.  She is so lucky to have a loving caring mother like you at her time of need.  

  

Your message is so true. We spend so much time worrying about what will be in the future. We should stop and smell the roses and enjoy each day to its fullest. 

  

Love ya.  Marion/BC 

 
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August 13, 2005, 5:43 am PDT

Over 50 WLC Community

Even tho I have been drinking my water faithfully and at times much more that 64 oz...doing my IE (not everyday - but at least 3-4 time a week) my eating has really been very off plan - in fact I dont think it was at all on plan - I have gained2#'s this week...  

 

When I got up this AM I was going to go to the gym for my water aerobics, but it looks like we are going to have heavy t-storms and they will make us get outta the pool...so, that plus the fact that my weight is up I am kinda getting into that "I dont give a damn" frame of mind...this has been such a struggle for me for the last several months...I am going to step back and take some time away for a few weeks to rethink my plan/motives/necessary actions and just re-examine my thoughts...so I can be a more productive, positive influence again...love ya all and will miss you - but I need to do this. My e-mail address is in the profile if you wish to drop me an e-mail....  

Y'all are doing great here, keep us the good work...keep that positive attitude, work your plan, be good to yourself..you will be in my prayers....love and peace always.........Donna  

 
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August 13, 2005, 6:49 am PDT

Good Saturday Morning

Glad to see so many people finding the way back to this board. So sorry Reen for what's happening to your daughter. Be where you need to be, we will all be here when you get back. I don't know what the problem is, but I will pray for your family. I look forward to having a longer chat with you. Love to all, Cindy
 
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August 13, 2005, 3:50 pm PDT

WHERE IS EVERYONE

I bet you are all out in this beautiful sunshine having fun and drinking your water and doing IE - am I right?  Am off to have some fun too.  Hugs, Shirley 

 
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August 13, 2005, 7:25 pm PDT

Girlfriend you are not alone...

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Even tho I have been drinking my water faithfully and at times much more that 64 oz...doing my IE (not everyday - but at least 3-4 time a week) my eating has really been very off plan - in fact I dont think it was at all on plan - I have gained2#'s this week...  

 

When I got up this AM I was going to go to the gym for my water aerobics, but it looks like we are going to have heavy t-storms and they will make us get outta the pool...so, that plus the fact that my weight is up I am kinda getting into that "I dont give a damn" frame of mind...this has been such a struggle for me for the last several months...I am going to step back and take some time away for a few weeks to rethink my plan/motives/necessary actions and just re-examine my thoughts...so I can be a more productive, positive influence again...love ya all and will miss you - but I need to do this. My e-mail address is in the profile if you wish to drop me an e-mail....  

Y'all are doing great here, keep us the good work...keep that positive attitude, work your plan, be good to yourself..you will be in my prayers....love and peace always.........Donna  

I couldn't tell you how many times I too feel just as you...and if you need this time to wrangle things through , you take it my dear...do what you need to do..for you know we are all here for you, whenever you need some support...love and friendship...will eagerly await your return...and be good to you too, and know that you are in my prayers as well....love ya,,, 

Hugs, 

Karen 

 
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August 13, 2005, 10:41 pm PDT

hello

I wrote this before coming to the boards 

well rain and thunderstorms have came in to my area and we are suppose to have storms all week-end.this probably has alot to do with my current problems with hands etc. 

  

  

  

I am still not able to use my hands to type.but as you know where there's a will there's a way. 

  

  

I found this on screen keyboard on my computer and thought I'd give this a try.i have it set on hover so i don't even have to click the mouse to type a letter,i just move the mouse to pick the letters ,holding the mouse is the only difficulty i have to work out.still checking that issue out.i am alittte slow at typing this way yet,will get better with some practice. this is better then not being able to write at all.  

of course i will have to write my messages on word pad first then paste to the board post area other wise the site system will be signing me out for being idle to long alot.but being slow is better then not doing at all.i appreciate everyones understanding and patients while i am trying to work threw the recent problems i am trying to cope with where my hands abilities are concerned.i hope the spell checker will catch any errors i might be making typing this way til i get better at doing things this way.lol  

  

well holding the mouse to do this is starting to get more difficult and painful.i will end here..I miss you all, i hope your all enjoying your week-end.I haven't read the back posts yet but I will,just won't be able to respond right away. 

I will keep working on healing and coming back again as soon as possible. 

  

  

vickie 

 
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August 14, 2005, 7:35 am PDT

I see you peeking..ha ha

So many times we just read the posts and don't post ourselves, well I'm posting as without any posts to read , how is there any support given or received...??? lol.. 

Got an email from Neecey awhile ago, and she is having trouble finding us...hope my directions were clear enough...then today I received an email from Raven in Oregon, she can read our posts but as of yet cannot access to post..gave her some ideas too...smiling... I'm sure many are still finding it hard to adjust or access but in time if you don't give up you will get here again..smiling... Raven is maintaining and doing very well, she has another 20 pounds to go...woooohooooo Raven, good job... 

 

Vickie, don't overdo sweetie, just take the time you need to recover from the difficulties with your hands...I agree the weather sure can wreak havoc on the muscles and joints...that good old arthritis...smiling...  I awoke this morning with "puffy eyes" looks like I was on a bender...lol...too much sodium these past three days..so need to really watch it...rest, relax and recover...praying for you dear...hugs... 

 

Teresa, holding you near in thought, prayers and love...miss you sweetie, and hope your mom is coming along much better....talk to you soon...hugs... 

 

I was doing well for the 5 days and then Boom it all started with a little "slip" and then over the past 2 days increased to a "slide "...I've been really trying to sort through this continual sabbotage I create for myself...Ok , sure I'm an emotional eater, but I think it is even deeper than that...and in some ways simpler too...it is a HABIT that is FAMILIAR and despite how awful it makes me feel when I don't eat as I should, I continue in it... 

Now Dr P says to change this habit, it needs to be REPLACED with something else that is positive and not conduent to food...so my search is on for something that will work effectively...Yes, I know about all the list of things to do instead of..but I need to find the one that gives me the same "payoff"...so my search is on....I also am so aware of my inward anger towards situations I really had no control over...so am dealing with this too...thanks for letting me share...I am back on track today, and will work really hard at the internal dialogue and IMPULSIVE Actions I do that keeps me in bondage to this cycle of destruction... 

 

I hope everyone has a blessed Sunday, and Pooz give dd my love too...take care of you as well...and that beautiful baby g/d...smiling.. 

 

Hugs to all, 

Karen 

 
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