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Created on : Thursday, January 18, 2007, 08:27:39 pm
Author : witcha2

Hi I need help on a relationship I am having .To start off I have been dating this guy that I am very much in Love with .And my kids that I have are acting up and he is never happy with them .I know they cause problems and are hard to deal with .But also I am upset with him because in three years I haven't meet his family .He has also not told people at his work all the problems we are having just about the kids that are mine.he don't tell them how he was talking to other women and then I found out so he stopped .But yesterday someone set him up and then I was told about it .Now I am lost and confused he said about the dating sites were on to find out what these other women would tell him they thought on stuff the kids are doing .But I did tell him it hurts me and then when this person who set him  he did admit he talked to this woman.But I don't understand why he did that just because he is upset with the kids and hurt me in the proses please any one who can tell me what they think I would be grateful. I am depressed and lost



 
brokeninside
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January 23, 2008, 12:39 am PST

don't play into it

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now that mine is out of the house I can start healing he was and is still doing games I just don't play.

Stand your ground, don't play into his game. I use to do it and lost majorly. Now i'm hurting and hes free and clear of being tied down. while i lost hope, faith, trust, love and whatever a relationship suppose to have. So be strong and don't -play into his games. Move on and ignore his high school games. You got a life and need to be happy.

Aloha

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June 19, 2008, 3:33 am PDT

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           Why would a person have a significant other that didn't like their children? It's not as if your kids just don't like him, so they cause trouble. You said basically that he doesn't care for them. I don't see what your problem is. It seems to me just another desperate person putting themselves and a creep ahead of their own children. It's not as if your married to him and he's their father, and separating him and the kids would be devastating to them. You said yourself he's a cheater and a liar. Does he have a large income and supports you and doesn't make you work? Is that it? You asked the advice of anyone willing to give it, including the untrained, so here is mine. If you haven't already done it, DROP THE ZERO,  AND BECOME A HERO!!!!! Do it for your self, and your children. Especially for them. If you didn't have them, I'd say enjoy the abuse to your hearts content, yet since you do have kids you don't have the right to be so selfish.

 
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