Quote From: lisa_n_
HI everyone, well today is just not my day. I am getting angry and upset and emotional.
First, since this board was shut down, I started going to a different site, healthyweightforum, anyway, a person posted a question today about how much fat you should be eating. Lots of people jumped in and said no more than 30 % fat, and no more than 10% saturated fat. I answered that I try to stay within 20-30% fat, and no more than 10% fat, but I try to stay within the lower range. Anyway, this guy jumps in and says everyone is eating too much fat and you should only be eating 10% fat. I replied back because I don't know how someone can only eat 10% fat and still eat enough calories, if you are only eating 10% fat, you must be hardly eating because I track everything on fitday.com and I eat no more than 1500 calories a day, and my fat intake is usually around 25%, so I don't know how he is coming up with 10% fat, which is not healthy. He replied back quite nasty to me saying if you eat fish or chicken and lots of fruits and veggies and oatmeal, you won't be eating more than 10% fat, well I eat that way most of the time ,with some fat free dairy and low fat carbs, and it is no way 10% fat. Anyway, he's just got me really upset, telling me I'm wrong, and everything. How can people be so rude to others they don't even know??
And to top all that off, I had to go look for a pair of shorts tonight, oh my, what fun, NOT!! I really had it with clothes shopping, it is too depressing, nothing fits, they never have anything in my size, my fat is always hanging out, those mirrors in the dressing rooms are brutal!! I always look so washed out and pale, and the mirrors are so up close, you see all the fat and dimples in your body, I was so disgusted with myself. I know I shouldn't beat myself up about it, but I have gained 60 pounds in 6 years, and I am totally disgusted with myself. It really hit me tonight, it was the first time in a long time I looked at myself in a mirror with just my undergarments on. I looked so disgusting! I know alot of the weight gain was due to medication and other health issues not known yet, but part of it is my own fault. I want this weight off so bad, and I have so much to lose, I don't want to wait forever til it's gone, but I know it will take at least a year. I'm just so upset and emotional right now, I really want to get that ice cream from the freezer, but I am not going to, I don't want to disappoint myself or you guys.
Thanks for listening to me rave.
I'm sorry that person was such a jerk to you. That just shows his little mind can't fathom being civil to people who know what they are talking about. Don't worry about him. He's not worth the time. :)
About the clothes, I'm in the same boat with you. I won't go clothes shopping because of the fear I have, but remember we're working on this new lifestyle to be healthy and it may take awhile for us to get there, but together we're all going to do it!!!
You rave whenever you need to.
I hope your Saturday is better!
Big hugs,
Wendy