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Topic : What's Working In My WLC

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Created on : Monday, July 04, 2005, 02:12:37 pm
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Share your tips and suggestions on what is working for you in your WLC such as exercise, foods, support, life changes, anything that you are doing differently or you know is a healthy life long change and IS WORKING! If you know of things that are NOT WORKING let's hear about them also and we will work on them together.

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July 29, 2005, 6:50 pm PDT

Hello everyone

I am so glad the weekend is finally here.  It's been so hectic at the office, sometimes a vacation just isn't worth it.  Nobody did my job the whole time I was gone so I've been working my a** off.

 

Trish, so glad you found your way here.  Lets get back on track and get back to the program.

 

Christie, I am so happy that you have found a site that helps you to ask the questions and get the answers that are so necessary.

 

Val, I'm still so excited for you and will continue to keep you in my prayers.

 

Bren, how are you this evening?  Hoping to go swimming this Monday night.

 

Niki where are you? 

 

Lisa, I can fully understand where you are coming from with the clothes shopping.  It is so darn frustrating when nothing fits and when you find something the mirrors really hurt.  Since losing some of this weight I've been going to the used clothing stores (Frenchy's in Nova Scotia) and they have a bin of clothes for "full size" and I've found a lot of clothes there.  I have even bought stuff that was too small but after I got home and tried them on they fit. 

 

Also the argument you had with that guy about 10% fat was interesting.  I always thought it was recommended no more than 30% fat.  But is he counting the fat properly??  I wouldn't waste my time trying to correct him, obviously he is right and everyone else is wrong and you'll never convince him otherwise. 

 

Hugs to all my friends.

 

ttfn Love Barbara

 
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July 29, 2005, 7:28 pm PDT

Great news

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Just got home from the Cancer clinic.  I can barely contain my excitement.  I don't have to go through an operation but the Chemo is still on.  It will be like the last time 6 treatments over a period of time.  It will not be as rigorous becasue they advised me that my hair may thin but not fall out.  Ask me how releived I am that there is no operation? Happy I tell ya happy.  I will probably have some sickness, be tired but the most severe thing may be the nausea.  I can handle that.  I can keep on working as long as when I get over tired I am to go home, regardless if the boss likes it or not.  I don't think I'm going to have a problem there, he has had Chrone's disease for years so he is sympathetic when it comes to illnesses.  Thank you for all your prayers and thoughts, it surely helped.  I can't thank any of you enough.

I'm so happy there is no surgery.  You are a stong woman.  We'll continue the prayers and remember when you're getting your treatments that we're all there with you in spirit cheering you on.

 

Re:nausea and tired, isn't there something they can give you to help with that, to a degree anyway.  I can't remember the name of it, but I remember seeing the commercial.  Maybe watching a lot of TV does pay off sometimes huh?  LOL!!

 

Hugs to you friend. 

 

Wendy

 

P.S.  The manicure and pedicure were awesome!  Wish I could afford it everyweek.  The kids were upset I didn't take them with me, but I sure enjoyed being pampered.  wink-wink!

 

 
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July 29, 2005, 7:38 pm PDT

We're here for you

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 HI everyone, well today is just not my day. I am getting angry and upset and emotional.

 

First, since this board was shut down, I started going to a different site, healthyweightforum, anyway, a person posted a question today about how much fat you should be eating. Lots of people jumped in and said no more than 30 % fat, and no more than 10% saturated fat.  I answered that I try to stay within 20-30% fat, and no more than 10% fat, but I try to stay within the lower range. Anyway, this guy jumps in and says everyone is eating too much fat and you should only be eating 10% fat. I replied back because I don't know how someone can only eat 10% fat and still eat enough calories, if you are only eating 10% fat, you must be hardly eating because I track everything on fitday.com and I eat no more than 1500 calories a day, and my fat intake is usually around 25%, so  I don't know how he is coming up with 10% fat, which is not healthy. He replied back quite nasty to me saying if you eat fish or chicken and lots of fruits and veggies and oatmeal, you won't be eating more than 10% fat, well I eat that way most of the time ,with some fat free dairy and low fat carbs, and it is no way 10% fat. Anyway, he's just got me really upset, telling me I'm wrong, and everything. How can people be so rude to others they don't even know??

 

 

And to top all that off, I had to go look for a pair of shorts tonight, oh my, what fun, NOT!!  I really had it with clothes shopping, it is too depressing, nothing fits, they never have anything in my size, my fat is always hanging out, those mirrors in the dressing rooms are brutal!! I always look so washed out and pale, and the mirrors are so up close, you see all the fat and dimples in your body, I was so disgusted with myself. I know I shouldn't beat myself up about it, but I have gained 60 pounds in 6 years, and I am totally disgusted with myself. It really hit me tonight, it was the first time in a long time I looked at myself in a mirror with just my undergarments on. I looked so disgusting! I know alot of the weight gain was due to medication and other health issues not known yet, but part of it is my own fault. I want this weight off so bad, and I have so much to lose, I don't want to wait forever til it's gone, but I know it will take at least a year. I'm just so upset and emotional right now, I really want to get that ice cream from the freezer, but I am not going to, I don't want to disappoint myself or you guys.

 

Thanks for listening to me rave.

 

 

I'm sorry that person was such a jerk to you.  That just shows his little mind can't fathom being civil to people who know what they are talking about.  Don't worry about him.  He's not worth the time.  :)

 

About the clothes, I'm in the same boat with you.  I won't go clothes shopping because of the fear I have, but remember we're working on this new lifestyle to be healthy and it may take awhile for us to get there, but together we're all going to do it!!! 

 

You rave whenever you need to.

 

I hope your Saturday is better!

 

Big hugs,

Wendy

 

 
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July 30, 2005, 4:24 am PDT

Good morning

It's a gorgeous day here in Nova Scotia.  I'm doing my laundry and getting it out on the line.  Then off to do my grocery shopping.  I have a ton of housework to do when I get home, but I just might sit in the sun and tan :)

 

I checked with my scale this morning and I am 10 lbs heavier than I was before I went on my trip to the Dominican Republic so I need to get real about this.  I gained a pound or two on this vacation but I still need to start to lose the weight or else it will be another 10 lbs before I know it.

 

I have read Key #1 since returning home and this week will be working on reviewing Key #2.  Inner Dialogue is the Key to how you approach your life and if you have a negative talk with yourself you will be sabotaging yourself every day. 

 

Turn your dialogue from I can't to I can and I will.

 

Have a wonderful day.

 

ttfn Love Barbara

 
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July 30, 2005, 6:34 am PDT

Good morning fellow boarders

Thanks for all the good wishes. I have been able to sleep alot better knowing that there are folks out there keeping me in their thoughts and good wishes.    Since Nikki hasn't been on the boards I decided to talk to her via the phone.  She has been very busy but wanted me to let you all know that she should be back on the boards come Monday or Tuesday.  Matthew took sick at the day care the other day and come to find out he has strep -throat, but can't give you any more info than that, because we only talked a few short moments.  Take care everyone and have a nice long weekend.
 
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July 30, 2005, 6:52 am PDT

HI BARBARA

  It is so nice to see you back on the board, hope you had a great time on your vacation.

I too have put some weight on since the wedding last week i put myself on the rapid start did well for 4 days then blew it at a Hospice BBQ.

 

I have started as a volunteer at Hospice every Friday I help in the kitchen, deliver the meals to the patients and feed the one's that can't feed themselves it is so rewarding, at lunch time we have a BBQ for the patients and there family and friends we even give them a little wine they love it.

 

This morning I went to pick up 3 pairs of slacks that my girlfriend was altering for me since before the wedding I tried them on to small, I really need to get serious about mt eating habbits before I go back to what I  use to be NEVER do I want to go back  to that weight, Bread is my down fall LOL..

 

 I am so happy to see you back i thought we were not going to hear from you again i DIDN'T KNOW YOU WERE ON VACATION.

 

HUGS,

CONNIE

 
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July 30, 2005, 7:06 am PDT

Barbara

Barbara, How are you?  I am good, thanks for asking.  That is great that you are going swimming Monday evening!  I think you saw that I went swimming twice last week, I am getting back into my favorite exercise and loving it!:)  Take care! :) Bren
 
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July 30, 2005, 7:10 am PDT

Connie

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  It is so nice to see you back on the board, hope you had a great time on your vacation.

I too have put some weight on since the wedding last week i put myself on the rapid start did well for 4 days then blew it at a Hospice BBQ.

 

I have started as a volunteer at Hospice every Friday I help in the kitchen, deliver the meals to the patients and feed the one's that can't feed themselves it is so rewarding, at lunch time we have a BBQ for the patients and there family and friends we even give them a little wine they love it.

 

This morning I went to pick up 3 pairs of slacks that my girlfriend was altering for me since before the wedding I tried them on to small, I really need to get serious about mt eating habbits before I go back to what I  use to be NEVER do I want to go back  to that weight, Bread is my down fall LOL..

 

 I am so happy to see you back i thought we were not going to hear from you again i DIDN'T KNOW YOU WERE ON VACATION.

 

HUGS,

CONNIE

Connie,

Hello, it is wonderful that you are volunteering as a Hospice worker! :)  Good for you! :) Take care! :) Bren

 
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July 30, 2005, 8:01 am PDT

Hi everyone

I am stopping by to check for messages, glad to see so many had dropped by.

 

Val, I am so glad that you are able to sleep, positive/optimistic attitude, keep it up.

 

Bren it looks like the swimming will be on hold until next week, period arrived this morning a week early :(  Yes I know you love to swim and I'm glad you are doing it again.

 

Connie, I applaud anyone who is a volunteer.  Dedicated, hard workers we certainly need them.  Yes, we can lose this weight if we start to get real with ourselves again.  I too have problems with my breads and I can eat fruits and veggies because I love them but when I think I'm hungry it's always the starches I grab.

 

ttfn Love Barbara

 
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July 31, 2005, 1:18 am PDT

To all

GOOD BYE!!!!!!
 
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