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Topic : Maximizing Weight Loss Through the Tough Times

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Created on : Monday, July 04, 2005, 02:22:34 pm
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August 7, 2005, 11:23 am PDT

Hope everyone is enjoying their Sunday...

It is another beautiful sunny day here, and I'm loving it!!! I find the weather really does affect my "mood"..smiling... 

It is almost noon here and I am doing well with the Food choices thus far too Shirley...and am geared to do well all day... 

Just got back from a short stroll outdoors...and will do my 2 mile walk here soon before it warms up too much in my apartment...am sipping my water too...so am on a roll so far...tee hee.. 

Got on the scale this morning and have lost the 4 pounds I regained a couple of days ago, so am feeling really good about staying the same this week....sure beats the gain I thought I'd be posting ...winking... 

 

I've come to realize that I am a "storer"...in that whenever something comes along I need to deal with, be it death, broken engagement, missing my g/d's birthday party, or feelings of loneliness, sadness etc, I tend to STORE it all, thinking I've dealt with it...well today and last night, I've been cleaning out this "storage unit", and feel so much better today for it...less troubled, more freedom, and not tempted to "medicate" with food.....so it's working...Getting "closure" on these things is so important....I wrote a letter of goodbye to Bernie, and also journalled other emotions too...hey, I'm practicing what I preach...tee hee...bout time eh? winking...I no longer want to have anything "stored" that leads me to overeat...and this is exactly what has been happening...so Free at last!!!! Wooo Hoooooo!!!  This was a real lightbulb moment for me...(thanks Shirley, for sharing yesterday with me on the phone) this really got my thinking going too....love ya... 

 

The problem hasn't been the food, it's been my USING food to deal with things...or should I say to NUMB things like feelings....instead of dealing with them...and of course the cycle then starts...for these "stored emotions" continually re-surface... 

 

Well, off the computer now to get some IE and to enjoy the sunshine... 

Love you all,  

Hugs,
Karen
 

 
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August 7, 2005, 3:18 pm PDT

KAREN

GOOD FOR YOU KAREN, YOU ARE DOING GREAT TODAY, AND A PLUS IS THAT YOU HAVE LOST THAT 4 LBS.  I AM ALSO WORKING ON GETTING RID OF SOME OF MY "STORE" FEELINGS (VERY GOOD WAY OF PUTTING IT - AS THEY ARE STORED IF WE DON'T GET THEM OUT).  IT IS 6:15 HERE AND AM DOING GREAT TODAY - WE CAN DO THIS FOR SURE.  HAVE A GREAT EVENING, FOR YOU I SHOULD BE SAYING AFTERNOON.  HUGS, SHIRLEY
 
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August 7, 2005, 3:58 pm PDT

karen

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We all sometimes need to take a "break and focus on what direction" we want to take..this is how change occurs...smiling...Good for you recognizing you too needed this time....glad it helped you to sort through where you want to go in your goals...I too did this as well....What I've been doing lately, actually, for a few months now is "storing" all kinds of feelings, and didn't really put closure to them..so now I am...smiling...It's good for the soul, yet painful too... 

  

You are a great inspiration my friend, and I am so proud of all you do to make your life unique and wonderful for YOU....good job... 

Hugs and love, and have a blessed Sunday...and I'm praying that your dear son, does well tomorrow at his interview.... 

Karen 

Thank you-This time has helped me find a new strength from within -I am no longer just trying to make this plan work for me, but am now doing it! 

  

  

am glad to hear you were able to see what you needed to do for yourself--to allow yourself to heal from feeling and give yourself closer.Yes it is a very painful process--but one worth doing--as you said it's good for the soul.Makes moving forward that much more pleasant of a journey.Key 2 was a hard one for me to get threw but I am glad I did.I can see you are too.Proud of you for doing it! 

  

  

Thank you for your prayers for my son and his interview tomorrow 

  

vickie 

 
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August 7, 2005, 4:36 pm PDT

karen

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It is another beautiful sunny day here, and I'm loving it!!! I find the weather really does affect my "mood"..smiling... 

It is almost noon here and I am doing well with the Food choices thus far too Shirley...and am geared to do well all day... 

Just got back from a short stroll outdoors...and will do my 2 mile walk here soon before it warms up too much in my apartment...am sipping my water too...so am on a roll so far...tee hee.. 

Got on the scale this morning and have lost the 4 pounds I regained a couple of days ago, so am feeling really good about staying the same this week....sure beats the gain I thought I'd be posting ...winking... 

 

I've come to realize that I am a "storer"...in that whenever something comes along I need to deal with, be it death, broken engagement, missing my g/d's birthday party, or feelings of loneliness, sadness etc, I tend to STORE it all, thinking I've dealt with it...well today and last night, I've been cleaning out this "storage unit", and feel so much better today for it...less troubled, more freedom, and not tempted to "medicate" with food.....so it's working...Getting "closure" on these things is so important....I wrote a letter of goodbye to Bernie, and also journalled other emotions too...hey, I'm practicing what I preach...tee hee...bout time eh? winking...I no longer want to have anything "stored" that leads me to overeat...and this is exactly what has been happening...so Free at last!!!! Wooo Hoooooo!!!  This was a real lightbulb moment for me...(thanks Shirley, for sharing yesterday with me on the phone) this really got my thinking going too....love ya... 

 

The problem hasn't been the food, it's been my USING food to deal with things...or should I say to NUMB things like feelings....instead of dealing with them...and of course the cycle then starts...for these "stored emotions" continually re-surface... 

 

Well, off the computer now to get some IE and to enjoy the sunshine... 

Love you all,  

Hugs,
Karen
 

How super--Congrats on the 4 lbs re gone.I knew you could do it,and it wouldn't take you long. 

  

  

  

it is a pleasure to read your new found outlook.truly a joy seeing you be more-----YOU! 

  

  

Vickie 

 
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August 7, 2005, 4:38 pm PDT

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I to am, no was a storer of feeling and emotions also.it is a great feeling of freedom to  

  

  

finally let go and clean out all those storage shelfs in my mind and heart, releasing my  

  

  

spirit and soul to be who I really am--not who those feelings made me feel like I was. 

  

  

Vickie 

 
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August 7, 2005, 4:58 pm PDT

Maximizing Weight Loss Through the Tough Times

     Dh and I had a delightful dinner of cantaloupe,strawberries,grapes,watermelon,mush melon,cherries,pineapples and banana's with a homemade--fruit dip. I had green tea to drink and water to follow. Dh had his coffee. 

  

 the children are all off visiting their older sister and her family. 

  

Vickie 

  

 
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August 7, 2005, 7:00 pm PDT

MMMMMM that fruit plate sounds delicious Vickie..

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     Dh and I had a delightful dinner of cantaloupe,strawberries,grapes,watermelon,mush melon,cherries,pineapples and banana's with a homemade--fruit dip. I had green tea to drink and water to follow. Dh had his coffee. 

  

 the children are all off visiting their older sister and her family. 

  

Vickie 

  

Sounds like a wonderful array of fresh fruits... did you have any protein with your dinner? I see you like your green tea, I find it so bitter...YUK...but it's supposed to be so good for you..great that you like it...Well off to relax for a bit...Hugs ,Karen
 
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August 7, 2005, 8:36 pm PDT

well today I ran away

Hello to all you wonderful ladies today I ran away I took some me time and spent this weekend comforting a friend, and in so doing found comfort myself I want to thank you all for the wonderful messages of hope and the love you all sent my may and I must say that everyone is doing great and that is wonderful I some how have not been doing to bad weight wise I have been eating right so I am still losing I miss you all and just wanted to let you know that even with the sadness tomorrow is a brighter day so to all hang in there and know it will be ok hugs sharon/queenb2009
 
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August 7, 2005, 8:42 pm PDT

ok how tdd I fix my picture so you all can see it

Hello so how do I fix my picture so you all can see it, it looked fine until I posted it and boom it went so weird on me lol help hugs sharon/queenb
 
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August 7, 2005, 9:27 pm PDT

Everybuddy

Well, Sunday is almost over and another week is before us.  My weekend has been quite uneventful.  Today, Jim and I went up to the nursing home to see my mom. We took a picnic lunch with us and took mom out to the courtyard for lunch. It was such a beautiful day out and she really enjoyed it. I must do that more often for her.   

  

I don't know if I will get on the board tomorrow or not.  It just happens to be our 35th anniversary and that being the case, we may just decide to go out for a nice dinner. 

  

I hope everyone is off to a good start with their WLC week.  Love ya all.  Marion/BC 

 
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