Topic : 02/14 Valentine Troubles

It's not good to do magick  if it compromises your integrity. =)  Besides, I'm not into doing spells. LOL

I'm married, have been with the same guy for 8 years, it's just that we don't think there should be one day that someone else chose for us to show our love for one another. 

     My husband asked me to marry him over the phone too. He called and said what the hell. I got up late for work. You want to go and get married? That should have been my sign right there. A woman wants that question to be asked in a special way. It doesn't take a lot of thought or money to make her happy. A walk in the park. A drive to a lake. Most women want to be asked in public. So the man can tell the world how much he loves her. Not over the phone like it is a big hassle.

  Well, I'm on the other side of the fence, I can't find anyone that will commit.

My late wife, when we met/married was 310lbs., had arthritis, chronic pain and several other problems. Through our yrs. together, some more medical/health issues came into play. At her passing, she was 415lbs, about 100 was fluid. I can be reached, if you wish...fotoman98203@gmail.com  or  fotoman1133406 yahoo im

"Dr. Phil joins with Robin in tackling romance dilemmas. First up, Thomas is obsessed with deer hunting and is often away from home practicing his sport, including on Valentine's Day. His girlfriend, Carlye, wonders if he will ever make their relationship top priority. Will she have her answer after the show?"

I am VERY curious to see how Dr. Phil handles this situation and what the husband's reaction is and how & if he is able to resolve his need for hunting & making his family a top priority...

I go thru the same arguments over & over with my husband on prioritizing his "passion" for hunting-fishing & sharing that same "passion" with us, his family.  He thinks I am against his passion of hunting-fishing, but truly I am not...I just want some of that same passion!!!!

My husband sees hunting and fishing as the "guys outting" although I love to go fishing too. When he's at home he is either on the phone discussing the next hunting-fishing trip or glued to anything on t.v. (sports, news, etc.)! The only time we go fishing together is during our annual summer camping trip. Other than that it is strictly with the guys which is EVERY week for 2 days which are his only days off from work. I am not complaining that he goes sometimes, it is just his friends take priority when he has his 2 days off-depending on the season-hunting or fishing. Plus at his hunting club he has the liberty to sleep there! Hunting happens only with the guys, he talks about taking me more often, but I am not holding my breath.

For the 4 yrs. of marriage, I have only went pheasant hunting 2 times, I don't want to go duck hunting at all, but I long for SOME QUALITY TIME! Now that we have a toddler and I work from home with the baby, I feel he is being extremely selfish. Sure I can have my time off with friends, but I also want quality time with him, he doesn't really participate in MY activities, nor does he want to-gardening, dancing, exercising, etc. Like what Dr. Phil had said in the past, "if his friends had breasts I probably wouldn't see much of him!" Although he knows better not to do something like hunt-fish on a very special occasion!

Jeanine, Oakley, CA