Topic : 07/26 Adoptions Scams, Part 1

Adoption is the most lucrative non-regulated "business" in America.  Why should it be money-driven and unregulated, when human lives are invovled? 

These women who were "duped" ~ it is just a NATURAL outcome of an unethical, unregulated industry which refuses to protect the children involved. 

Just because a woman wants to become a "mother", doesn't give her that "right".  Children are not pawns in a buy/sell/trade system, but the unethical behavior of adoption facilitators, attorneys and agencies, including "marketing" for babies, is appaulling.  It is just the natural outcome in a flawed system which refuses to hear the voices of the adopted "children" who eventually grow up and whose rights are ignored, with sealed records laws based on myths put out by the same industry who is supposedly working in their best interest.  Absurd.

Read "The Girls Who Went Away" by Ann Fessler

"The Primal Wound" by Nancy Verrier

I believe the same. I could not imagine the hopes and wishes as well as struggles that these 3 women endored. That is hard to imagine that someone had the gall to do this type of thing. Posible knowing what these people have been through tryin to have a baby. That type of person should have to repay these women twice over for everything that she has but these wonderful people through.. No amount of money can every replace these womens hurt...

Michelle

Now i am 16 years old and i have never been pregant and don't intend to be just yet but i am a big sister of a little brother and sister and i think that i would be heart broken to know that my parents can't have kids and they try to adopt and it's just a scam. babies are something to be proud of but sometimes pregancy's don't work out they try and they wait and they try and they keep on trying and they don't make it so they adopt and it think it's not fair on those to ladies to be lead on like that they were so happy and excited to have a baby and they were misslead i hope things in the end will work out

I can't believe this woman can sit there so calm and not just reach over there and slap her for lieing about a baby that was never even real...

 She has alot more strength than i would..

Lady's remember all good thing's come to those who wait..

 She will get what she deserves...

With my heart goes to the ladies that have their hearts broken with the most painful thing that a woman can be hurt with, that is exploiting and deceiving their motherhood love and passion, I think Melissa needs to seek help of a a psychotherapist. She had some bad experience back in her life that makes her enjoying hurting people. Maybe she is deprived of being a mother too and she want as many other women to share her pain be inflecting the suffering on those women like the ones we saw on the show. Maybe she had a very painful experience in her life that made her feel insensitive towards hurting others. I am saying that because her body language from the way she was sitting, talking, facial expressions, dressing were clues of that she is anything but sorry or remorseful. Another clue is one of the text messages in which she said to one of the ladies the is no baby ended with HAHAHA.

It is time for Melissa to seek help before it is too little too late.............

 i feel so much hate for that women called mellisa i think she should do some time in jail what i want to tell to Marie, Crissy and Jen that they should keep on trying to adopt a baby they look like they could be good parents i wish you guys the best