Topic : 03/27 Fifteen Minutes of Fame

Perhaps he values himself, God and the women in his life. Perhaps he doesn't want to have sex with all the people his partner has slept with. Perhaps he wants to avoid disease and death. Perhaps he doesn't end up with a child out of wedlock. Perhaps he respects what God gave him and wants to share it with the person who will be his partner for life.

If I had done that, I would not have HPV. I would not have felt bad about myself all the times the guy didn't call me back for another "date." I wouldn't have had to drink excessively to make myself feel better about all the stupid things I did.

By the grace of GOD, I am alive and healthy...and now happily married 18 years with two wonderful children. If I had it ALL to do over again, I would wait until my current husband came along and I would not be sitting here with HPV, having to be checked early to see if the cancer cells have returned!!!

Yes, perhaps he's a virgin because he's BRIGHT!!! And perhaps he doesn't want to accept all the consequences that often come with bad choices!

I found Brians statement that losing his virginity to a Porn Star was the "best of the best", to be so misguided, laughable, and disgusting.   How could losing your virginity to someone whos slept with countless guys be the ultimate experience???  There's no love involved, no feelings, no emotions, its just an act.    Personally I think the ideal is to share that experience with someone you love completely, and can share that one time experience with a girl who is also a virgin.  Its something you both will never forget for your life.    To a pornstar, its just one of many.  Does he think it will be a special experience to her??     

Personally, I can't see the attraction of fame.   Its not going to bring you happiness.   On the contrary, I think it does just the opposite for the most part.   Look at those that have fame and all the problems they have.   Hollywood couples probably have the highest divorce rate in the country.   Count me out.

BeachGuy

I'm a writer/producer currently developing a network TV series that will delve very deeply into the kinds of serious personal issues we've all seen on Dr. Phil and Oprah. It's not a reality/talk show. It's a fantasy-adventure series involving vampires, demons and other magical elements, and it's my ultimate goal to use that platform as a means to change and affect people's lives for the better (i.e. personal empowerment, self-esteem, being a good, responsible citizen). I also intend to fork over much of my income from the series, as executive producer/writer/co-star, to worthy social/enviromental causes (i.e. animal rescue, global warming, cancer research, youth programs). Essentially, I want to use my fame, and the show's popularity, to help others, just like Oprah & Dr. Phil do.

It saddens me deeply when I see things like today's Dr. Phil show. Sad, lost, desperate and talentless individuals, needing fame and attention so much -- just for the sake of being famous and getting rich doing it. Very selfish people wanting to be famous for being famous, a la Paris Hilton, rather than people who do something important & meaningful, and become famous for it.

KJC