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Topic : 08/29 Moms Gone Wild

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Created on : Friday, April 13, 2007, 03:14:02 pm
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(Original Air Date: 04/19/07) Some moms don’t want to grow up, and others don’t want to grow old. Dr. Phil talks to women walking on the wild side and tries to rein them back in! Aubrey says her sister, Elise, would rather drink and party every night than take care of her 8-year-old son. Their mom, Heidi, is raising Elise’s child and says Elise wants to be a parent only when it’s convenient for her. Elise promises her family that she’s going to change, but what will it take for her to get her act together? Dr. Phil has a shocking proposition for her. Then, Greg says his wife, Lisa, is obsessed with plastic surgery and worries that it’s becoming a disease. He says she works at a plastic surgeon’s office just to get a better deal on surgery. Lisa, 39, admits that she’s spent nearly $100,000 on cosmetic procedures so she can look as young as her 21-year-old daughter and wants even more work done. Can Greg convince his wife to stop going under the knife? Talk about the show here.

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September 4, 2007, 12:42 pm PDT

Barbie Doll

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I am so confused as to why someone would spend so much money on something that allows you to look so fake. I am concerned for this young lady. $100,000 dollars is alot of money to waste. It would be nice if even half of what she has spent could be donated to some type of foundation to help find cures for sick kids (such as mine).  I have had 2 children and I sure do not look anything like what I did prior to having my children, and  I would not change my image for anything in the world. The smiles that I give are sure real and botox compete with that!

When I was a little girl, I had a barbie doll.  If I remember, with the chest it had, if she was real, she'd topple over.  However, Barbie does have a nice car.  So maybe its worth going through the pain for a Mercedes?  

 

I agree with you about the botox... let my wrinkles and graying hair show age.  I'd rather look old than plastic.

 

Pearl

 
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September 15, 2007, 5:27 am PDT

fact of life

I think Lisa is just an extreme expample of everyone of us. in many ways we are all trying to preserve our body.

somethings are just a fact of life...that we SEE happen. birth...old age...disease ...and death.

 

something that we all have to come to terms with, is that our body will age. but its not all doom and gloom if we make our happiness depend on a healthy internal state.

when we find happiness within...all the external issues will seem less important. -they wont go away...but we wont depend on fixing them for a sense of secuirty.

 
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September 28, 2008, 4:21 am PDT

this was on here today (28-9-09)

I always wonder in these cases why the "mothers" aren't asked flat out -- why did you continute the pregancy?

 

Were they too stupid to know that they were pregnant in time to have an abortion, or did they feel that "abortion is murder" but once a child is out of the womb, then it's life  doesn't count anymore.

 

I think about that a lot these days with the Casey/Caylee Anthony case.

 
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May 16, 2009, 7:50 pm PDT

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There are many alcoholics and clinically depressed people in my family too and I am prone to eat when I am not hungry but when I crave "something." In my case what I crave and actually need is B6 and Zinc so that my body can make seratonan, acetycholine, GABA and dopamine. The disease of pyroluria means that the body produces too many kryptopyrolles when it synethsizes hemoglobin. Kryptopyrolles are discarded as waste by the body but Kryptopyrolles take zinc and B6 out of the body faster than I can put it in my mouth. Without these essential two cofactors, my brain doesn't work. All the therapy and steps and surrender and prayer didn't correct my lack of essential brain chemicals. In my family they coped wiith depression caused by bad brain chemistry by drinking and my mother "partied and neglected her children and had sex with everyone who would have her. She desperatly was trying to feel "good" because her natural chemical state was bipolar. An addiction is anything a person does to excess that endangers their health and well-being and diverts them away from important responsibilities in their life. Needing a nutrient is not an addiction but a misdirected attempt to fill a legitimate need. Many alcholholics have a distroted view of what is the basic cause of their uncontrollable cravings so they label themselves as party animal, selfish, etc. and their self image suffers. Just because a diabetic is sleepy all the time doesn't mean they are lazy but many diabetics label themselves that way due to a faulty understanding of what their problem is. To say all people with cravings are suffering merely from a brain chemistry imbalance is inaccurate; certianly there are pyschological ramifications, yes there are self-image distortions reinforced by a judgmental society. Yes the 12 steps do wonders to allieviate guilt from past bad behavior. All of these are important in recovery, but to ignore the physical aspects again and again means that many people go undiagnosed for a very treatable problem, with no side effects if done by a competent professional. This test and treatment enhances anyone's chances of maintaining sobriety or mental health in general. Why ignore it? The AMA and FDA both utterly ignore Pyroluria since it is treated with natural substances (zinc and B-6). Nearly 100% of pyroluria is undiagnosed. For an ailment that affects one in 10 people across the board, I think that is inexcusable. "If you misdiagnose a problem you will certainly mistreat it." (Dr. Phil) Substance abusers may have psychological problems, charater flaws, spiritual defects, but if all people treating the "disease" of alcholism ignore the biological component, a huge opportunity to get unmanageable lives manageable again and drunk drivers off the street is lost.  That is a huge, ignorant, waste in my opinion.
I am an almost recovered pyroluriac who has lost 15 yrs of living time. I did my fair share of binge drinking (for relaxation) but fortunately never became alcoholic. For about 10 yrs I hardly drank at all as hangovers lasted for days and I simply did not want to feel even worse than usual. For years I was convinced that I would one day take my life and even envied those who had. Sometimes I wished to get cancer because then I would either die or recover. I am now so grateful to still be here and starting to almost enjoy life again. I now spend time volunteering and trying to contribute to society in small ways. I was diagnosed and treated by the Pfeiffer Research Institute and highly commend them for their wonderful work. My point is this -those with pylouria are more likely to suicide. People with terminal illnesses want to live. It is a tortured existence.
 
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