Topic : 08/29 Moms Gone Wild

I empathize with your wife.  There are many of us who wait for the husband, wife, son or daughter to come home after their shift.  My son is a cop..in motors and I especially worry about him and the lack of protection around him (car frame). We've lost 2 officers in the last six months and attending their funerals was 2 of the most difficult things I've ever done.  DRUNKS DO NOT BELONG ON THE ROAD.  Never, never, ever.  And yes, the "female" guest of Dr. Phil, along with her mother, needs to see  first hand in bright living color what a drunk driver can do, not only to themselves, but to the innocents on the road..such as my sons and grandchildren.  I come from a family of alcoholics and though statistics say I should be one too, I don't drink.  Nor do I hold any respect for those who do more than have a SINGLE social drink while out with friends.  I'm not a hard a$$ when it comes to drinking but man, you'd better not get behind the wheel after doing so.

I just read a post in which someone asks why we're bothering to talk about Lisa and her obsession with cosmetic surgery.  I'll tell you why.......it's comical whereas this subject is very depressing.  And, believe it or not, Lisa needs help too even if it is someone to clean and shine her mirrors all day long.

I won't go any further than talking about this fool's drinking and driving.  If I talked about her total disregard for her son and his need for a mother, I'd get my message deleted by the staff.  And do I think she'll take Phil up on his challenge of going to jail for 7 days after which he'll agree to put her in a fancy rehab center....hell NO.  But I do hope she finds whatever she needs to sober up and become a responsible mom, daughter, sister and citizen......and NOT A KILLER.

STAY SAFE........

I am going to be the lone person saying..."I find nothing wrong with plastic surgery"!  Nothing at all.  As long as you're not going broke over it, and you're using your own money for it, then why the hell not have plastic surgery.  I will do it, and I don't much care what other people think about it.  And I have to disagree that it's always done to attract men...the procedures I want done....I want them done for myself.

So again..I see nothing wrong with it.

I'm afraid that the only one Lisa is fooling is herself if she thinks all this cosmetic surgery is done just to please her husband so he'll be happy with the way she looks.  She does it for one reason...herself, no one else.   Dr. Phil had another blonde on his show a year or so ago & she looks remarkably like Lisa & & believe she's had even more surgeries than Lisa.  And you know what, she looked positively awful...almost clownish.  And this girl was only about 28 or 29 maybe.  With all the surgeries, she actually made herself look at least 40.  We saw photos of her "before" and the whole audience gasped...she looked soooo much better before, & much younger too.

Lisa kept saying that this is the 21st century & women should do everything they can to look better & younger......that BS, she's just addicted to cosmetic surgery and unless she makes a real effort to stop it now, she'll continue forever wanting to change things.  Facelifts are like potato chips....you can't have just one.

"You can't help those who don't want to help themselves."

Elise should be very grateful that Dr. Phil is providing drug/alcohol rehab for her and a second chance at life.  There are many people who would like to get help at such a facility for their addiction(s) but either can't afford it, are institutionalized (mental health hospital or jail), or will or have died while waiting to get help.

Alcohol and drugs are great "removers."  They'll remove everything from you - your family, job, home, LIFE!!!

I hope Elise realizes how precious and short life is,  how much time she has wasted "being in a fog" and missing out on her son's life. 

None of us can turn back time, but we can make a difference in the present and the future.

I believe that being a mom is the greatest gift a woman can be blessed with.  Cherish your children, love and enjoy them, and let them be proud of you!

I wish Elise a lot of luck, commitment, and better days ahead for her and her family.

I hope she gets help and realizes that being "clean and sober" is a "Freedom" to be very grateful for.  It sure eliminates a lot of worry, trouble, and heartache!

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Lisa needs to learn how to care for herself in a way that doesn't involve cosmetic surgery.  When I first saw her, she reminded me of the "cat woman" from New York.  That's scary!

I wouldn't want to look like my daughter's sister and I'm sure she wouldn't want me to.  Lisa's sending the wrong messages to her daughter, which is too bad.

Proper diet, exercise, mental inspiration and stimulation will help Lisa enjoy a lifestyle which will allow her to "grow old gracefully." 

I hope she stops having cosmetic surgery - she's had more than enough operations!  I'm sure her husband will be grateful if she does stop now!

Good luck to all!