Quote From: caina0304I hate how people are blaming her for the cheating and stuff. WELL DAMMIT! They were only together for 2 months and she was already pregnant when they got married!!!!!!!!! He totally pushed her into it and she was only what? 19? She didnt know what to do! She was scared and she thought she had no choice. He has been doing this from the very VERY start of the relationship and I greatly appreciate you putting this post up because Im sick to death of those bpzp's who feel like blaming her because of the cheating.
And she did cheat, yes. However. Dont get involoved with a young woman barely mature enough to make a decision such as marriage and expect her not to cheat if you start acting like an ass.
And yes she flirts and what not, but right now she will take whatever attention she can get to make her feel better about herself beccause she feels dead inside and no matter if she did or didnt do the flirting, cheating etc, he would treat her like this anyways so she might as well try and make herself feel good occasionally.
And there have been many commenting that she 'laughed' on the show. She wasnt laughing because it was funny you fools. That was a 'I can't believe this' laugh...an uncomfortable laugh...a 'I just want to die' laugh. This whole thing she cant believe she has gotten into. Why in the world would she think it was funny?
Before I read all the replies, I repled on part of my life, but reading all the signs of abuse, I said to myself, holy cow, I lived through each and every one of them. The isolation, I must say is the worst. He took every friend I ever had, and I lost them. Not a one of them would come to see me, and I was not allowed out of the house when he was home. NEVER, not even go to the grocery store without him, or he would read the receipt for a time stamp, and gage how long it took me to get home. He also wanted to know who I saw in the store, if I talked to anyone, etc.
I was kept a slave, and never knew it. I was a very young bride, and thought every marriage was like that. What did I know? I worked until we had kids. Then both pregnacies were difficult, so I stayed home alot while pregnant. Then the babies came, and I stayed home with them for 17 years, because he had me beliving I would and could never get a job, because i was too stupid. He actually told me I wasn't qualified to clean other people's toliets. This kept me home for 17 years. While he was on one of his business trips out of the country, I applied for a job, and guess what I got it. Yea for me. Although it didn't last long, I proved I could do a job. It was an administrative assistant to a real estate company. Well it didn't last long, cause the boss told me my family and me were nuts, we crazy, and I had it out with him. This was my first step to learning how to sick up for myself. I ended up quitting that job, and moved on to others. I ended up at a private University, working in a job I love now.
This was a definate abused wife case. One I had no idea I was in. Not until I got out into the real world, and learned that this behavior was not normal, nor acceptable. Boy did that cause upheaveal in my home.
We've made it though, through the hard times, through the emotional and other types of abuse, and I can honestly say I am content right now. That's all I can hope for. I am over 50, and dont mind they type of life I live now. Alot of the times, I'm alone. He' s out at his buddies house drinking, and I'm home watching TV with the dogs. LOL. It's okay though I like it this way. This is MY decision not any one elses.
“When I think I’ve seen it all, then I get a wake-up call,” Dr. Phil says of his guests who are involved in a very intense relationship. Jeffrey's obsession with his wife, Jennifer, has careened out of control during their 11-year marriage. He says he loves her so much he goes to extremes to watch her every move. He's tracked her with a GPS device, listened to her phone conversations, trapped her in their home and alienated her from her friends and family. But is there something more sinister Jeffrey's done that he's been hiding? Jennifer says she's ready to leave her controlling and jealous husband once and for all. Has she been up to no good, and is Jeffrey justified in his snooping? Jeffrey wants to save his marriage and family, but is Jennifer willing to stand by him? Dr. Phil unravels the jealously, lies and abuse to see if this marriage can be saved, or if it's really Jennifer who needs to be saved from Jeffrey. Talk about the show here.
