Topic : 04/26 Obsessive Love

I think Jeffrey needs to be in a mental institution.  Jennifer please get all the help you can from Dr. Phil and your state and get away from this ticking timebomb.

                                           Been there

Not that this means much, But I really do not think he would kill her. I am sure every doctor and lots of people who think they are one will lash back with.... *you never know* and I understand that.

Speaking from experience Jeffery and Jennifer should be 100% accountable for the life they have today . ... .... Healthy people do not get married, have 3children and stay married for 11 plus years and then.. oh find out they have issues as extreme as these..

Two unhealthy people with issues get together because of those issues.

I truly hope Jeffery gets help and I hope Jennifer can wake up enough to know that she is a part of this. She had children with him and should do what she can to fix herself and save her kids. If she leaves him she will only attract the same thing, just in a different form.

He needs to be checked in to a hospital for extreme depression and low self esteem. And Jennifer needs to get help herself.

Who cares why Jeffery gets the help he needs and should have gotten a long time ago, be it fear that he will lose his wife, or shame that he went on T.V and exposed himself, or most importantly  because they do not want to pass this on to their children..

I just hope someone puts it in their face some how and they get the help. 

This guy should 10 minutes with someone who's his size and who's also a male. I'm sure after that he'll never try to take advantage of another female again..

Good thing that woman isnt my sister or that guy would be way in a way worse situation then anything he could imagine....

     When I was a junior in college I started dating a guy that was in the same major as I was, we lived in the same building and everyone liked him.  Everything was perfect for the first few months, then I tried to take some time appart to focus on my schoolwork and everything changed.  Instead of letting me go, he wound himself into my life. He became friends with my circle of friends, using his relationships with them against me.  (They didn't understand why I found fault with his behavior, when he was "Such a nice guy,")  When I would go out without him (to a coffee shopt to study, or to run errands) he would call my roomates to find out where I had gone, then hunt me down to make sure I was there.  Between driving a wedge between myself and my family, (he would always say "They're just not lettitng you grow up."  or "They are just jealous of what we have.") and causing a rift with my friends, I knew I had to start finding a way out of this relationship.

    I tried to break up with him on several occasions, and it always ended with him in tears. He would cry and promise me that he'd change, and if I left him he would die without me.  To make a long dramatic story short, the final moment of our relationship came when we were in the car arguing.  He started to accelerate, and swerve down the roads near our school.  I screamed for him to stop, when he refused I started to realize that I had to get out of this car before he did something crazy.  At the height of the moment he slammed on his breaks and I almost hit the windsheild of the car before the seat belt pulled me back.  I was in pain, but grateful to be alive and thankful for the clarity to leave this relationsihp for good. 

   I realize now that this relationship was unheathly, and that I got out before things got to the point of no return.  I thought I had seen enough Lifetime movies, and Oprah shows on the subject of abusive relationships to not be involved in something so terrible.  I hope that this show can help other women who are trapped in obsessive relationships realize that they can get out and find happiness apart from a man who controls them.  

What does everyone think will happen?

From the previews, with him being so upset in the green room (in the fetal position, throwing up in the waste basket etc.)

I know the preview wants you to believe that Dr. Phil made a huge break through and he realized how awful he is, but.....

My prediction is that she will announce that she has met someone else and she is going to leave him no matter what. 

And Dr. Phil gives her a safe place to stay where he can't find her..

 I do think the best is for these 2 to call it quits... and I hope she stays safe and he gets super intensive inpatient therapy!

What are your predictions?

                      Dr. Phil,

    The couple on this show is headed for a very bad ending. The fears she is haveing I can see comeing true if she dosen't get out and get out now, not when they get a chance to change things but now. if things are going to change (I don't think he will ever change)they can work on it with her out of the house and the same town for that matter he shouldn't know where she is going or who with. If he can't or won't agree to all this then she should just leave and get on with her life because she sure dosen't have one now. Dr. Phil please take this lady where he will never find her again and let her get her divorce. I for one know that a lady can make it on her own with out a controlling man in her life. Because after 18 years I decided what ever life I could give my children on my own was far better than what they had at the time. please help this lady both mentealy and finaucely .

                                                                                 Thank you,

                                                                               Anita