I have seen too many of these stories, and I don't understand why you are still with this obsessive creature of a man? All these kind of cases normally end up in homicide or suicide. After all of what he's done to you, how can you manage to stay, because of the kids? I'm sorry, but children can have wonderful relationships with their parents while separated. I have four children, and two of them has a father who is in their lives. Maybe not as much as they would like because we are in different states, but he's around and makes them happy. This man has put you through hell! I mean for goodness sake, he sabotaged your income to where you would have to depend solely on him, he ruined your reputation at work and caused you to get fired, he purposely turns up the heat so you can take your clothes off so he can watch, and he's went beyond the extreme when he installed the GPS tracking devices to hear your every conversation and watch your every move. He's more than obsessed, he's SICK. He really needs help, because he gets off on establishing and maintaining control. Once it's gone, he's going to lose his mind and really become a problem. There is no reason whatsoever for you to stay in this marriage. It's UNHEALTHY. He's invaded your privacy in many ways because he feel since you've cheated in the past that he cannot trust you. Why succumb yourself to this emotional distress? All it does is make you want to cheat on him more and leave quicker. Don't wait until you get an incentive to actually leave, because it can get ugly. I suggest you do it right after the show or while you are on the Dr. Phil show, and get protection while you are at it. Beat him at his own game. If you continue to stay in this sham of a marriage, you will end up hurt or worse. Your husband has made a fool of himself on national television, and has shown the world what type of predator he really is. I hope no woman dates him after this show airs. His behavior is what make good women go bad. Even if you cheated on him, you two have been together for about 11 years, and it's highly evident that he hasn't forgiven you nor does he trust you. Why would he even go to the lengths of making you miserable, keeping tabs on you, and locking you in the basement? Why not just move on? A fake vasectomy? I wanted to jump through the screen and beat him to a pulp! All I could do is shake my head when he confessed to the sick stuff he was doing to you. I have to tell you, a person will only go as far as you let them, and it's time that you take control and leave him helpless. If I were you, I'd get a new identity, change my name first and last, and move far, far, away from him with protection. His life would be a living hell without controlling you or what you do, and that's too bad for him! Please go with your gut and leave this man before he destroys your inner being and even go as far as killing you. You have beautiful children, and that's all you need to get you through this mess. Take them out of that hell hole of an environment and get your life together. You do not need him, and I am positive Dr. Phil will help you get on your feet and change your life around. You need someone who will be there for you mentally and physically. You need someone who trusts you, loves you unconditionally and mean it! You need someone who will nurture you, not destroy you. What you have is NOT love. Obsession can be deadly. Have you ever read the novel or seen the movie "The Great Gatsby?" Jay Gatsby's obsession with his past love Daisy Buchanan lead to his untimely death. He was a poor young man with nothing, and mysteriously came into some money. He then bought a big mansion where he had parties every night and never attended them, because he had high hopes of seeing Daisy there. Once he found her, he realized she was married. She was spoiled, beautiful, and loved the luxurious life. He even went as far as telling Daisy's husband she didn't love him and that she was leaving him. Things got bad, and one day Daisy was driving Gatsby's car, which hit the mistress of her husband and killed the woman. Mr. Wilson, who was the husband of Mrs. Wilson (lady hit by Daisy) was devastated to find his wife had been hit by that pretty yellow car. He found out that the car belonged to Gatsby, came to his house, and shot him dead in the back while laying on a float in his pool, then shot and killed himself. The moral of the story is that obsession can become very deadly, especially if it's based on lies, deception, and manipulation. This is what's going on in your marriage. Although I have never been a victim and I pray I don't ever become one, I feel you should leave this man A.S.A.P! There are many women who barely escape with their lives! When I saw on CNN the woman who almost lost her life because of her obsessive boyfriend. She broke it off with this man, he got upset, came to her job, poured gasoline out of a Sprite bottle all over her in front of customers, and set her on fire. This woman almost died! She went through extensive surgeries just to make her look human again. She's been over all the news channels and lives to tell her story. There's no need for you to be in this marriage, because it's not love. IT'S OBSESSION! LEAVE HIM! YOU CAN DO BETTER!
“When I think I’ve seen it all, then I get a wake-up call,” Dr. Phil says of his guests who are involved in a very intense relationship. Jeffrey's obsession with his wife, Jennifer, has careened out of control during their 11-year marriage. He says he loves her so much he goes to extremes to watch her every move. He's tracked her with a GPS device, listened to her phone conversations, trapped her in their home and alienated her from her friends and family. But is there something more sinister Jeffrey's done that he's been hiding? Jennifer says she's ready to leave her controlling and jealous husband once and for all. Has she been up to no good, and is Jeffrey justified in his snooping? Jeffrey wants to save his marriage and family, but is Jennifer willing to stand by him? Dr. Phil unravels the jealously, lies and abuse to see if this marriage can be saved, or if it's really Jennifer who needs to be saved from Jeffrey. Talk about the show here.
