Topic : 04/27 Obsessive Love: The Drama Continues

I THINK IF THIS WERE A WOMAN THAT HAD BEEN CHEATED ON ..AND SHE PUT THESE DECVICES IN THE CAR , TO SPY ON HER CHEATING HUSBAND , SHE WOULD BE GETTING

A PAT ON THE BACK.. GOOD JOB. ETC. ,,I BELIEVE MANY MEN HAVE PUSHED WOMAN TO THIS EDGE OF COMPLETE AND TOTAL .JEALOUSY ,, INSUCURITY ,AND TOTAL MIS TRUST

WHEN YOU CHEAT ON SOMEONE . YOU CANNOT EXPECT THEM TO REACT IN A WAY THAT

YOU WANT .. OR FEEL THE WAY U WANT THEM TO FEEL . SOMETIMES ,, IN SOME PEOPLE ]

IT DOES SEND THEM OVER THE EDGE .. WHAT DID SHE EXPECT THE HUSBAND TO DO WHEN HE DROVE  HOME TO FIND HIS WIFE WITH ANOTHER MAN ,> ?  I MEAN REALLY?

WHAT WOULD YOU DO ..ASK HIM TO STAY FOR DINNER? WERE THE KIDS THERE WHEN

THIS OTHER MAN WAS THERE:? HOW MANY TIMES HAVE WOMEN SAID THEY WERE TAKING

BIRTH CONTROL .. AND WERE NOT.. JUST TO HAVE A BABY BECAUSE SHE THOUGHT IT WOULD MAKE THE RELATIONSHIP BETTER ,, NOT THAT ITS RIGHT ,.IT ISNT  BUT... A MAN DOESNT HAVE THAT OPTION OF SAYING HE'S TAKING A PILL .. ..EXTEME

YES   IM WONDERING HOW LONG ,.THIS HAS BEEN GOING ON , WAS IT ONLY AFTER THE CHEATING?>  IF MY HUSBAND WENT TO A BAR AND GOT ANOTHER WOMANS NUMBER I

WOULD HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THAT AS WELL ,LET ALONE IF I HAD ALREADY FOUND ANOTHER WOMAN AT MY HOUSE ,WHILE I WAS AWAY ON BUSINESS,,

AS WELL. I DONT BELIEVE IT TO BE ALL ONE SIDED , THERE HAS BEEN ALOT THAT HAS MADE THIS HAPPEN , IF HE HAD THE TENDENCIES FOR THIS PRIOR ,WELL THEN  IT IS NOW FULL BLOWN ..NOT AT ALL SAYING SHE SHOULD STAY , BUT FROM WHAT I  HEARD ON THE SHOW , WHY SHOULD HE TRUST HER? NOW SHE HAS BEEN GIVEN ALL THE MEANS TO LEAVE ,,WHICH IS WHAT OBVIOUSLY SHE WANTED ,, JUST NOW SOME ONE WILL PICK UP THE TAB,,LET ME KNOW WHEN THIS IS REVERSED .,WHEN  A  MAN CHEATS AND DRIVES HIS WIFE CRAZY INSANE  ,,THEN SOME ONE WILL PAY FOR THE CHEATING HUSBAND TO MOVE OUT,, THANKS.

I am very surprised at the outcome of the second show.  This man needs serious, professional help, but it seemed very wrong to leverage Jennifer's agreement to 'stand down' in terms of proceding with the divorce to get him into the facility.  Dr. Phil, it seems like Jeff did manipulate you in the end.  He had a hissy, crying fit and you caved in to what he wanted all along. 

THIS MAN"S MOTIVATION FOR HELP NEEDS TO BE QUESTIONED!!!!!

I strongly feel that this man is ONLY willing to get help because he wants to continue to OWN his wife, and have her on his arm as a trophy . He does not get it and I do not believe that he is genuine, but rather very manipulative. Quite frankly, he knows that he cannot do any better than her and he afraid that she will meet someone who will sweep her off her feet (which is what she deserves!!!)  and he will be a lonely stalker. 

In some ways I have sympathy for him as it is evident that he is unstable and mentally and emotionally unwell, and I would be curious to know what some of the reasons are for his behaviour...(ie previous relationship and/or family and childhood experiences...not that it necessarily excuses him)). He does need some serious psychiatric help....he needs robust and intensive psychotherapy and possibly treatment, not some wishy washy form of counselling. If his wfe is willing to suppport him through this, as it will take time, then she is a star.

She is putting her chidlren first in all of this, but there may come a time when leaving him is in fact what is in her chidlren's best interests! I think that this woman is compassionate, loving and devoted...she displayed great maturity and care when she gently touched his arm towards the end of the show.

If the husband is not genuine and is in all of this for all the wrong reasons...(ie SELFISH REASONS, which is what I believe), I am confident that the professionals involved will see through him.