Topic : 04/27 Obsessive Love: The Drama Continues

OBVIOUSLY Jennifer has some pretty serious issues also. No one gets that far off track without a little help. now she certainly is being held hostage at this point, but she should have had the guts to leave a long time ago. Maybe she thought she'd have no money if she left. There are places for women like her to go.....The bottom line is Jeffery is a total WHACK JOB, but if she has stayed all this time she has made that choice. They are both equally dysfunctional...true his is creepy and weird , but she needs to grow a spine and get rid of the little bald weenie. Isn't it obvious that he has got NO self esteem!!!

By the way I have been in a controlling marriage for 5 years...I am currenetly planning my departure with NO help from friends, family or anyone. I have no job or car but I know that I can do it. I have had enough and I WILL NOT TAKE IT. Neither should Jennifer.....QUIT BIENG A DOOR MAT WOMAN!!!

I realize more and more everyday how truly blessed I have been even though my 2nd husband  died last October.  He was absolutely WONDERFUL.  I met him while separated from my verbally and physically abusive ex-husband and he was separated from his wife and both of us were in the process of a divorce.  He always told me that "people don't change".  I have seen this proven time and time again within my own family and with friends, co-workers, etc.   

I think someone can change behaviors if they want to bad enough  But they have to take ownership of the problem and take advice from a professional (like Dr. Phil) even if they don't particularly like what he has to say.

My personal opinion from what I saw on the show, this man does not want to change - not really.  He is putting on a good act, but he still hasn't taken ownership for his own actions and still blames her. 

I don't care WHAT she did, she does not deserve this treatment.  For many years I thought that I deserved being abused by my ex-husband, but one day I realized that I was worth so much more than to put up with his crap!!

It is truly a shame that not everyone can experience the kind of relationship that I had with my second husband - I cannot put into words the love that we shared.  It is not always easy, but Oh is it a wonderful life when it happens!!

I pray for these two and wish them the best of luck with whatever the outcome of this will be.

I am a woman. However, I understood you. I did something similar to what you are doing now. I got it over. I recovered. God bless you to get it over as well. I am soo sorry to see how you are suffering. You will get it over. Please, believe me that it is possible. It will be a time when you will feel good.

not excusing his behavior...he is def. a monster and needs to be locked up...

BUT...she needs to shape up also. a married woman with three children shouldn't be out at bars with friends at all hours of the night...she shouldn't be picking "guy friends" up and she shouldn't be on MySpace. grow up. she seems like she enjoys all of this. with her fake crying on the show. give me a freakin' break.

i have had first hand experience in my own family as to this type of behavior. stop making excuses and get the heck out. oh yeah...stay in this for your children. ok. growing up like that will be great for them...wake up lady.