Topic : 04/27 Obsessive Love: The Drama Continues

I couldnt disagree with you more. What you wrote is absolutely rediculous. No one on this blog is suggesting that a woman whos had an affair should be abused and put up with it. But in this instance....The woman is adding fuel to the fire by continuing to find time to have affairs, instead of picking up and leaving with the kids. If she's sooooooo scared and soooo afraid for her life, then why doesn't she pack a bloody suitcase and head for the hills instead of a bar or better yet another man's bed.  How can she possibly find time to have sex with another man, knowing full well that she's being watched and spied on, for 11 years...and then return home and expect for him not to be upset angry possessive or controlling. If you're gonna have an affair ...then get the hell out ....for good ! If you dont like the way he's acting then stay with the guy your having the affair with.  Nobodies saying that she shouldn't enjoy sex...but maybe just maybe ...if she was having trouble in her relationship, back in 1999..she should have sought councilling before bedding down another man !

I don't care what she did, she doesn't deserve this.....I would have cheated on him too....the woman who said he was being denied sex and that was the problem, ARE YOU FOR REAL????  I wouldn't have sex with someone who treated me this way either, wouldn't want them to touch me at all, last time I checked, I got to decide who I had sex to or was nice too at all!   For all the people using the "he didn't lock her in the basement, just held the door closed"  You've got to be kidding me?!?!  What the hell gives him the right to entrap her in the basment???    This man has serious problems and nothing she has done has anything to do with this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If she wanted out, she would find a way.  She likes the attention and his money!

I couldnt disagree with you more. What you wrote is absolutely rediculous. No one on this blog is suggesting that a woman whos had an affair should be abused and put up with it. But in this instance....The woman is adding fuel to the fire by continuing to find time to have affairs, instead of picking up and leaving with the kids. If she's sooooooo scared and soooo afraid for her life, then why doesn't she pack a bloody suitcase and head for the hills instead of a bar or better yet another man's bed.  How can she possibly find time to have sex with another man, knowing full well that she's being watched and spied on, for 11 years...and then return home and expect for him not to be upset angry possessive or controlling. If you're gonna have an affair ...then get the hell out ....for good ! If you dont like the way he's acting then stay with the guy your having the affair with.  Nobodies saying that she shouldn't enjoy sex...but maybe just maybe ...if she was having trouble in her relationship, back in 1999..she should have sought councilling before bedding down another man !

I couldnt disagree with you more. What you wrote is absolutely rediculous. No one on this blog is suggesting that a woman whos had an affair should be abused and put up with it. But in this instance....The woman is adding fuel to the fire by continuing to find time to have affairs, instead of picking up and leaving with the kids. If she's sooooooo scared and soooo afraid for her life, then why doesn't she pack a bloody suitcase and head for the hills instead of a bar or better yet another man's bed.  How can she possibly find time to have sex with another man, knowing full well that she's being watched and spied on, for 11 years...and then return home and expect for him not to be upset angry possessive or controlling. If you're gonna have an affair ...then get the hell out ....for good ! If you dont like the way he's acting then stay with the guy your having the affair with.  Nobodies saying that she shouldn't enjoy sex...but maybe just maybe ...if she was having trouble in her relationship, back in 1999..she should have sought councilling before bedding down another man !