Topic : 04/27 Obsessive Love: The Drama Continues

Wether she cheated or not there is no human being that should be treated in such a manner!!!!!!!!! No one brings on or deserves to be stalked or controlled. Believe me, I am very againest cheating but I still believe this!

The thing that is so upsetting to me is that I see a potential break down happening where someone will get hurt or possibly killed. His behavior is NOT normal and there is no reason or excuse for those actions.

I use to work at a  Hospital and on a ambulance where I know real family dramas happen. I have seen the damage of a controlling person snapping. Or them feeling like they are losing control and will do anything to keep that control. I have seen a boy paralyzed by being shot by his father out of jealous towards his mother, and now the only survivor after witnessing his father killing his mother and sister then himself.  Plus many more real life stories.

I fear for her life and/or for her childrens lives.

I truly believe this man is not rational and will never think rationally. He needs intense therapy and she needs to hide out.

This story scared my mom and i both. I was in a controlling relationship but it COULD NOT hold a light to what these Freak is doing to her. But what i dont understand is why she doesnt try harder to get out. I mean there are homes and shelters for battered women like her. Her kids are going to be the ones really hurt in the end. They are too young to witness a situation like this. He has a crazy look in his eye and talks like a mad man. He needs to seriously be put away somewhere. Someone like this would kill her if it came down to really losing her. HE DOES NOT LOVE HER. HE IS OBSESSED WITH HER AND THAT IS NOT LOVE!!! When you love someone you deffintley do not want to make their lives a living hell.

I watched todays show and i think he is over the edge and she needs to get out. it does bother me that she took or was not given any responsibility for her part in this though. it makes me wonder if it would have come to this if she had not cheated in the first place.  before someone cheats they should think of what could happen. i think people take marriage to light.

I see no life in his eyes and i fear for her and i fill that if this marriage goes on she will be hurt by him. i do not think he is really a bad man but he is wanting to hold onto someone that he should have let go  a long time ago. i think he needs lots of help. this reminds me of when you hear someone went off the deep end and kills the entire family.

for both of them to carry on like this with the children in the middle makes me think they both have a problem. If someone did me this away (lock me up) once i got out i would take my children and run as fast as i could.

I know this guy has some bad mental problems and I hope he realizes he needs help and takes the help Dr Phil is offering and i hope his wife realizes what cheating can cause.