Topic : 05/10 Obsessive Love: Secrets Revealed

I hope not! Dr. Phil seemed pretty serious about keeping her safe.  If he's got to loan her body guards to guard her house for the next few weeks, I think he'll do it.

I hope a lot of people are keeping Jennifer in their prayers.  I know I am!

I gotta completely disagree with you about that! Jennifer has done nothing ~ not anything ~ to deserve this kind of abuse!!!  To say that "she has played a significant role" is to also say that somehow what Jeffrey did was okay and that is NOT the case.

She was nineteen years old and she unknowingly hooked up with an abuser.  To quote Dr. Phil, "It's not her fault."

I am the child of an abusive home.  My father beat the crap out of my mother for 12 years.  There were times she would stand up to him and not be afraid, then he tried to kill her.  I got thrown across the room when I stopped him from going to punch my mother in the face.  This is not about Jennifer's cheating.  Jeffery is sick and deranged.  He married her when she was only 19 years old and he was 30.  He was already looking to control someone.  If you really were in an abusive relationship, you can see in her eyes and in his eyes.  Fear in hers and insanity in his.  My mother finally divorced my father in 1975 when there were no safe houses, no real restraining orders, and it was okay to beat your wife.  My mother tried to run away many times, and he hunted us down.  He choked her, suffocated her, strangled her, shot a gun at her, and beat her with his fists many, many, many times.  Most people didn't know, because she hid it.  Abuse has nothing to do with the the behavior of the one spouse, it is the abuser that has the emotional problem.  My mother never deserved to be beaten, I never deserved to be hit with a 2 x 4 or thrown across the room, but it happened.  My mother told my father, either you kill me or I divorce you, either way I'm leaving.  So please stop everyone who wants to blame Jennifer. STOP STOP STOP!  Because you have no idea what the hell you are talking about!

Terri

I have seen in his eyes he will keep on doing this she should get out and stay out of this marrage as he will keep on doing it and he might hurt her and the kids.

He really dont need to say all those things to her is he just not sure what he is doing he must be mad

I feel so bad for Jen, she doesn't need a CRAZY man in her life. She is so beautiful she can get any guy she wants. He is a loser and he needs ALOT of help.