Topic : 05/11 Obsessive Love: On the Run

Well, I told you guys yesterday about today's episode...Boy, Jeffrey sure looks like he really wants to cooperate with everyone involved, right? Uh, NOT!

At least they finally grabbed hold of him & locked him up, that's probably the best thing for him right now. He obviously isn't committed to seeking any help whatsoever & simply just wants to go home & go back to everything the way it was. Well Jeffrey, that's just not going to happen; like I said yesterday, you blew it Jeffrey, now you have to pay the consequences. You took things WAY too far with your wife & kids. You really haven't done much to earn anyone's sympathy. I still would like to see Jeffrey get the help he needs, but I'm not sure if there is anything available that'll be enough. He violated just about every condition that was in place, so I guess there aren't many options left. The only solution now is to send him to prison. Knowing Jeffrey though, he'll probably find another way, shape, or form to try & stay in control. It's rather sad when you think about it really.

Here's hoping that Jen here kids, & her family get cope through this. I don't think we've seen or heard the last of this story folks; for now, we can only hope for the best.....

I'm glad and relieved for Jennifer and her children that he is in jail but for how long? Jail is not going to stop this sicko he will come out and start the crap  all over. she really needs to get a different place with lots of security in place. I hope Jennifer gets counseling and stays single for a while she needs to learn how to become independent  and feel good about herself  before becomming involved in another relationship. Hopefully counseling can help her so that she will be able to see the warning signs of control and abuse  so she will not find herself in a simular situation again. I think she was so young and inexperienced when she got married and never had a chance to become a fully independent adult and Jeffery controled the relationship from the begining and it would not have mattered who he married he would have done this to anyone he had a relationship with. I hope the tapes can be viewed by the judge and I hope he never lets Jeffery near Jennifer or children he is dangerous.

 I hope he gets what is coming to him in jail. Maybe the men in jail will stick it to him and he will see how it feels to be scared and all alone. I would never let my children be alone with that sicko no matter what the law said. The law can not always keep u safe. If I was Jenn I would get a roommate as soon as possible.

Good luck Jenn you and your family are in my prayers.

There is no excuse for what Jeffrey did, and the man is clearly disturbed. But, watching this drama unfold, I feel like not only is Jennifer enjoying the attention she’s getting from the public, but she’s also been provoking her husband. First of all, I don’t believe her when she says she doesn’t flirt with other men, especially on line. What married person do you know who innocently sends scantily clad, bikini or other, pictures of themselves to people on line? Now granted Jeffrey has issues and went way overboard, but come on people. If you found your significant other sending pictures of themselves in their underwear to people on line, you would be pissed too.

Then on today’s show, I have never heard of a battered person, fleeing for theirs and their children’s safety, going out on the town taking dozens of pictures with men they don’t know and posting them on a website that you know your stalker husband will find. Not to mention the fact that she knew that he knew where she was, and had already tried to take the kids. Also, why the hell didn’t she change her phone number…heck she could have changed her phone service. I think she needs as much therapy as him. I would even go so far as to say that she may have a mild form of Munchausen syndrome, or something like it. I can’t remember the name of the disorder where people hurt themselves to get attention.

But hay what do you think? I know what I would have done in that situation…never married him in the firs place. Obsessive behavior, unless provoked by something like PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Dissorder), doesn’t just start over night. There had to be warning signs, and she obvously ignored them.

What would you have done?