Topic : 05/11 Obsessive Love: On the Run

Thank G-d for Dr. Phil and his staff members!

Jeffery is a sick man obviously.  I have not doubt that he is capable of murdering his wife if he is let out of jail.  Although she may love Virginia, I would get out of that state (after finalizing the divorce) and never return.  No judge in his right mind would ever allow that man to have any type of visitation rights in the future (if ever).  This was such a emotional show.  Too emotional.  I felt awful for the wife throughout each of the three shows.  I wanted to call her and tell her to leave and don't ever look back. The man is very ill and will probably never recover from this obsessive behavior. Being in jail for many years won't cure him, but it will keep her safe!

Such a heart-breaking show, yet knowing Dr. Phil has her best interest at heart does calm my nerves much more.  I hope Dr. Phil does keep everyone updated on this situation in the future. 

Thanks Dr. Phil for being the person that you are. 

LGK

I notice a total lack of feelings or emotion in this guy's eyes - he only sees life from his point of view, cannot put himself in the shoes of others emotionally.   Aspergers anyone?

Her actions did nothing. HIS actions led to every single thing you've seen. Every. Single. One.

Without exception.

He was like that before he met her. He was like that from the day they got married. It would not have mattered what her actions were. Period. If she had female friends, he thought she was a lesbian. If she had a job, he thought ALL her co workers were a threat.

Panic does not explain a camera in the bedroom and turning up the heat so he could see her asleep and uncovered. Its entitlement pure and simple. She is something he thinks he OWNS. She isnt a person to him, she's an object, a possession. Thats why he is acting this way. Not because he's distraught or panicked or any other excuse or "explaination". He thinks he has the right to own her. Thats it.

I watched the watched show .....but I'm curious, was there a history of physical abuse and not just mental?  I don't understand why she's always crying acting like he's going to hurt her.  And her comment about Nicole Brown Simpson was way over the top, that woman had a real history of physical abuse.  Granted I think the husband is a nut but portraying him as violent may be over dramatic, unless he's hurt her physically before.  Plus I don't think she has been held accountable for any of her actions, and I was suprised Dr. Phil did not bring up the fact that her actions regarding other men have been inappropriate.  I know he's paranoid, but I think her actions have feeded it and escalated it. For example, in that photo shown she looked very cozy with a guy she supposedly has only known for 5 minutes.  Not saying there was any wrong doing, but to a guy already worried it looks that way and she's fueling the fire.  Not to mention the phone calls at home, and the myspace page etc.

I knew it.  As a matter of fact, the last post I made on this site I stated it.  This man is CRAZY.  I'm no doctor, but I can see it clearly.

He is sick.

I pray that Jennifer and her children remain safe.

Face it - a restraining order is just a piece of paper.  Do you all really think a piece of paper is going to keep this lunatic away from this woman?  Do you think he is going to back down?  Why would he?   All of America has seen him on TV - who else is going to want to have anything to do with him if Jennifer divorces him.

Even with treatment and therapy he is so far gone that it would take years to fix him.  After all the stuff he has done to her, he still thinks it's not his fault that the marriage failed.  He is dillusional.

Mark my word - he is going to harm her.

One more thing Dr.Phil has the best help to provide so he "says". Why then was able to keep calling her and able to get on the Internet to check all of her messages? If she was up to something and doing things wrong on her mysapce then she is really stupid.

Just because you take a picture with someone does not mean you are cheating. Just like Jeffrey said "she ran to someone else's arms " just because she took a picture with some one that is so crazy.

Sounds to me like Jeffrey has a guilty conscience.