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Topic : 05/11 Obsessive Love: On the Run

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Created on : Friday, May 04, 2007, 12:13:43 pm
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The incredible drama continues involving Jeffrey, an obsessive husband who won’t let go of his wife, Jennifer. After the last show, Jeffrey is on his way back to the treatment facility, when his anger gets the best of him, and he jumps out of the car and goes on the run. He finally calls his therapist from a taxi cab, but soon after is on the loose again. After four hours and a frenzy of phone calls with Dr. Phil show producers, see what Jeffrey demands. With the stress and pressure getting the best of her, Jennifer sits down with Dr. Phil to discuss their next step. In a hurried panic, Jennifer heads home and is shocked by what she finds when she walks in the front door. She takes her kids and flees to her mother’s house. Even though she’s in a safe place, why does she say she still lives in fear? Then, Jennifer’s attorney files papers and meets Jeffrey in front of a judge. Will Jeffrey be able to comply with the judge's orders? And, Jeffrey resumes talk with the Dr. Phil staff. What is he asking for? Jeffrey’s behavior continues to shock and mystify Jennifer and leaves her with only one choice. Share your thoughts, join the discussion.

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May 6, 2007, 12:23 pm PDT

Too bad

Too bad there isn't a wife protection program like the witness protection program wherein the endangered spouse is given a new identity, new location, new social security number and the support needed for a total identity shift. 

 

Jeffrey has blown his chances and Jennifer can now, with a clear sense that she did whatever she could, jettison the mental case.  He needs to be served with divorce papers and papers that mandate his staying away from her. He also needs to be imprisoned if he approaches her.  Her house was swept for spyware, I gather, and some was found. This should be kept and used as evidence in any suit that develops and, God Forbid, as evidence in any criminal case should he not be kept from harming her.  He will try to kill her. That is almost inevitable.

 

Karen

 
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May 6, 2007, 12:24 pm PDT

NEW IDENTITY

Just from watching this show and seeing the commercials for the next shows, I don't think he is going to just let her divorce him.  I am scared for her life and I think if they divorce he will hunt her down and he will try to kill her.  I think she needs to move to another state and her and her childrens identities need to be changed.  I  know that would be hard for her, but that man is unstable and if they don't lock him in jail or a psychiatric facility he is going to lose it!

 
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May 6, 2007, 12:48 pm PDT

run for your life

Please lady get your kids and go!  there is no amount of money or nothing that can add up to the safety, of your kids and yourself.  you may love this man but is toxic to you. Please don't let the media tell the world that you are missing or found dead you and your children.

Break free now and never look back.

 
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May 6, 2007, 1:13 pm PDT

GET OUT JENNIFER

JENNIFER NEEDS TO GET OUT OF THIS CRAZINESS OF A MARRIAGE AND GET THEM KIDS AWAY FROM THERE FATHER BEFORE JEFFERY GOES NUTS AND HURTS THEM OR SOMETHING TOTALLY CRAZY IF JENNIFER CANT COME TO THE TERMS OF LEAVING JEFFERY THE CHILDREN SHOULD BE TAKEN AWAY FOR THERE SAFETY. JEFFERY IS SICK AND DEMENTED I FEAR THAT JEFFERY COULD KILL JENNIFER FOR TRYING TO LEAVE I FEEL THAT JENNIFER NEEDS TO GO IN TO PROTECTIVE CARE TO KEEP SAFE FROM JEFFERY.. HE IS SICK REALLY REALLY SICK AND NEEDS LOOOONG TERM CARE WHAT EVER IT TAKES IT SHOULD BE DONE TO KEEP JENNIFER AND THE KIDS SAFE....

PLESE  DR.. PHIL DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO KEEP JENNIFER SAFE!!!!!!!!

 

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May 6, 2007, 1:50 pm PDT

He's Going To KILL her

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Too bad there isn't a wife protection program like the witness protection program wherein the endangered spouse is given a new identity, new location, new social security number and the support needed for a total identity shift. 

 

Jeffrey has blown his chances and Jennifer can now, with a clear sense that she did whatever she could, jettison the mental case.  He needs to be served with divorce papers and papers that mandate his staying away from her. He also needs to be imprisoned if he approaches her.  Her house was swept for spyware, I gather, and some was found. This should be kept and used as evidence in any suit that develops and, God Forbid, as evidence in any criminal case should he not be kept from harming her.  He will try to kill her. That is almost inevitable.

 

Karen

This man is frightening, men like this kill their wives, because if they can't have them nobody will.  She SHOULD be frightened, Dr. Phil and Robin help her start a new life.  She needs out like yesterday.  Her kids are in danger too, because he won't stop with just killing her he'll kill the kids too.  I pray he never has unsupervised visitation because he is extrememly unstable.
 

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May 6, 2007, 2:52 pm PDT

No Joke

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This is a very dangerous man. Possibility a fatal attraction in progress.  Jennifer needs a safe haven in the storm and get out of this situation.  Jeffery needs more help than a few weeks and may never be completely well.  I will bet if you could check he was selling the pictures on the internet.  Dr Phil  I have a lot of faith in you but even you cannot fix this one.........hnybee1942
This is just waiting for a tragedy to happen.  Dr. Phil knows how dangerous this is and I am hoping he can control the issue till that Lady and her kids can get away from him forever.  I know, I was in her situation and thank God I am still alive.
 
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May 6, 2007, 2:54 pm PDT

You Lose

Dr. Phil

This guy needs to find a  submissive woman who wants and desires the BD/SM slave Master lifestyle.

He just needs to channel his obsession and leave that wonderful Lady Wife alone.,,,He can justify anything and his face tells it all.

Really send him to the BD/SM lifestyle and leave the rest of the world in peace

Thanks,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

 
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May 6, 2007, 6:22 pm PDT

It's going to get bad long before it gets better

I knew after watching the 1st. 2 shows that he was feeding Dr. Phil a huge load of BS.  He had no intention of changing and he knew it.  The whole "doubled over the garbage can in fetal position" didn't convince me one bit.  Infact I laughed while watching him writhing in pain, or so he wanted us to think.  What was up with that anyway?  I guess I'd hoped he would be MAN ENOUGH consider her feelings and take this seriously but I knew he was incapable of thinking about anything other than his SICK and TWISTED obsession.  This guy is definitely breathing up good air.  Sometimes I wonder why God lets these kind of people live. 

 

For Jeffery to leave her alone completely, she is going to have to hire a body guard and/or keep her house surrounded with cops day and night.  No restraining order is going to stop him, I'm sure of that.  Whoever said that about the Wife Protection Program is brilliant!  There certainly needs to be one. 

 
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May 6, 2007, 11:16 pm PDT

Run and don't look back

This guy Jeffery is a seriously demented man and needs long term help before someone gets hurt, Its men like him that kill there wives and kids and then themselves, It makes me angry that Dr. Phil didn't help her get protection from this man right from the beginning, He reminds me of something out of a movie, I can't believe this poor woman has lived like this for so long. No one should have to go thru this .. If it were me I'd been gone and never looked back years ago...
 
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May 7, 2007, 7:24 am PDT

affairs arent right, but thats not the issue

Dont blame Jennifer, its not her fault, AT ALL!  I have read some posts where members are mentioning her affairs (all those years ago) as if it has anything to do with it.  Of coarse having an affair is wrong, but it is obvious that this man has and already had mental problems that have nothing to do with her having an affair.  I know of couples where one spouse has had an affair, and they stayed together and worked it out, but none of them acted like this man is, not what so ever.  The only way I believe her affairs could have been related at all is that she had them because of feeling trapped with how controling Jeffrey was right from the start.  Im guessing she made those mistakes because she was seeking love, because she wasnt truely loved at home, but instead treated like a posession.  Bringing up her affairs as if this is her fault is just plain abusive.  Would you blame a child that was being spanked or screamed at everyday because he was a bad boy seven years ago?  I mean seriously people, that is what its like when you try to blame Jen for any of this.  The guy is just plain mentally ill.  And she didnt cause it!   I think part of the problem why Jen put up with it is because she felt guilty and she tried hard (way to hard) to fix him, and now she has some people here trying to back that up by pointing a finger at her.  To anyone that does, maybe you should seek some counceling of your own, because that way of thinking is just plain disturbing!   

 
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