Topic : 05/11 Obsessive Love: On the Run

I can't believe you're putting ANY blame on Jennifer! That makes no sense whatsoever! That was a very long time ago. And many, *many* people have been cheated on way in the past *without* going absolutely flat-out crazy like Jeffrey has! Give me a break!

He's a control freak; he's completely crazy! He SO creeps me out! I don't think Jennifer should ever be near him again--he's WAY over the edge! I've never seen anyone on Dr. Phil's show--or any other show--who creeps me out as much as this guy. IF he even gets to see his children (& he probably will), he should definitely be supervised--by someone who can make sure he doesn't try to grab the kids & run. Poor kids! Blaming it on Jennifer is so wrong! We all make mistakes; we're all human. It's NOT her fault! Dr. Phil said that & I completely agree.

This is a guy who will do ANYTHING to feed his obsession. If he doesn't do anything (& I pray he doesn't) to put himself in jail, he should definitely be committed. There's something terribly wrong with this man! And he doesn't even know it! He has no idea how nuts he is! That's why he's so dangerous! Even her lawyers agreed that she had to leave her house to get away from Jeffrey. I've been in therapy (after my dad died), and, believe me, from what I know, docs are NOT eager to label someone "crazy." But his doctor SAID he was crazy!

Jennifer, you & your children are in my thoughts & prayers. Please know that you have a lot of people praying for you! {{{hug}}} I wish I could help you more. If you ever need to just talk, contact me at joyjoybinks43@yahoo. com (but take the space out before "com"). That's my alternate email address--not my main one, but I'll check it.

Jeffrey is obviously completely out of it--crazy! I don't know if even Creative Care can help Jeffrey; he's still manipulating & lying. He's crazy enough to think she's having an affair...when would she have time for that with all he's putting her through?? He's INSANE! For those of you who don't get it, JEFFREY IS COMPLETELY INSANE! He's a creep who isn't normal! I'm just so glad that Jennifer has Dr. Phil & her lawyer's help--and now a judge. Thank God that he's been exposed for the insane weirdo that he is.

And I just saw that he's in jail. Great!! That's exactly where he should be! I just hope he stays there for a very, very long time! Total nutcase!

Joy

Wait a second. You're suggesting that the show was unreal? What is hard for  you to believe? That this man was so controlling? He admitted to being obsessed with her, to the point of irrationality. That he locked his wife in the basement? He admits this while attempting to blame her for being "physical" with him. Have you looked at her, this tiny woman and him? That he stalked her? The police picked him up across the street after he was served with papers. So, the court system, the judge, both lawyers, the private investigator, the police, Jennifer, the babysitter, the show's producers, the taxi cab drivers and the couselors at the Center are all in conspiracy to boost ratings?

Yes, it really happens.

Hearing about this story, seeing the drama unfold has impressed upon me how fortunate I am to have escaped a similar man. Yes, a man can be that obssessive. Yes, a man can be that irrational. Yes, a man can be that insane.
Jeffery has centered his life around his wife and losing her, he sees as the end of his life. He will do ANYTHING to keep her. Rational thought does not enter into it. Of course it doesn't make sense to a normal, sane person.

THANKS TO YOUR SHOW "OBSESSIVE LOVE" I HAD THE COURAGE AND STRENGHT TO LEAVE MY OBSESSED HUSBAND, AFTER WATCHING THE FIRST SHOW, I REALIZE WITH GREAT SADNESS THAT I WAS LIVING IN THE SAME SITUATION THAT JENNIFER, EVERYTHING THAT SHE SAID ABOUT THE CHAISING, SNEAKING AND FOLLOWING ABOUT HER CRAZY HUSBAND I WAS LIVING IT EVERYDAY, AFTER 4 YEARS OF RELATIONSHIP WITH MY HUSBAND I DECIDE THAT ENOUGH WAS ENOUGH, ON APRIL 29 AFTER CHURCH I LEFT MY HOUSE WITH MY 8 YEAR DAUGHTER, I AM STILL STAYING WITH FRIENDS, MY PASTORS ACTUALLY, AND WAITING FOR A PROTECTIVE ORDER THAT WILL HELP ME TO KEEP HIM AWAY FROM ME, IT WAS REALLY HARD, HE GOT REALLY CRAZY AND DID A LOT OF DAMAGE IN MY HOUSE, BROKE WINDOWS, WALLS AND THE PHONES, I AM REALLY SAD BECAUSE I LEFT MY OWN HOUSE AND ALL MY THINGS, BUT I AM RELIEVE AND I CAN HAVE PEACE IN MY LIFE AGAIN, JUST NEED SOME TIME, THANKS GOD AND THE SHOW I GOT OUT!!! NOBODY DESERVES TO LIVE LIKE THIS, NOT EVEN FOR A DAY.

I AM 33, FULL TIME EMPLOYEE AND GOING TO COLLEGE FOR MY ASSOCIATES WITH DENTAL HYGIENIST CERTIFICATION, ECONOMICALLY, THIS IS VERY HARD, BECAUSE I MAY NEED TO PUT MY COLLEGE IN HOLD, PLEASE EVERYBODY THAT CAN READ THIS MESSAGE, PRAY FOR ME AND MY DAUGHTER, SO THE LORD CAN GIVE WISHDOM AND STRENGHT, AND HELP ME GO BACK TO MY FEET AGAIN FINANCIALLY.

ONCE AGAIN, THANK YOU DR. PHIL. WE LOVE YOU!!!!

Oh my god. After watching this last episode and hearing he's in jail, I feel so bad for Jennifer. That man was a complete and utter 'nutbar'! I truly believe that if he would have continued on this path, he would have eventually harmed Jennifer and/or himself and maybe his children. No one should be able to treat another human being this way. We need stronger laws for this sort of thing. He should go straight from jail to a mental facility where he should be kept for a very, very long time. Jeffrey doesn't live in a place you and I call reality!

Thank you Dr. Phil, for helping this woman and her family. Good luck to Jennifer and her kids!

Dr. Phil,

While she may feel that distance may help her in her flight from Jeff. It's best for her to call a local Woman's Shelter or Safe Home. There, she can be protected, recieve counseling, get referals, financial aid, and help with housing. She'll be able to take her children with her and they too will be able to participate in therapy. There are Shelters in every State and the confidentiality of the Shelters will make it that much harder for Jeff to find her. I wish her well in her long, hard struggle to come. The rewards are so worth the journey.

Shelley

You did a good thing. You are a pretty and smart woman and I wish you the best of luck. You are in my prayers...

best hopes for you.

Nina-