Topic : 05/11 Obsessive Love: On the Run

I am not at all excluding what has happen. Jeffrey is by no means right for the way he has treated his wife HOWEVER, if she was that afraid of her husband, she would have made other arrangements to have her children taken to her mother's home, even before she boarded a plane headed back to the residence. Now as far as I am concerned, the most important task at hand would be to find safety for my children and myself, and going back to the very place that has been shared with this abusive man clearly is not a safe haven to call home anymore. Anywhere but being there at the home would be much safer then taking a chance in being hurt.....She clearly was aware that he was on his way back home because he told her that over a phone conversation they had right before she boarded a plane headed back.

Secondly, how does she find the time to post her profile on a site? That would be the very least of my concerns if I was that afraid of my abusive husband. I am well aware of domestic violence, I have been involved with domestic violence, and there's no way that anyone is going to convince me that she's as afraid as she's making out to be.

If I was being abused to the extent that had me seeking  Dr. Phil's expertise', surely I would not be running right back to the place that I was trying so desperately to escape!!!! A home should be filled with happiness, and joyful memories, so he could have the house, cars, and whatever else we shared together until we had our day in a court !

I am not taking his side in this matter, I'm just simply saying that there's always three sides to a story, yours, mines, and the truth!

Lashawnna A. Burney

Life is complex, to complex for 180 minutes of television to reveal. 

Jeffrey is obsessive, controlling, and potentially dangerous.  He needs help and I applaud Dr Phil for offering help regardless of the situation.  I also applaud the support to get Jennifer away from Jeffreys controlling ways.

However, the show has given us glimpses of Jennifer's behavior.  She has had affairs and she cheered or at least was filled with glee when the divorce attorney indicated that he could get her half of the business.  If Jeffrey was in his right mind when this all began, he should have sued her for divorce on the basis of infidelity, petitioned for full custody of the children and indicated in the legal actions that Jenifer should obtain spousal support from her new lovers.

Just my 2 cents worth.

How on this Earth could anyone think that this man's actions are justified?  It doesn't matter if she stood on a street corner and prostituted herself, she is still entitled to her privacy and dignity.  He has no right to STALK her.  I don't think he is just a danger to Jennifer, I believe he is a danger to himself, his children, and the public at large.  You know what that means. . . the loony bin.  Immediately!  Before Jennifer and her children become one more sad statistic.  Thank God he wrote in to this show.  She may have stayed and continued to accept this behavior until who knows when.  There is no excuse for violating the sanctity of your marriage, but if anyone ever had one this lady did.  She may have been reaching out for help, who knows, but I do know that he is CRAZY and needs to be committed.  Maybe the inmates will teach him a lesson or two before he gets out.  He deserves to feel afraid just like she has.  Bravo Dr. Phill for putting a big, bright spotlight on this man.  He can no longer continue this behavior without the world watching him.   

I am not at all excluding what has happen. Jeffrey is by no means right for the way he has treated his wife HOWEVER, if she was that afraid of her husband, she would have made other arrangements to have her children taken to her mother's home, even before she boarded a plane headed back to the residence. Now as far as I am concerned, the most important task at hand would be to find safety for my children and myself, and going back to the very place that has been shared with this abusive man clearly is not a safe haven to call home anymore. Anywhere but being there at the home would be much safer then taking a chance in being hurt.....She clearly was aware that he was on his way back home because he told her that over a phone conversation they had right before she boarded a plane headed back.

Secondly, how does she find the time to post her profile on a site? That would be the very least of my concerns if I was that afraid of my abusive husband. I am well aware of domestic violence, I have been involved with domestic violence, and there's no way that anyone is going to convince me that she's as afraid as she's making out to be.

If I was being abused to the extent that had me seeking  Dr. Phil's expertise', surely I would not be running right back to the place that I was trying so desperately to escape!!!! A home should be filled with happiness, and joyful memories, so he could have the house, cars, and whatever else we shared together until we had our day in a court !

I am not taking his side in this matter, I'm just simply saying that there's always three sides to a story, yours, mines, and the truth!

Lashawnna A. Burney

My 1st husband was just like that untill he killed himself but I was afraid everytime he took the kids after I left him because it didnt stop.He would take them and then follow me to see if I was with someone else It hurts to get hit and have some one watching you all the time. He would call me from his cell and say look out you bedroom widow and he would be standing ther and that was 12 year of hell .  She needs to get away far away.