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cccold2001
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April 14, 2006, 1:08 pm PDT

((((Hugs to every Woman on this Planet)))

(((hugs to every woman on this planet)))

Women need to rise up. It's up to us Mother's to save our world. Stop right now & recognise we are the chosen ones. We are the light! We are perfect! Just as we are! We have allowed the egoic human to reign our world for long enough! Mother Nature is screaming to our Spirits! Rise up ladies! The time is here. Feel the power in these words! Get inspired to emit our pure light of unconditional love. We know it! We are it!

Allow Mother Nature to show us we can no longer allow the mind created collective fear to rule humanity!

We can no longer cater to the egoic human mind conditioning that we are less than. That is not Truth. The truth that sets us free is the knowing. In your heart you know you are perfect. Woman are strong. We are courage. We are one with The Universe!

You show me a child in danger, I will show you a Mamma Bear. Mother Earth is Mamma Bear. She's had enough of her children living in mind created fear & causing pain to others. We must be the planets healers. We are born to be healers. Isn't it always "Mom" who acknowledges her child's pain? No more band-aids! Let's heal the wounds!

We must align ourselves with other humans who know this! Non-egoic men also know this. Beside every Real Man is an Internally Empowered Woman! We must insist on internally empowering all! For all time we must be compassionate, kind & caring! Do NOT cater to the ego any longer. Ego-which is just external power-a fake mind created power to keep us in "the less than" mind set- must be embraced and un-learned!

We must take our Authentic Power back! No more "dummy-ing down" so someone elses ego rises up.

Where there is light shone upon darkness there is no more darkness! We must contribute to the light of humanity! We can no longer contaminate Mother Earth with our mind made collective fear!

~Marla Ackerman~

 
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sunshine80
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April 19, 2006, 7:50 am PDT

Hugs to you too

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(((hugs to every woman on this planet)))

Women need to rise up. It's up to us Mother's to save our world. Stop right now & recognise we are the chosen ones. We are the light! We are perfect! Just as we are! We have allowed the egoic human to reign our world for long enough! Mother Nature is screaming to our Spirits! Rise up ladies! The time is here. Feel the power in these words! Get inspired to emit our pure light of unconditional love. We know it! We are it!

Allow Mother Nature to show us we can no longer allow the mind created collective fear to rule humanity!

We can no longer cater to the egoic human mind conditioning that we are less than. That is not Truth. The truth that sets us free is the knowing. In your heart you know you are perfect. Woman are strong. We are courage. We are one with The Universe!

You show me a child in danger, I will show you a Mamma Bear. Mother Earth is Mamma Bear. She's had enough of her children living in mind created fear & causing pain to others. We must be the planets healers. We are born to be healers. Isn't it always "Mom" who acknowledges her child's pain? No more band-aids! Let's heal the wounds!

We must align ourselves with other humans who know this! Non-egoic men also know this. Beside every Real Man is an Internally Empowered Woman! We must insist on internally empowering all! For all time we must be compassionate, kind & caring! Do NOT cater to the ego any longer. Ego-which is just external power-a fake mind created power to keep us in "the less than" mind set- must be embraced and un-learned!

We must take our Authentic Power back! No more "dummy-ing down" so someone elses ego rises up.

Where there is light shone upon darkness there is no more darkness! We must contribute to the light of humanity! We can no longer contaminate Mother Earth with our mind made collective fear!

Marla Ackerman

There will be no more dummying-down from me anymore.  I have taken a break from the message boards, and taken time to reflect on my situation in my life.  I have been selling out way too cheaply.  I would rather not have a boyfriend than have a boyfriend that is not ready to have a quality relationship.  I was reading this book, one night, and I realized that I would much rather be spending some quality time with me than spending it trying to find someone who will just do.  Another ringer.   I have been going to my bipolar group and and I am making friends.  Hisjewel is the longest friendship that I have had in a long time.  I am really happy to be working with my children at various projects around the house and yard.  Pieces of my life are falling into place.
 
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April 20, 2006, 12:48 pm PDT

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hello sunshine!!
 
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sunshine80
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April 20, 2006, 2:20 pm PDT

Hi Hisjewel

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hello sunshine!!
How are you?  I am so happy to see you here!  What's new?
 
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April 20, 2006, 3:02 pm PDT

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How are you?  I am so happy to see you here!  What's new?

oh life has been crazy and my health has not been well but hey life goes on and things will change sometime!   

  

how are things for you? 
 
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April 20, 2006, 4:46 pm PDT

Crazy for me too!

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oh life has been crazy and my health has not been well but hey life goes on and things will change sometime!   

  

how are things for you? 

My health is in the toilet, but I have got it under control.  I got my ex out of jail and into the hospital.  I am so proud of our justice system here!  I wish I had easy answers but there are not any.  He wants to get back together!  I do not think it would work.  I just don't have all the answers.  Everybody looks to me for them, but this time I am coming up empty-handed.  My therapist is aware.  We are going to talk about it Monday.  Do you have any advice, you always give good advice.  I am mainly struggling because of my morals, and I was brought up not to believe in divorce.  Oh, Uncle! 

Smile! 

~Sunshine~ 
 
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April 21, 2006, 11:55 am PDT

Things have really improved

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My health is in the toilet, but I have got it under control.  I got my ex out of jail and into the hospital.  I am so proud of our justice system here!  I wish I had easy answers but there are not any.  He wants to get back together!  I do not think it would work.  I just don't have all the answers.  Everybody looks to me for them, but this time I am coming up empty-handed.  My therapist is aware.  We are going to talk about it Monday.  Do you have any advice, you always give good advice.  I am mainly struggling because of my morals, and I was brought up not to believe in divorce.  Oh, Uncle! 

Smile! 

Sunshine 

I prayed and prayed yesterday and all of the sudden things are becoming so clear to me!! 

Cool! 

Good Deal! 

I sure hope that you are feeling better too! 

Smile! 

Sunshine 
 
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April 23, 2006, 3:43 pm PDT

(((((sunshine))))

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There will be no more dummying-down from me anymore.  I have taken a break from the message boards, and taken time to reflect on my situation in my life.  I have been selling out way too cheaply.  I would rather not have a boyfriend than have a boyfriend that is not ready to have a quality relationship.  I was reading this book, one night, and I realized that I would much rather be spending some quality time with me than spending it trying to find someone who will just do.  Another ringer.   I have been going to my bipolar group and and I am making friends.  Hisjewel is the longest friendship that I have had in a long time.  I am really happy to be working with my children at various projects around the house and yard.  Pieces of my life are falling into place.

(((((sunshine))) 

 U GO GIRL!! and never look back....don't try....just be! and pass that beautiful you forward :) 

  
 
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April 23, 2006, 8:49 pm PDT

Thanks I needed that

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(((((sunshine))) 

 U GO GIRL!! and never look back....don't try....just be! and pass that beautiful you forward :) 

  

That made my day!
 
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April 24, 2006, 11:39 pm PDT

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My health is in the toilet, but I have got it under control.  I got my ex out of jail and into the hospital.  I am so proud of our justice system here!  I wish I had easy answers but there are not any.  He wants to get back together!  I do not think it would work.  I just don't have all the answers.  Everybody looks to me for them, but this time I am coming up empty-handed.  My therapist is aware.  We are going to talk about it Monday.  Do you have any advice, you always give good advice.  I am mainly struggling because of my morals, and I was brought up not to believe in divorce.  Oh, Uncle! 

Smile! 

Sunshine 

there is a difference between what you are brought up to believe and what the bible says the bible is God spoke.............  and He says that if one commits idolitry it gives room for divorce though God does not want it to have to happen ...............  when you think of idolotry don't think about wheterh or not he was with another women but think was he putting something before you that ruined your relationship.   idolotry is to place something high above another thing............. the things your ex did are certainly things taht i would not trust that he had changed.   if there was major proof fine................  i think that everyone needs to back off and let you make your own choices and live your own life and all................  God did not give us life to be treated or live in situations like your ex has put you in..................  forget everyone else and what they say and what you may have had drilled in your head think what does God really really say.. there are reasons for divorce i will have to remember where the verses are...............  you see sometimes one marries and the person they married isn't really who they thought but someone much worse and God does not intend on us living in that misery.............. think of God's characters and ask yourself does this fit what i am going through and if there is any character of God it does not shine truth to then well then you have youir answer...............
 
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