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Topic : 08/24 The Dr. Phil House: “Make My Kid a Star,” Part 3

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Created on : Friday, May 18, 2007, 12:42:02 pm
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(Original Air Date: 05/21/07) Dr. Phil’s child star competition heats up! Seven kids with stars in their eyes face the final leg of the competition in The Dr. Phil House, but do their mothers unwittingly sabotage their chances? After speaking with Veronica, Kiki and Larissa about how they could be a liability to their child’s success, Dr. Phil turns to Kim and Susan. Playing a video clip of Kim’s daughter, Alaina, in an interview, Dr. Phil points out the pressure and stress that she feels and how it may affect her performance in school. Then, Dr. Phil shows a video of Susan assisting her daughter, Meagan, during the dance rehearsals. In the video, Meagan struggles under her demands. Will these mothers adjust their behavior and take on a healthy, supportive role in their child’s career? Then, it’s time for the final talent show! Each child performs on the Dr. Phil stage, in front of his studio audience and a panel of Hollywood’s top talent agents, managers and casting directors, who decide the grand-prize winner. The children receive fabulous prizes for their hard work, but they mean little to one upset mother. Share your thoughts, join the discussion.

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June 7, 2007, 2:45 pm PDT

05/21 The Dr. Phil House: “Make My Kid a Star,” Part 3

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 You know I am so tired of people who think  everyone deserves credit just for getting up there. It's gotten  to the point where the quality of the music is totally secondary or unimportant. Even with high school music concerts people will go absolutely nuts after listening to some group sing a song say from the 50's. It doesn't matter that the group completely massacred the song, it only matters that they had fun and sang a song everyone likes. Most of the audience couldn't hear a mistake if their life depended on it anyway.Taking the attitude that they are just children so give them a break lowers the standard. No one expects anything from our kids anymore.They can sing  terribly and almost fall apart during the piece and everyone thinks they're just great! Lets start  raising the standard.They deserve better than positive reinforcement for very low quality performance. 
 Absolutely! Positive reinforcement for terrible performances misleads kids into thinking they have talent that doesn't even exist. And, sends many of them flocking to American Idol auditions. To make utter fools of themselves. And, get lambasted by the judges, especially Simon Cowell.
 
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June 20, 2007, 7:24 pm PDT

Gracie

Hey all!

 

Gracie Maddox has a blog! -For all those that are growing fans, check out:

www.graciemaddox.com

 
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June 24, 2007, 6:02 pm PDT

Episode repeat

I heard these episodes were going to be on again soon, does anyone if this is true, and if so, when?

 

Thanks!

 
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August 18, 2007, 3:33 pm PDT

Doctor House Part Phil Show Three.

A Doctor House Kid Make My Part Phil Star Three. That will be forks you can go home now.

See you next week. Sincerley Your. Russell Vlaanderen.---------------------------------------------

 
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August 22, 2007, 2:18 pm PDT

08/24 The Dr. Phil House: “Make My Kid a Star,” Part 3

As someone who just graduated from NYU as an acting major, i've gotta say if you want to be a real actor, get some training and try stage acting.  Most everyone out in this world can stand on camera and act...it's called voice overs, stunt doubles, and look a likes.  I have been interested in acting since i was in middle school...i got enrolled in dance, and started acting in my school plays, and here i am graduated and traveling around starting in grease.  

 

I dont find any of these childern talented, if anything gracie is..she is not only a pretty girl but she and her mom are mature...not once did you see them bickering over stupid petty things...I'm 21 and i could honestly give 2 hoots about being famous...why would anyone want to be?  if your kids enjoy acting, try stage acting! every summer i did a stage program, and here i am now...

 

this right here is talent, try dancing, singing, and acting...having a 10 hour day 6 days a week....but i wouldn't trade it for a thing....

 

your adults and you have maturity levels the size of a 6th grader

 
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August 23, 2007, 1:45 pm PDT

parents are nuts

don't undertstand why parents have to live their lives thru their kids. Why don't they just let the kids be kids and stop putting soooooooo much pressure on the kids. If they win the competition then thats great. but these Mom are out for blood and think their kids are gold. the only parents who acted normal were Gracie Mom . She was really down to earth and had a good head on her shoulders. Didn't you see the reaction Gracie had when she found out she won?? She couldn't beleive it!!! she was so surprised. Your kids can be good at something and all you need to do is guide them don't push them and tell them to reach for the stars and don't stop even if you get there !!! You Moms need to lighten up and get a life of their own!!!
 
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August 23, 2007, 2:53 pm PDT

The behavior and attitudes of these mothers is extremely destructive.

These mothers are dangerous to the future emotional stability of their children. They are ego-driven and seem to have no empathy for their children. I would categorize then as abusive. What they are doing is indefensible.

I had an emotionally abusive mother. I did not grow up in the vacuous, brain-dead adulation of celebrities in which our culture is now mired. My mother's verbal and emotional abuse was oriented toward my worth as a person.

I know intimately what lack of acceptance by and lack of approval of a parent can do.

These women need to be stopped before they destroy their children.

Oh, the children are not very talented -- they are ordinary -- they have no chance.
 
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August 23, 2007, 4:26 pm PDT

08/24 The Dr. Phil House: “Make My Kid a Star,” Part 3

My daughter that is almost 14 has been in this industry since she was about two on and off.  She has done mentorship programs with a casting director which has taught her the ins and outs of the industry.  I can tell you that a mother like Veronica would completely crush any childs chances of getting into this industry.  The Casting Directors, Agents, Producers and Directors all look at the parent that they are going to have to deal with and that alone can break or make a child career.  I have been told that I am the kind of stage mom that they like to deal with.  I do not talk for my daughter or do I push her into this business.  She is in it for her dreams not mine.  We have also learned what is expected at an audition being that we have been in the audition room as part of the auditioning team at a casting directors office.  I have also been in the audition room while a child was auditioning while her mother was on the other side of the door with hear ear to it, trying to hear what the outcome was going to be, and I can tell you that killed any chance that child had of getting the job.  I have seen so many parents push their kids so hard that it makes it look like the parent wants the job instead of the kid.  I have never discourgaged my child nor have I pushed her into this business.  She is only doing it because she wants to not because I want her to.  I hope this helps.

 

 
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August 23, 2007, 8:13 pm PDT

wow....

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My goodness. Have some class and use her picture appropriately. Don't pander her around here. You are just as bad as the others who can't see when to quit.

 

You know who uses these pictures like you posted of your daughter? Sick, men. That's right. Sickos who mastubate when looking at them. It's gross BUT TRUE. Same with myspace pictures of cute daughter. DO HER a favor and use the pictures of her when visiting agents, not on the web message board. No one is going to hire her from your post.

 

 

beachKern wrote this message in part " I'm very proud of her.  I know this was a "dream" she wanted to do, and we did, and we learned.  We also feel sorry for the ones that lost, and the ones that were in tears.  Some parents, and children put too much into a pagent, where looks are the main focus.  I'm glad my daughter chose a different career path.  She has since graduated from college, with a degree in Biology.  She hopes to help animals in her future."

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A picture of her pretty daughter was with it, and you replied with an awful message.....shame on you. She was not pandering her daughter, nor trying to get her name out there, she was sharing their story....

Beackern, that was a very nice post you wrote, and your daughter is beautiful. Kudo's to her for following her education, she has a "good mom", and it shows ;)

 

 
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August 24, 2007, 6:37 am PDT

Food for your spirit

I lost my only child through a violent act from my ex husband, and I then could have no more.  I try not to judge people, but the advice I can give resulting from this tragedy is:  Cherish your children, honor their ages, let them be the angels they are, watch them grow, let them develop and be who they are meant to become, protect and nurture them, and love them with all that you have.  Parents:  Your influence will shape the rest of their now small lives.  I wish I had the chance to do as I suggest now.  Lastly, know that when you kiss and hug them goodnite, they know that it is you, your spirit, your heart and soul they believe in, not your own fantasies.  Trust me when I tell you:  Life can end very abruptly, and I hope for a long and beautiful life with you and your children.  But you don't want to look back if ever there is a tragedy only to find their life was nothing more than a reflection of your own lost childhoods.

 

Blessings, everyone     

 
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