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Topic : 05/22 The True Life of Marcia Brady

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Every teenage girl wanted to be her and every teenage boy wanted to date her. With her signature perfectly brushed long hair, Marcia Brady, of the hit early 1970s TV show The Brady Bunch, epitomized the wholesome American girl. But the true life of Marcia Brady, whose real name is Maureen McCormick, is far from the world of lighthearted blended-family conflicts that played out on the sitcom in which she starred. Today she is embroiled in a family battle where brother is pitted against brother and father against daughter. Maureen believes her brother, Kevin, has literally brainwashed her father to alienate him from Maureen and the rest of her family, including his grandchildren. She comes to Dr. Phil desperate for help to save her family. First up, Maureen confronts her father and brother for the first time in two years, and even Dr. Phil is shocked by the outcome. Then Dr. Phil sits down with Maureen and her brother, Michael, to try and make sense of the conflict. Plus, Maureen's father and brother, Kevin, make some shocking accusations of their own. If this group must somehow form a family, then why was its most famous member issued a restraining order? Talk about the show here.

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May 23, 2007, 8:15 am PDT

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Dear Maureen,

 

       I don't know if you'll even read this but I just wanted to tell you:

 

      I'm a 45 year old mom   - I was so glad to see you on Celebrity fit club - I love that show - your doing great.  I watched Dr. Phil yesterday because the previews said something terrible was happening to you. (I honestly have never sat and watched one of his shows)   My heart goes out to you, .  I guess your mother was the glue that held your family together and nobody realized how much glue was needed - until she was gone.  P.S.  I also lost my mom two years ago and she was buried on my birthday as well.................

   To lose your mom and then you dad gets ripped out of  your life - so close together, is a horrible situation  for ANYONE to be in, its almost surreal.  Death always brings out the worst in people.  I don't know why, but it just seems that way.  I commend you for the strength you show, your intelligence at how you're going about fixing the problem - I'm sure its a long tough road.... Your strong belief to bring your family back together, shows what a kind heart you are - you didn't even have time to grieve properly for your mom before  you became an instant orphan - only you know in your heart  it doesn't have to be that way.

  Your doing your mom's work now - she would be so  proud of you I'm sure.  I wish you the best of luck, just know there's angel on your shoulder helping you, all you have to do is ask...

 

All my best.

 

Jackei

 

 

 

 

 

 
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May 23, 2007, 8:21 am PDT

She's not acting

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If dad was penniless then there would be no fighting.

After watching the show..I got the feeling Maureen was "acting" in several situations.

I was stunned somewhat with the fact that she often acts like a weak, helpless women. "They made me feel like I was crazy". Oh please!

I was not impressed one bit with Maureens plight in this. The truth be told I bet she spent a lot of years causing her dad a lot of grief. And if she wasn't causing him a lot of grief that she was disconnected from him. Somehow I felt they were never connected.

As a daughter even if my father was in the wrong I could not do this to him publicly. Heck my dad was wrong lot of times about a lot of things but hey he was my dad and I saw other sides to him too. Love has a way of shadowing those failings we have and you have to have that to begin with to not have this.

I don't think she's acting - because what she's going through is surreal to her.  The 'family' she's known has now turned against her - and this power struggle started after her mother's death.   There's a few family members in my husband's family who pull this kind of power-struggle crap every time a member dies.  They're greedy, power hungry ........ and if you're their victim - they make you feel like you are crazy.  It's difficult to pick apart what's real and what's not.  She no longer has her mother's support as back up.  Thank God she has her other brother.    
 
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May 23, 2007, 8:24 am PDT

Kevin is scary

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Kevin is scary! I wouldn't be surprised if they find both dad and brother dead when things start to go against them.
I had the very same thought.
 
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May 23, 2007, 8:32 am PDT

Been there

Watching your show yesterday with Maureen was amazing. Her story is my story. I was born the fourth child in my family and the only girl. The youngest of my three brothers did exactly the same thing in 1991 during the time of our fathers illness and death. Tell Maureen to hang in there, time is the enemy of all lies, the truth will be known. BE STRONG. It was the most difficult time in my entire life. I have forgiven my brother in my heart. so that I could move on with my own life. I haven't seen him or heard from him for more than 10 years and I can live with that.  I wish you all the best and my heart is aching for you.
 
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May 23, 2007, 8:38 am PDT

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I'm 48 minutes into the show and I still don't understand what Ms. McCormick is accusing her brother and father of doing.  Has this been unclear to anyone else?  The video footage of her confronting these men show them to be two very reasonable men.  That could have been my pop and me.  Now, I'll get attacked for saying this, I realize.  So, let me have it.

 

But ... isn't this pretty much a case of he said, she said, and the "she" happens to be a celebrity?

Not attacking you - but I don't agree with you at all about these two being very reasonable men.  This family is in serious trouble and needs intervention.  All Kevin and dad kept doing was referring to Maureen's  "crimes" but never specified what those crimes were/are....... and were laughing at her, walking away when confronted about specifics of her "crimes."      To me - Kevin looks like either an active drug user or suffers from brain damage from past usage - wasn't it said he was on heroin at one point ?  (no track marks on the arms ? - maybe he's shooting somewhere else or he's on meth - he didn't make an offer for her to check his teeth did he? - wonder how many are falling out cause he looks and behaves like a lot of meth heads I've observed - Meth heads can also be very paranoid and move from place to place ....... wonder what a drug screen would show?)  As for dad - I think dementia or alzheimer's is beginning to set in.
 
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May 23, 2007, 9:19 am PDT

This is a common tragedy

I have been watching the show waiting to hear one story that is similar to mine.I felt so alone.There it was.My brother kidnapped my mother from a nursing home.He stole all her money,built himself a new home,and has isolated her from the entire family.Her sisters all very elderly refuse to help me gain control of this situation.He is my only brother.He has disowned his own children to keep us out of my mothers life.He has brainwashed her saying we do not care.He has been been moving all over Wisconsin and never letting anyone know.I found his most address from using intelious but they will not give me a phone number.His wife is a felon for attempted murder of a child.She has put a restraining order on me so I can't get to the truth.If anyone feels more alone in this world,I lost my whole family.His children stand beside me in this fight.I have clinical depression and three nervous breakdowns.I cannot get past the betrayal.

God have mercy to anyone that is going through this.

 
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May 23, 2007, 9:31 am PDT

Same thing happened to me...

I am 38 yrs old hard of hearing and crippled woman living in Florida. 

 

I can't believe what I heard about ur personal life on Dr. Phil's show last night.  My personal situaiton is different from yours, Maureen.  My mother and oldest brother stole my money when I was living with my parents until I got married.  I was hurt little bit.  I should have known it by then.  Also, they ruined my marriage.  My brother pawned my scooter without my knowledge and permission but I did get another one few years later.  I told Dad I don't want my brother to pawn it again.  He understood.  My hard of hearing hubby left me alone for moving back to southern California almost 7 yrs ago cuz he had problems with them.  I tried to stop him from leaving me alone but it's too late.  We are separated legally for our personal reasons.  It's about SSA.  Legal separation is not our idea, it is Mom and oldest brother's.  I wish my hubby say no to them.  Anyways, I still haven't heard from him in a year since I talked to him in April 2006.  Sounds bad.  I think he's suffering and overworking too much.  A year before hubby left me, Mother wanted to borrow our money for paying a mortgage for her house but we never get it back from her.  She was sounded desperating for money.  We were disappointed at her.  We were supposed to save money for our rental apt and other things.  I wish my hubby say no to her. 

 

Good luck, Maureen.  I hope your personal life will turn around.  I did watch rerun TV series of "The Brady Bunch" when I was young girl but there was no closed-caption at that time.  Surprisely, later on, "The Brady Brunch" has it on.  I understood the dialogue between actors.  I am relieved.

 
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May 23, 2007, 9:48 am PDT

05/22 The True Life of Marcia Brady

Hopefully Maureen will scan over some of the messages on the message boards because I want her to hear this: Only a fool would deny that she is a loving, successful daughter, sister, wife, in essence, a human being that truly wants togetherness for her family. I commend her for sticking up for herself and being able to confront a touchy, delicate subject in front of millions of viewers. On another note, she is much more than a B-actress, as her brother Kevin seems to think. Maureen is an icon and a part of something that defined American pop culture during what seemed to be the wonder years of American families, and she should wear that crown PROUDLY.

 
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May 23, 2007, 9:57 am PDT

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Not attacking you - but I don't agree with you at all about these two being very reasonable men.  This family is in serious trouble and needs intervention.  All Kevin and dad kept doing was referring to Maureen's  "crimes" but never specified what those crimes were/are....... and were laughing at her, walking away when confronted about specifics of her "crimes."      To me - Kevin looks like either an active drug user or suffers from brain damage from past usage - wasn't it said he was on heroin at one point ?  (no track marks on the arms ? - maybe he's shooting somewhere else or he's on meth - he didn't make an offer for her to check his teeth did he? - wonder how many are falling out cause he looks and behaves like a lot of meth heads I've observed - Meth heads can also be very paranoid and move from place to place ....... wonder what a drug screen would show?)  As for dad - I think dementia or alzheimer's is beginning to set in.
Yes.....the brother has isolated the father, and did you notice the father/son action similarities? Maureen said in the beginning of the show her father was very kind and loving over the course of her life. But once around his son, a light switch goes off and it is another personality. Case in point: Her father tried to serve her with a restraining order for what he claims she forcefully grabbed him and tried to get him to leave with her. You can clearly see from the video footage that this was not even the case. So no, Maureen being a celebrity has nothing to do with the situation. She is not using it as leverage or to get a sympathy vote. Let's not forget Maureen's brother Mike is also involved in the situation. How frustrating it must be for her and her brother. Hopefully Mike will continue to support his sister and stick to her side regardless of the outcome.
 
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May 23, 2007, 10:12 am PDT

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I remember watching this series when I was a teen. I never knew that there was turmoil in her life.  Where is her mother in all this?

 

She passed away from cancer 2.5 yrs ago
 
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