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January 11, 2006, 12:11 am PST

Thanks for the meter info./encouragement!!

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 this board really picked up. I'm been on this board for a while now, trying to help when I can.  This is what I discovered from this board. 

1. Get a prescription of Wellbrutrin or Zyban; this takes the edge off of quitting, you have to be on it 1 to 2 weeks before you actually give them up.  

2. Pick a QUIT date.  

3. Get one of these; nicotine gum, inhaler or patch, to get you through the day, I personally used the inhaler.  

4. Post often on the message board of how you are coming along.  

5. Find something to keep hands busy.  

6. Get yourself a meter, www.silkquit.org. , it is an incentive to keep going, once your meter is going on how long you have quit.   

7. Read some of the old postings on this board, to see what worked for others, also the "archives".  

   

Nicotine is one drug that will tell you  "just one more time", and if you do, you are  hooked again.  

I really believe everyone that has smoked, has tried many times to put them down, hopefully this will be the right time for you !!!!!  

I, myself smoked 34 years, a pack a day. I am also a Lung Cancer survivor, minus a left lung now.  

  

Linda 

  

Nine months, one week, three days, 11 hours, 27 minutes and 37 seconds. 6851 cigarettes not smoked, saving $1,294.92. Life saved: 3 weeks, 2 days, 18 hours, 55 minutes.
 

   


Hi Linda! Thanks for the meter info. You hit it on the nose when you said nicotine is the "one more time" drug... I am sorry you had to go through what you went through. I am glad you are doing better, and think it's great how you are trying to help others!
Take Care,    Jamie (BigKid)
 
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January 11, 2006, 12:31 am PST

Don't worry... it will eventually!

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Day 2 is harder then day one was I don't know why but that is all I keep thinking about is cigs.Good thing I am to lazy to take the kids out to go get a pack. I thought about it and told my oldest that we were going for a ride to get smokes and she said "no" so that was that. Bed time soon so I think I can say I made it another day.                                                                                                                            

  

One day, 21 hours, 19 minutes and 24 seconds. 18 cigarettes not smoked, saving $4.33. Life saved: 1 hour, 30 minutes.
 

 I hope this gets easier. 


  Hey. Congrats on making it through Day2. Be proud of yourself and stick with it! Day 2 is harder than day 1. I believe it has something to do with it takes a little while for all of the nicotine to leave your body, so if you think about it like that  - that makes sense. Besides, the longer you go without one (esp. in the beginning) the more you (mind/body) want/desire one. From what I remember from the 1st time, this will get better with time but is always hard! Sorry I can't lie about that. After a few weeks, it is more of a mental challenge... I like to say mind over matter...
2 days for you (almost start of 3rd - 2:34am right now)/ 8 1/2 (9) for me!!
Take care & remember take one day at a time... You will make it!
 ~ Jamie (BigKid)
 
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January 11, 2006, 12:44 am PST

You have it the best...

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wow thats very good.. im only 15 years old but i know i could never stop..


  I feel the need to send you this email, b/c at 15 I was in your place... Only difference is I never used the phrase "I could never stop." You are only 15 yrs. old and you CAN stop!! It is a lot easier to quit when you haven't smoked so long... You have your whole like ahead of you, and need to make the right choices now. What is the legal age to smoke in Canada? In the U.S. it is 18 years old, and that they are even trying to change (prob. willl never happen b/c the government makes too much $$). You are not even old enough to buy the smokes let alone smoke them. Take care of this now before it becomes too late. I didn't and I regret that for a million different reasons. Just some friendly "older" advice..  Remember - you don't know you can never stop unless you try!! Think about it...
 
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January 12, 2006, 8:12 am PST

Trying to Quit Smoking?

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wow thats very good.. im only 15 years old but i know i could never stop..
I just want you to know that you need to stop now before you get any older I am now 23 stared when I was 14 or 15. You can stop now while youare still young i wish I would have never started. It is so hard to quit. Please try to stop. I haven't read none of your previous messages but trust me if I 15 again I would not smoke. If I took advice from my mom and dad and all of the older people that smoked that said stop now, but no I was hard headed and didnt listen but now I wish I would have.Not trying to tell you what todo. I just know that now that I am grown up with 2 kids and on my own,I've learned grown ups know what they are talking about most of the time. If I only knew that then. 
 
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January 12, 2006, 8:17 am PST

Trying to Quit Smoking?

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wow thats very good.. im only 15 years old but i know i could never stop..
hey its me again just to let you know I am only 23 myself. Take advice and use it wisly and dont take it as people trying to tell you what to do. Take it and dont leave it. They are only trying to help not harm.
 
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January 12, 2006, 6:25 pm PST

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Well what to do???????  I did it I smoked a cig after almost 4 days. I didn't get to post last night. I spent 3 hours in the ER with my 3 year old to find out she has pneumonia. So I didn't get alot of sleep last night had to work this AM and had an awful day there and then I come home to my sick kids. I had it I needed a break. I didn't buy a pack I just had one . Do I need to reset my meter?  I am so disappointed in myself .Any advice is greatly appreciated. I will thank all in advance.  

 
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January 12, 2006, 7:17 pm PST

It happens...

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Well what to do???????  I did it I smoked a cig after almost 4 days. I didn't get to post last night. I spent 3 hours in the ER with my 3 year old to find out she has pneumonia. So I didn't get alot of sleep last night had to work this AM and had an awful day there and then I come home to my sick kids. I had it I needed a break. I didn't buy a pack I just had one . Do I need to reset my meter?  I am so disappointed in myself .Any advice is greatly appreciated. I will thank all in advance.  

I am so sorry that you had a bad day, to say the least. I hope that your daughter gets to feeling better. I will say a prayer for her tonight. 

First of all, you can't beat yourself up for it. If it were me going through what you described your last few days to be, I would have given in too. It takes a long time to break a habit, especially one that helps us cope with stressful situations. I have quit 3 times in the past, only to come back to square one when life gets to be too hard. I know when I started smoking again last year after not smoking for 10 months, I was going through a rough time dealing with things in my family and I just wanted ONE. Before I knew it, I was back up to a pack a day. So, now I know that if I am gonna stay smoke-free, I can't have even one because that is all it takes to slip back into old patterns. As far as resetting the meter, I think that is a personal choice. If it were me, I would. But at the same time, you also have to give yourself credit for making it through 4 days. That is quite an acheivement!!! Keep us all posted on your progress. 

 
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January 13, 2006, 7:25 pm PST

Hi Jamie

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  Hey. Congrats on making it through Day2. Be proud of yourself and stick with it! Day 2 is harder than day 1. I believe it has something to do with it takes a little while for all of the nicotine to leave your body, so if you think about it like that  - that makes sense. Besides, the longer you go without one (esp. in the beginning) the more you (mind/body) want/desire one. From what I remember from the 1st time, this will get better with time but is always hard! Sorry I can't lie about that. After a few weeks, it is more of a mental challenge... I like to say mind over matter...
2 days for you (almost start of 3rd - 2:34am right now)/ 8 1/2 (9) for me!!
Take care & remember take one day at a time... You will make it!
  Jamie (BigKid)

Hi Jamie, 

I just wanted to say you are a very kind and thoughtful person, the way you encourage others. Quitting smoking has got to be one of these hardest things in life. A kind word goes a long way, and you have been there for others. I read the board daily, I just don't have the chance to post as often as I would like. 

  

Linda 

  

Nine months, two weeks, 1 hour, 29 minutes and 41 seconds. 6937 cigarettes not smoked, saving $1,311.18. Life saved: 3 weeks, 3 days, 2 hours, 5 minutes.
 

 
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January 13, 2006, 7:40 pm PST

Hi Amy

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I am so sorry that you had a bad day, to say the least. I hope that your daughter gets to feeling better. I will say a prayer for her tonight. 

First of all, you can't beat yourself up for it. If it were me going through what you described your last few days to be, I would have given in too. It takes a long time to break a habit, especially one that helps us cope with stressful situations. I have quit 3 times in the past, only to come back to square one when life gets to be too hard. I know when I started smoking again last year after not smoking for 10 months, I was going through a rough time dealing with things in my family and I just wanted ONE. Before I knew it, I was back up to a pack a day. So, now I know that if I am gonna stay smoke-free, I can't have even one because that is all it takes to slip back into old patterns. As far as resetting the meter, I think that is a personal choice. If it were me, I would. But at the same time, you also have to give yourself credit for making it through 4 days. That is quite an acheivement!!! Keep us all posted on your progress. 

Hi Amy, 

Your posting I could have said what you have said word for word. I have quit now into 9 months, and at times I just "want one", but I don't dare. I had to learn the hard way, one will lead to many, many more.  I sometimes do that "imaginary cigarette", inhale, then exhale, it really helps. You are doing great. 

  

Linda   

  

Nine months, two weeks, 1 hour, 45 minutes and 8 seconds. 6937 cigarettes not smoked, saving $1,311.23. Life saved: 3 weeks, 3 days, 2 hours, 5 minutes.

 

 
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January 13, 2006, 7:55 pm PST

quiting for the wrong reason

  

I have come to thinking that this is not my time to quit.I really don't think I am ready to quit otherwise it would be easier. Right now I think I am quiting for my husband, ex husband, actually we are trying to get things back together. And I am starting to feel like if he can't accept me as a smoker then he can't except me period so every time I think of having a cig I blame him. He just , in my eyes isn't supportive enough i guess, Does this make any since?He never liked me smoking and always nagged on me to quit. His MOM quit just like that so he says. Why can't  I????????????????   

 
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