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March 24, 2006, 2:11 pm PST

Im A quitter

Hello everyone, 

i would like to start out by introducing myself. I am  Meagan and I am currently a Non-Smoker of 9 months.  

I am proud of my accomplishment but I am starting to get Horrible cravings again, therefore thinking about smoking again. I had to throw out all my candle lighters and anything that can produce a flame just because i dont trust myself not to go for a smoke. 

  

i was just wondering if anyone had any advice 

 
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March 27, 2006, 12:25 pm PST

Sarah and Linda

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   Hi Tray, 

I have used the gum, wellbutrin, patches and herbal remedies in the past. But not all at the same time of course!  I found none of them worked, other than the wellbutrin.  I guess it didn't help that well though, because I was back smoking within months.  This is one tough habit to break, but I do find drinking tons of cold ice water with lemon and breathing very heavily for 10 deep breaths with your eyes closed helps alot.  It's almost like a feeling of getting that first nicotine blast after you haven't smoked in a few days...that light headed feeling.  Anyways, so far so good.  I also logged on Google.ca.  Type in Barb Tarbox's story and view her video.  It's called a life cut short by Barb Tarbox.  If you have kids, and friends and family that love and adore you, it's pretty hard to pick up that next cigarette after seeing this.  In a nutshell, her message  to all of us smokers before she died  was this.  "There is no pain in quitting smoking... not compared to the pain of saying goodbye to the ones you love".   

If you can get to see this video, I highly would highly recommend watching it over and over again to get the message locked into the brain.    You can also try AADAC.ca and follow the links. 

I'm so glad I found this site.  Looking forward to getting to know all of you.  I hate this habit..I have tried to stop so many times it's become a habit quitting.   

Take care, NOPE.... not one puff ever.  Thanks Linda!!! 

Thanks for the encouragement and advice.  Sarah I wanted to ask you about Barb Tarbox.  She is from my town.  Are you near?  You must be in Canada?   

  

I have been on the Welbutrin now for 2 weeks.  I have cut down.  I will do this! 

  

thanks! :-) 

 
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March 28, 2006, 5:57 am PST

Quitting the Habit

I am very excited.  I have established my quitting date as of April 3, 2006.  Counting down the days.  I must say that it's not only exciting but scary all at once.  I am looking forward to this battle.  I find that having an online diary is very helpful.  I also have one on my website.  It's great to read and re-read my entries.  I find it quite helpful.  Also the posts that other members make are very encouraging.  If there are other smokers, ex-smokers that would like to share hints and tips that would be wonderful.  Let's all gang up on this bad habit and beat it together.   

  

Soon to be a non-smoker 

Liz 

 
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March 30, 2006, 7:01 am PST

One Year Anniversary !!!!!!!

Today is a wonderful day, it's my ONE YEAR ANNIVERSARY OF BEING SMOKE-FREE, yippee, yahooo. This is something that I thought I would never accomplish, quitting smoking. What we put ourselves through in trying so, so many times to quit.  

 If I was a runner, I feel I just won the marathon (and I don't run, but now I can take breaths, and not start coughing). This was a race for me to survive.  

Nobody grows up and says I want to be a smoker, it happens when you fall into an addiction that you would not believe how strong of a hold it will have on you !!!!! As a teenager it was cool in the 70's to smoke. In the 80's it was there for you like a cup of coffee. In the 90's you hear all the health issues of what it is doing to you. In the turn of the century, you make a decision many, many times to quit. But it is just not that simple. The nicotine has a hold on you like you would not believe. Something you thought where little chains you could brake any time you wanted. Then you start the process of saying "I am going to quit". You swear  those chains got bigger in link when it was time for a usual light up. The process begins with the praying "help me find the strength to quit". Then our bodies give in, and we light up again. Time to run down to the corner drug store and buy some patches, and give that a try. That may help some, but those chains are still there tighten, you haven't broke free yet. Then it's time to just give in and say "to heck with it", it's more fun to smoke. Years go by, love ones die of cancer and you wonder well it's time again to lay them down. I'm just going to quit and that is it !!! Only to look at the next day and say "I made it only 2 hours and I just had to have one, that's it". Tomorrow is another day, and I will try again. Before you realize it, you have smoked a many, many, years. Some people are lucky that they can quit and not get any repercussions out of it. Others will pay the final price. It is a true gamble every time you put a cigarette to your mouth. Enough of me preaching, with the help of prayer, quit smoking aids and a support system, that is hopefully how you can overcome "the smoking addiction". 

  

Linda 

(my quit date is the 30th of March, my meter will turn one year at 8:00 tonight) 

  

Eleven months, three weeks, six days, 14 hours, 44 minutes and 55 seconds. 10938 cigarettes not smoked, saving $2,116.58. Life saved: 5 weeks, 2 days, 23 hours, 30 minutes.
 

 
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March 30, 2006, 7:53 am PST

Congrats!!!

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Today is a wonderful day, it's my ONE YEAR ANNIVERSARY OF BEING SMOKE-FREE, yippee, yahooo. This is something that I thought I would never accomplish, quitting smoking. What we put ourselves through in trying so, so many times to quit.  

 If I was a runner, I feel I just won the marathon (and I don't run, but now I can take breaths, and not start coughing). This was a race for me to survive.  

Nobody grows up and says I want to be a smoker, it happens when you fall into an addiction that you would not believe how strong of a hold it will have on you !!!!! As a teenager it was cool in the 70's to smoke. In the 80's it was there for you like a cup of coffee. In the 90's you hear all the health issues of what it is doing to you. In the turn of the century, you make a decision many, many times to quit. But it is just not that simple. The nicotine has a hold on you like you would not believe. Something you thought where little chains you could brake any time you wanted. Then you start the process of saying "I am going to quit". You swear  those chains got bigger in link when it was time for a usual light up. The process begins with the praying "help me find the strength to quit". Then our bodies give in, and we light up again. Time to run down to the corner drug store and buy some patches, and give that a try. That may help some, but those chains are still there tighten, you haven't broke free yet. Then it's time to just give in and say "to heck with it", it's more fun to smoke. Years go by, love ones die of cancer and you wonder well it's time again to lay them down. I'm just going to quit and that is it !!! Only to look at the next day and say "I made it only 2 hours and I just had to have one, that's it". Tomorrow is another day, and I will try again. Before you realize it, you have smoked a many, many, years. Some people are lucky that they can quit and not get any repercussions out of it. Others will pay the final price. It is a true gamble every time you put a cigarette to your mouth. Enough of me preaching, with the help of prayer, quit smoking aids and a support system, that is hopefully how you can overcome "the smoking addiction". 

  

Linda 

(my quit date is the 30th of March, my meter will turn one year at 8:00 tonight) 

  

Eleven months, three weeks, six days, 14 hours, 44 minutes and 55 seconds. 10938 cigarettes not smoked, saving $2,116.58. Life saved: 5 weeks, 2 days, 23 hours, 30 minutes.
 

Hi Linda; 

  

Way to go!!!  Hope you are going to celebrate such a great accomplishment!  Wonderful, wonderful and keep up the good work as a mentor here. 

  

  

Aggie One year, one month, one week, four days, 6 hours, 27 minutes and 45 seconds. 10106 cigarettes not smoked, saving $4,037.63. Life saved: 5 weeks, 2 hours, 10 minutes.
 

 
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March 30, 2006, 8:44 am PST

HI AGGIE

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Hi Linda; 

  

Way to go!!!  Hope you are going to celebrate such a great accomplishment!  Wonderful, wonderful and keep up the good work as a mentor here. 

  

  

Aggie One year, one month, one week, four days, 6 hours, 27 minutes and 45 seconds. 10106 cigarettes not smoked, saving $4,037.63. Life saved: 5 weeks, 2 hours, 10 minutes.
 

Thank you so much Aggie. It is so good to see how well you are  doing, great job !!!! We both have came a long way.   

  

Linda 

Eleven months, three weeks, six days, 16 hours, 51 minutes and 9 seconds. 10941 cigarettes not smoked, saving $2,117.10. Life saved: 5 weeks, 2 days, 23 hours, 45 minutes.
 

 
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March 30, 2006, 9:57 am PST

have to try again

Dear Amyec22, 

It's been awhile since i've come to this board, but , my husband and I just fell into the "we've got too much going on and being stressed out to keep trying to quit" mode.  So we're back to the drawing board on setting a quit date (again).  You were so supportive and gave us hope I thought I'd write you and tell you how much you helped when we firtst tried to quit.  maybe next week we'll do it but this time now that some of our stressors are behind us, maybe we can stick with our plan. 

Pray for us to be able to stick with it this time. 

  thanks again, 

Bruce and Berni 

 
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March 30, 2006, 12:01 pm PST

good going

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Thank you so much Aggie. It is so good to see how well you are  doing, great job !!!! We both have came a long way.   

  

Linda 

Eleven months, three weeks, six days, 16 hours, 51 minutes and 9 seconds. 10941 cigarettes not smoked, saving $2,117.10. Life saved: 5 weeks, 2 days, 23 hours, 45 minutes.
 

Its wonderful to see that you have accomplished so much.  You encourage me for my journey thanks so much.  Keep up the good work
 
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March 30, 2006, 12:03 pm PST

Baby steps

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This is my first time writing and need other people's help.  I know in my heart of hearts that I need to quit smoking.  And I'm scared to death.  I've already given up almost everything else that is really bad for me, so I am really scared to give up this last one.  I have been "practicing" for the last few weeks of going without, but always have the comfort of knowing it is still there.  I can't believe all the people who have written on these boards about doing it.  I don't know how they have actually been doing it.  I know I'm not ready mentally, I'm about at 50%, which is further than I've been in the last couple of years.  I just don't know how to let go of it.  My husband was laid off about a month ago and there might not be a choice for either of us.  (He wants to quit too)  We may not be able to afford it anymore.  Any one with any words of support or anything.  I would love to hear from you.  Thank you.    I just don't know what to do anymore. 
Baby steps are very important.  Take it a day at a time and slowly you will get where you want to be.   First off you must be mentally ready.  Then things will fall into place.  I wish you the best of luck and what's important is that you keep trying
 
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April 10, 2006, 10:34 am PDT

I am being successful

I am extremely proud of myself.  Something I never am.  I am always one to beat the crap out of myself, so this has really made me feel really good about myself.  I have cut back to one pack or less a day.  I haven't smoked in the house in two weeks with really is cool.  And I'm working my way up to quitting.  I am in all or nothing person and for me have discipline and practice when cravings come up is preparing me for when I actually do it.   

 

I have been almost if not sometimes a 2 pack a day smoker.  That is a hell of an accomplishement and it is working for me.  I also have the habit of chain smoking during certain situation and that's been an accomplishment.  I will sit and smoke for any reason, at any time, I always had an excuse.   

 

I never thought that I could ever quit, I mean ever, I didn't know how to live without cigarettes, how I could ever function.  And now I am gaining more confidence that I can actually quit.  I feel like I will be successful in doing so.   

 

I don't know if this will work for anyone else, everything has been at the right place at the right time in my life, but this is so cool and it is working for me.   

 

And I have been successful at cutting back this time, when I might make it a day or so.  Just having to go outside to smoke and most of the time not smoking in the car, has been such an accomplishment for me.  I am serious and committed about this.  It has made such a difference. 

 

This is just so cool and it is working for me at this time....I feel like I'm going to make it!! 

 
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