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September 17, 2005, 11:56 am PDT

Just don't start again like I did

Hi everyone,    I am new to the message boards. Not sure I will be around alot though.  So here is what I have experienced in quiting.......    

I quite due to I wanted to but I also was having surgery and after 2 c-sections I knew what coughing would be like. I have tried it ALL!!!   What worked for me was the nicotine inhaler. I heard about it on t.v. and knew it would work. For me, it wasn't something in my hand to fiddle with or to suck or chew on, not even an unlit cig. It was the inhaleing I needed. It worked    8 months later I started up again because my friends smoked and they started dragging me to the bar because I wouldn't go anywhere or with them anyway. That did it! I was sooooo happy and felt so good for the first time in my life, that I could remember and now, well I can't seem to get back to the inhaler and I want to. The drawback for me, maybe not you, was that the inhaler caused me a soar throat for awhile. I don't want to go back through that part again. I'm sick enough as it is!!!!!!  Let me know if you or anyone out there tries this. It was the need to inhale! 

 
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September 17, 2005, 12:33 pm PDT

enjoying life!

 hi guys!
quitting smoking really changed my taste buds!
had a new course this week how to taste flaws in coffee!
never really paid too much attention to the detail in coffee!
couldn't really picture myself going back to 2packs a day! would have to quit my job just to find for it!
but even all that said! i only have 7 1/2 more hours left to celebrate my  big 9M!
i still get my moments to cave a smoke! and it takes a lot not go that step! so prepare yourself for those moments! why is it that made me stop!?!?!?

everybody out there!

keep your stick on the ice!

east coast mario

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September 17, 2005, 1:47 pm PDT

Another Journey

Like with many other things in life that a person has challenges with & tries to over come or better themselves in different ways......quitting smoking is only one of those goals & challenges to accomplish for me. I'm not new to Dr. Phil's message boards, but new to this one in particular; as I am getting ready to take this journey........ 

  

Previously in the past I have quit smoking on two other occasions for a long period of time; once years ago & the other time was about a year ago & countless times which I gave into just one or two days after. Both of the long periods were for about 6 to 8 months long. During both of those times once I got a hold of quitting & got through the initial withdrawals & such..... I enjoyed "everything" about life!! And I loved myself better as a person! I felt healthier. I even had an attitude about others who smoked & wanted my distance from the smoke itself. Not to mention that I "always" had money!!! So I know that when quitting, after about a good month I will be feeling much better & I will no longer struggle with the urge to smoke. And usually getting through the first few days is the hardest for me. For me, it is those first few days that is my biggest challenge & not talking myself into going to buy more & thinking that I "need" them!!! My best aid to quitting smoking is the patch; without that I am more on edge as far as stress is concerned & I have found that I am more successful with them when I try quitting.  

  

I have set myself many goals at the begining of the year, as many people do. Smoking is one of those goals & I have made a few attempts to quitting, but yet to be successful. Funny, my biggest goal was to buy a home this year & it was the one I thought I would surely not accomplish due to credit....but I have! lol.....so now I guess I need to start working on other things. Both my husband & I are quitting together. We were suppose to quit today but I gave in within minutes after waking up this morning & went to the store. Now we are plannign to quit again tomorrow. My husband & I have done this a zillion times. We talk each other into buying cigarettes or give into each other when craving one.  

 
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September 17, 2005, 5:19 pm PDT

Trying to Quit Smoking?

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I am 48. I have smoked since I was 19. I have said every year I would quit. I have never truly tried to not smoke however. It makes me feel weak and guilty. I have a 16 year old son who resents the fact i can't quit. I never smoke in the house or around him but he knows.  He doesnt understand why  I can't just stop.  I have gone through smoking cessation classes by the red cross, a stop smoking class sponsored by a church, accupuncture, hypnosis, zyban and my son's disappointment or disdain as efforts to give it up and I feel like I am the a complete failure, 

that I lack character and discipline and just good sense. Any advice is welcome. Thank you. 

Hi Bamamom 47 , I am 49, and over the years, I have tried to quit also. All attempts unsuccesful. I have been trying since way back when you needed a prescription for the patch and gum. They did not work for me. Neither did the Zyban or the lozengers, or my 2 daughters, mom, and sisters, constantly at me to quit. On the evening of August 18th,  out of the clear blue,  I decided I was not going to buy any more cigaretts. I was going to smoke that night,  and in the morning with my coffee. I had enough cigs for that, actually, I had 3 extra, which I still have in my car. I do not know why i decided to quit, but when I left for work the morning of August 19th,I was not going to smoke again. So far, I have not even had a puff. It is now 4 weeks, 1 day, 13 hours, 16 minutes and 53 seconds. I guess when you make up your mind to quit, you will succeed. I did not have a quit day planned, like from what I have read, most people do. I went 3 days with nothing, on the evening of the 3rd day, I filled a prescription, for the inhaler, which I had gotten at the doctors office the day before. You can use up to 16 a day, I have only used, at the most 6 a day. It seems that different things work for different people. Good luck, and keep in touch Gina
 
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September 17, 2005, 5:44 pm PDT

Trying to Quit Smoking?

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Hi Gina, it sounds like you have a pretty busy schedule with two little ones and a nursing job, too. You are almost into your 1 month anniversary, balloons will fly then. So proud of you to hold on and not give in to that  "nicotine demon".  

At 5 months I still have some strong urges, but they pass with a deep breath. The kind you take when you inhale, then exhale.( Smoking an imagery cigarette.)  I tried so many times to quit in my life, but when I took it a minute at a time and all the other tools I learned from the group, I feel more hopeful.  

It is amazing your sense of smell that comes back, that took about 3 months for me. And I thought I had a great sense of smell, I was fooling myself big time on that one. I can now smell cigarette smoke 2 houses down!!!!!! Of course if they are smoking outside. Here in Texas, the humidity is high, and not much of a breeze lately, so ready for a fresh norther.  

Taking care of someone that is 92 and still smoking, WHOA, that is one of a kind!!!  Keep me updated on your progress. Never fool ourselves, from one puff to being addicted again. 

  

Linda 

  

Five months, two weeks, two days, 12 hours, 55 minutes and 41 seconds. 4068 cigarettes not smoked, saving $768.84. Life saved: 2 weeks, 3 hours, 0 minutes.
 

Hi Linda and everyone. So, I will still be getting craveings after 5 Months ? UUGH??I guess it is ok, as long as a deep breath or 2 will make it go away. I am very busy, between the girls and work. I work 40 hours, takeing care of Mary, 92. Then I work 3 six hour evening shifts, with Leif. He is in a wheel chair and requires total care. Sometimes, I bring one of the girls with me, as I would not see much of them, if I didn't take them along sometimes. There have been a few times, when I almost had a cig, but I was able to talk myself out of having one. That was the first and second weeks. It has now been 4weeks, 1day 13hours and 43 minutes. Thanks everyone for your help with this acheivment. Gina
 
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September 17, 2005, 7:00 pm PDT

Never Give Up

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I am 48. I have smoked since I was 19. I have said every year I would quit. I have never truly tried to not smoke however. It makes me feel weak and guilty. I have a 16 year old son who resents the fact i can't quit. I never smoke in the house or around him but he knows.  He doesnt understand why  I can't just stop.  I have gone through smoking cessation classes by the red cross, a stop smoking class sponsored by a church, accupuncture, hypnosis, zyban and my son's disappointment or disdain as efforts to give it up and I feel like I am the a complete failure, 

that I lack character and discipline and just good sense. Any advice is welcome. Thank you. 

Hi Bamamon47 

I also went to all the stop smoking classes, and where they expensive $300.00 for a week, and I did it twice. But none of the things I did to quit, was I successful, I will say the steps I took were, I prescribed to wellbrutrin, took that for 2 weeks before my quit date. My quit date March 30, I feel the one that will stick with me. I also brought an inhaler, for rough times, I keep it with me, I guess you can say like a security blanket. I know the inhaler has nicotine in it and I am very fearful of returning to smoking. I was a person that truly didn't want to give it up, but when you are told you have "Lung Cancer", that puts it in a different perspective!!! I was truly blessed, they removed the left upper lobe, and I have been clear since, it will be 2 years in October. But you know when your hearts not into it, it won't work. Three months after my surgery, I went back to smoking, a cousin came over (actually the first person that smoked in front of me since the surgery) and I picked those  things up, like it was no  problem for me. Then I preceded to beat myself up daily for smoking again. But it finally hit again when I joined this board. It was totally the support of  people trying to accomplish what you are striving for. And it's working for me.  Post often, we are here for all who want to quit, and for those that are fighting with it daily. 

  

Linda 

  

Five months, two weeks, four days, 51 minutes and 52 seconds. 4080 cigarettes not smoked, saving $775.63. Life saved: 2 weeks, 4 hours, 0 minutes.
 

 
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September 17, 2005, 7:10 pm PDT

Thank you so much

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Hi Bamamon47 

I also went to all the stop smoking classes, and where they expensive $300.00 for a week, and I did it twice. But none of the things I did to quit, was I successful, I will say the steps I took were, I prescribed to wellbrutrin, took that for 2 weeks before my quit date. My quit date March 30, I feel the one that will stick with me. I also brought an inhaler, for rough times, I keep it with me, I guess you can say like a security blanket. I know the inhaler has nicotine in it and I am very fearful of returning to smoking. I was a person that truly didn't want to give it up, but when you are told you have "Lung Cancer", that puts it in a different perspective!!! I was truly blessed, they removed the left upper lobe, and I have been clear since, it will be 2 years in October. But you know when your hearts not into it, it won't work. Three months after my surgery, I went back to smoking, a cousin came over (actually the first person that smoked in front of me since the surgery) and I picked those  things up, like it was no  problem for me. Then I preceded to beat myself up daily for smoking again. But it finally hit again when I joined this board. It was totally the support of  people trying to accomplish what you are striving for. And it's working for me.  Post often, we are here for all who want to quit, and for those that are fighting with it daily. 

  

Linda 

  

Five months, two weeks, four days, 51 minutes and 52 seconds. 4080 cigarettes not smoked, saving $775.63. Life saved: 2 weeks, 4 hours, 0 minutes.
 

I connected so much to your message. Thank you. If you want to email me directly please feel free to do so. Im a kchampion_2000@yahoo.com 

 
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September 17, 2005, 7:12 pm PDT

Thanks for your help

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Hi Bamamon47 

I also went to all the stop smoking classes, and where they expensive $300.00 for a week, and I did it twice. But none of the things I did to quit, was I successful, I will say the steps I took were, I prescribed to wellbrutrin, took that for 2 weeks before my quit date. My quit date March 30, I feel the one that will stick with me. I also brought an inhaler, for rough times, I keep it with me, I guess you can say like a security blanket. I know the inhaler has nicotine in it and I am very fearful of returning to smoking. I was a person that truly didn't want to give it up, but when you are told you have "Lung Cancer", that puts it in a different perspective!!! I was truly blessed, they removed the left upper lobe, and I have been clear since, it will be 2 years in October. But you know when your hearts not into it, it won't work. Three months after my surgery, I went back to smoking, a cousin came over (actually the first person that smoked in front of me since the surgery) and I picked those  things up, like it was no  problem for me. Then I preceded to beat myself up daily for smoking again. But it finally hit again when I joined this board. It was totally the support of  people trying to accomplish what you are striving for. And it's working for me.  Post often, we are here for all who want to quit, and for those that are fighting with it daily. 

  

Linda 

  

Five months, two weeks, four days, 51 minutes and 52 seconds. 4080 cigarettes not smoked, saving $775.63. Life saved: 2 weeks, 4 hours, 0 minutes.
 

Your message was inspirational because it made me feel like my struggles are shared by many.  

I wish you much success. 

 
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September 18, 2005, 1:47 am PDT

you can do it

17-3-2004 i quit smoking, i was aged 56 and was smoking 50 a day. What helped me? I wanted to stop, was number one, understanding that nicotine, is out of your system within three days, understanding my habits of smoking and how and why i started in the first place. Those three little days were the hardest, then suddenly i was so easy, my wife still smokes yet i get no hankering to take it up ever again.   
 
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September 19, 2005, 6:03 am PDT

Chains, chains.......

As I was walking yesterday evening,how I felt burden free the  chains are really there, although you don't see them.  

 My husband dips snuff, claims "he can quit anytime", (has dipped for 32 years), when he has ran out of snuff, there is a mad dash to the store. I say" I thought you said you could quit anytime"? "I can, I'm just not ready yet".  

I know for myself I have made a million in one excuses. But not anymore, now that I'm into my 5 th month smoke-free, I do not take anything to do with smoking for granted, as so I won't slip back into those chains. I might have the chains that were around my lungs off, but the imprint of a cigarette on my mind does not leave. So I keep my guard up, as to things that might trigger a weak moment. 

When you have fought with smoking for so long, and broke free. You are only one puff away from being chained again. There are so many things out there to help a person get over the "hump" in quitting smoking, that we have to STAMP in our minds, we are just one puff from being chained again. If anyone has a moment to read a few reasons to quit, the site is  www.whyquit.com , it helped me. 

Hoping everyone has a good week, we have so much to be thankful for.... 

  

Linda 

  

Five months, two weeks, five days, 11 hours, 50 minutes and 57 seconds. 4139 cigarettes not smoked, saving $782.24. Life saved: 2 weeks, 8 hours, 55 minutes.
 

 
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