Quote From: angelgirl2007I did put the patch back on, and am still smoking about 8 cigarettes a day. If I wouldn't get pissed at my husband and get depressed about our life, it would help a lot. I know he hurts all of the time, but to me it seems like he just doesn,t want to do anything to help himself and I get so mad at him, then that doesn't help the stress any.And that is what makes me want a cigarette. Anyway, on the subject of Wellbutrin, I have taken it about 2 yrs, ago and it did't help me then, of course I wasn't using the patch. I will go to the website and check it out. Thanks for trying to help me out. Talk to you later. Kay
Hi Kay,
We can only help those that want to help themselves. Not sure what your husband's situation is, but seeing you trying to quit is maybe an incentive for him to try in whatever it is he is doing. For years, and years, my family begged me to quit smoking. and to no avail would I do it. Too hard, and it was something I really liked and I wasn't giving it up !!!! Till, there was two related smoking deaths in my family (very close family members) over a period of 15 years, but that didn't stop me !!!! Then guess what? I got lung cancer !!!! That stopped me for about 3 months !!!!! Had my left lung removed and continued to smoke as a closet smoker !!!!! At that time in my life I did want to quit, I had been though enough, but just couldn't put them down.
It was coming across this board and talking to others that helped me and others realize what NICOTINE does and the addiction it has on you !!!!!! What we tell ourselves in quitting, it's all the nicotine addiction. Before I always tried to quit "the habit", little did I know, it was not the "habit" as much as the addiction !!!! There is a big difference. It is a one step at a time process, and one minute at a time. You deal with the addiction then you deal with the habit part. I did take the Wellbrutrin for 2 weeks first, then the quit date, and the inhaler and lots of gum. And the support of a group that wanted the same as I did, to be smoke free forever. I came to this board when it got rough and when I thought things were going good too. I'm here for you too !!!!
Linda
Two years, three weeks, four days, 23 hours, 54 minutes and 51 seconds. 22679 cigarettes not smoked, saving $4,388.56. Life saved: 11 weeks, 1 day, 17 hours, 55 minutes.