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May 29, 2007, 10:06 pm PDT
There is hope!
Quote From: dmjuneHello, I'm new at this so work w/me. I noticed you started out on the "depression" board but I can't seem to find the "category" that suits me. To put it all out on the table: I've lived away from home for 6 yrs, trying to do something different in another state. (family life was fine but didn't want to freeze to death in the upper Midwest and moved to the beach). Since then my family has gotten closer to one another and I find myself spending a lot of $ to visit. Also, I've gone from one job to the next, looking for that golden ticket. I found that 3 yrs ago at a law firm as a paralegal. Loved the work, loved the "family" and the boss. As of 5/11 I was laid off w/another worker due to the slow real estate market. Now what? I am a smoker,had planned to quit, cut down on drinking and finally use the club membership I got for X-mas. But that all went down hill since my unemployment and can't get out of this funk. I don't know what day it is-'cuz who cares when you're not working, my cat's feeding times depend on my wake-up times, and I let my "laundry chores" go to hell. I struggle to find anything to put on just to take out the trash! I'm looking to chat w/people in this similar situation. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thx-DJ Well, I came to this site to help smokers, because I feel like I found a miracle in Chantix, a prescription to quit smoking. However, I can't read your story and not reply. This must be so hard for you-your family is far away, you don't have a job, you want to quit smoking, and you are in a funk. Clearly, life is rough for you right now. Your story makes me sad. I sit here and try to think of what to say. I have been abused by my ex-husband and would probably be dead today if I wouldn't have left. That was so hard-I felt like the life was sucked out of me. I just want you to know that this advice is not coming from someone who hasn't been through any hard times. I'm sorry that all of this is happening to you. By the way- today is Tuesday. I hope this advice helps: get your a*s up, wash some workout clothes and a nice outfit, get up early, go walk on the treadmill (this will make you feel better), look for a job-another law firm perhaps, don't kick yourself anymore-you can quit smoking, there is hope, eat something healthy (you need strength), PRAY, oh yeah, feed your cat. I don't mean to sound harsh, and I am no doctor, but I do know that laying there is not going to make you feel any better. As Dr. Phil would say "How's that workin for ya?".Don't waste another day-life is short-and even though yours may change alittle, it's still yours and it could be worse. We have soldiers fighting for us right now-they want to sleep in their own bed and hold their babies and would probably give anything to be home. That is something that we all need to think about, but especially when we think things couldn't get worse. You will get through this, and remember to help others when you do-that is therapy in itself. Best wishes!! Now, get off of the computer, you've got laundry to do. I'll be checking the boards!
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