Quote From: freckles21I have been married for almost seven years to my high school sweet heart. a few months ago my very close sister confessed to having phone sex with my husband while he was out of town working. My hus. didnt even tell me!!! She said that they were texting naughty stuff to each other, they said stuff like, they wanted to have sex with each other and would tell each other what they would do to each other if they were together. After it was all out in the open my hus said he was being really stupid and would have never slept with her and was just feeding a fantasy.
While i was unawear of what was going on my sister and i decided to go on a road trip and meet up with my out of town hus. (it was her idea) At the time i was like, yeah that would be fun so we met up with my hus and during the trip they later admitted to kissing about 4 times when i was in the bathroom or around the corner. So, even though they never had sex i still feel cheated. i dont know if this is a good enough reason to leave a what has been an awesome relationship. Their phone affair lasted about a week and a half. im just really confused, sometimes i hate both of them and other times i feel like it is something i can forgive.
WOW that is serious stuff. I'm most likly not the best to take advice on a issue like that. I over reacted to a photo I found in my husbands stuff, of him with his arm around a woman, which turned out to be the owner of the local bar in another country, and it wasn't the only photos, everyone was taking photos with her. But I was angry, I'm very easily made jealous. I think i stayed angry for about half a year, and if I think about it too much now I can get angry.
But this is what I do, I think about all the times past and current of sweet things he does for me and says for me. And how my husband made a mistake and wasn't thinking clearly. People arent purfect and have there times of very stupid things. If you love your husband and can trust him once again, then that is great. But sorry, and this is where I'm bias, your sisters doesn't sound like she should be trusted. Or atleast never allow them to be alone together or near each other atleast for your piece of mind. And don't feel bad if you don't always trust your husband, make him work for his trust back. What he did was cheat, even if there was no intercourse kissing and sexual talk with someone you know, alteast I do, counts as cheating.
Just my opinion
It was the affair that rocked the DrPhil.com message boards. Bettie says her husband, John, destroyed her trust when he had a six-month relationship with her sister, Molly — an affair that occurred under Bettie’s own roof! John and Bettie are back, and now they have a new family feud. Bettie says her relationship with her mom, Virginia, has been strained since they last appeared on the show. Bettie says she feels a lot of resentment toward her mother for protecting Molly while Molly was having an affair with John. Bettie and John are trying to heal their relationship and move on, but they say Virginia keeps interfering by calling their kids to pump them for information about their marriage. Now, Bettie doesn’t want her children to see or speak to Virginia until they turn 18. Plus, find out what makes Virginia storm offstage. Can Virginia be a positive part of John and Bettie’s life, or should she stay out for good? Tell us what you think!
