My step daughter is accusing my boys of sexually abusing her.
How do I know if it is true?
How can I tell if she or they are lying about it?
Her mother cheated on dad for 3 years, and took her with (from what my husband says)
Her mother was headed for a second divorce and is in counceling now.
There is so much more....but to sum it up.....
She (10 yr old) has a history of abnormal sexual behavior since she was 3-4 years old.
She has initiated sexual behavior several times and has been caught.
She is totally obsessed with boys.
We never have any problems with sexual talk or behavior in our home unless she is here.
When she leaves....all of the talk stops and we don't have any issues.
Her father and I have warned her mother of each incident and it still gets worse.
Her mother educates her way too much about boys and sex and body parts and functions.
Her mother tried to get her to date a 13 year old boy when she was 9.
She lives with her mother and everytime she goes
back home...she tells lies..NEVER sexual until this time.
She is a cronic liar, but you would never know. She is sweet, kind and thoughtful and can look you
in the eye and talk to you.
She is very decietful and two faced, but you would never know unless one parent tells another, what she said.
What do I do?
Can any of you tell me your thoughts on this? Why would she lie...if this never happened?
It breaks my heart to see her furure shattered more and more each time she goes home to mom.
