Topic : Childhood Sexual Abuse Support

Keep your head held high Peaches! You are not alone. There are a lot of men and women who are here for you. (don't forget the one man above you). You will have days that seem almost impossible. But pull yourself up out of bed and tell yourself that "I'm in control of my life, I am a good person, I LOVE myself!" Then go out there and go-get-um!  

God Bless~Nora 

jbfam@sbcglobal.net 

We are here, we care. I feel alone in this sometimes too. 

How are things going with your boyfriend? Are you still 

together? 

  

Surround yourself with people that have been there and know 

how you are feeling, you can't ever get someone to understand. 

At least I never have been able to. That doesn't mean what you feel 

isn't real. Maybe I am way off of what is going on with you. 

  

I just know I hate it when people tell me to get over it, it is on the past 

and have a drink you will feel better, that's what they do. DRIVES ME
INSANE! 

  

  

Are your kids being abused? If you think they are then why 

not call and report it to the state? Can you get a lawyer and 

see about custody? 

  

My therapist helped me when I was younger, she would report 

what was going on with my younger sister. Of course they  

moved to a different state every time, but we still reported them. 

It can't hurt and could get them to be safe. 

  

Unfortunately I don't think that what has been done can be "undone". 

Wow wouldn't that be nice, but they can get some help in how to  

deal with it all. 

  

God Bless You A LOT! 

  

I feel alone too.  The scars and bruises haven't healed in the 22 years since my abuse stopped.  You don't get over it.  It is always with you..forever.  I have also found that everytime I hear of another child being molested or raped by a family member, friend or stranger on the news or television it brings back my own abusive past. 

That is empathy and some that have been abused don't have it. 

I think we are lucky to have those feelings for other victims, don't you? 

It has been abut that long for me too (22 years), it takes time and 

a lot of work to learn to deal with it, we don't get over it. It does get 

easier with time. Good to see you. 

Ok i need advice. Im 15 and i talk to a pychologist at school. Well he sucks. He doesnt seem to care. My friend agree's I tell him i cant wait til sept for another theropist. Im ready now. Not later. Now for help. Real help. I wasnt before when i had one. But now my mom wont let me get one she  says its useless b/c ill be getting one in sept in my new school( going to a new one because my problems are getting in the way of school but im not desiding of not going). I dont know what to do by now!!!

I am so sick of everything to not even have support from my family. They suck. I hate it here. The person who sexually/phyically abused me IS STILL LiVING WITH ME!! AND I HAVE TO DEAL WITH IT. The pychoglist is like why dont u just forgive him and move on. Im thinking why dont you stfu and have him say sorry. Thank god the other person who sexually abused me moved away!. But the past haunts me. It caused me to many problems and im ready for help unlike before and there making me wait and i cant anymore. Not the way i am.

Please mesaage me back soon!!!

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 IM sick of being told to call 911 

 

 

 I CAN NOT CALL 911! IF MY FAMILY IS HOME AND STUFF! NO ONE GETS IT AND IM SICK OF THIS~ 

K idc if im talking to myself by now this is fine. But i also have friends who i gotta deal with there damn problems to. Where i have my friends come up to me and be like  i cut myself. And they show me. THEY SHOW ME THERE DAMN cut. My mind is messed up enough!!! and i need this. And i have to think should i tell some1 or not and then find out things more. I mean really i hang out with wrong people. I went from quiet n shy. to yelling at cars and flipping the finger. wlakin infront of cars bitchin and stuff and crying b/c things are so MESSED UP.