Topic : Fears, Phobias and Anxiety Disorders

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March 7, 2008, 12:34 pm PST

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hi all i am adoctor after 6 years in college and 3 years of working a doctor i never had aproblem  now i cant see any ond ifear from failing down .......... heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeelp meeeeeeee
 
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March 7, 2008, 7:48 pm PST

HELP ME!!!! (CRYS))

 Hi everyone im 17 years old and almost ready to give up !!!!!!!!!!!

 

Im Cunffused with myself and have not a clue why my body is reactting the way it is... I need Help A.s.P...I cant even walk down one road with out a tear coming down my face, my body then starts to shacke, and then comes the pain at my chest! Later after all that goes through i get the suicidal thoughts.. I DONT WANT TO KILL MYSELF!!! ((I WANT TO GET BETTER))
I wish there was a Treatment somewhere that could help me ive been sent to hospitals, Clsc clinics... and been very tougth! right now im on effexor xr medicine and still aint working been all the way up to 150mg..
Last week i stoped my pills from bad headaches and was all depressed and shocks all over my body. i dont under stand why im having the bad thoughts in my head, am i stupid? am i mentally handicaped? i have not a clue.. but im always stuck in my room everyday scared to go outside aruond people... i wish i can be with my friends again and shop and do all kinds of great things, also get back into school i want to finish and become a counselor when im older..

ty for reading this.. i really need help or might just end up really bad shape then what im in now A.s.a.p.  -Sarah-

 
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March 12, 2008, 3:03 pm PDT

NO EFFEXOR

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 Hi everyone im 17 years old and almost ready to give up !!!!!!!!!!!

 

Im Cunffused with myself and have not a clue why my body is reactting the way it is... I need Help A.s.P...I cant even walk down one road with out a tear coming down my face, my body then starts to shacke, and then comes the pain at my chest! Later after all that goes through i get the suicidal thoughts.. I DONT WANT TO KILL MYSELF!!! ((I WANT TO GET BETTER))
I wish there was a Treatment somewhere that could help me ive been sent to hospitals, Clsc clinics... and been very tougth! right now im on effexor xr medicine and still aint working been all the way up to 150mg..
Last week i stoped my pills from bad headaches and was all depressed and shocks all over my body. i dont under stand why im having the bad thoughts in my head, am i stupid? am i mentally handicaped? i have not a clue.. but im always stuck in my room everyday scared to go outside aruond people... i wish i can be with my friends again and shop and do all kinds of great things, also get back into school i want to finish and become a counselor when im older..

ty for reading this.. i really need help or might just end up really bad shape then what im in now A.s.a.p.  -Sarah-

Hi my name is Ivy and I have been suffering from anxiety and bipolar and ptsd since I was 15 I am now 28.  I just wanted to say that Effexor is an antidepressant and that would cause you to be more jittery.  Do you have problems with depression?  I am on Klonopin and Hydroxyzine for my anxiety.  I have a friend who has anxiety and she is on Ativan.  Maybe you could suggest these to your doctor.  An antidepressant is definitely not the way to go.  Hope everything works out for you.
 
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March 12, 2008, 3:10 pm PDT

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Quote From: angel1wings

 Hi everyone im 17 years old and almost ready to give up !!!!!!!!!!!

 

Im Cunffused with myself and have not a clue why my body is reactting the way it is... I need Help A.s.P...I cant even walk down one road with out a tear coming down my face, my body then starts to shacke, and then comes the pain at my chest! Later after all that goes through i get the suicidal thoughts.. I DONT WANT TO KILL MYSELF!!! ((I WANT TO GET BETTER))
I wish there was a Treatment somewhere that could help me ive been sent to hospitals, Clsc clinics... and been very tougth! right now im on effexor xr medicine and still aint working been all the way up to 150mg..
Last week i stoped my pills from bad headaches and was all depressed and shocks all over my body. i dont under stand why im having the bad thoughts in my head, am i stupid? am i mentally handicaped? i have not a clue.. but im always stuck in my room everyday scared to go outside aruond people... i wish i can be with my friends again and shop and do all kinds of great things, also get back into school i want to finish and become a counselor when im older..

ty for reading this.. i really need help or might just end up really bad shape then what im in now A.s.a.p.  -Sarah-

You can also find so much information on medications and disorders on webmd.com
 
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March 16, 2008, 9:27 pm PDT

Am I crazy?

I don't know if there is really any name for this problem besides anxiety, but I have had this problem since I could remember. Basically, all I can think of is death, and dying. I haven't confided in anyone about this, in fear of what people may think of me. Any situation I think of ends in death. I I leave the house, and 50 various situations run through my mind. I think of what can happen to me as I drive away. I think of what can happen to my parents while I'm gone. I don't even know how to describe what I think of really. My mind just always wonders. I dream of people breaking into my house, and killing me (not all the time, that was just an example of what I see). Every situation I think of ends in tragedy. Typing this makes me feel like a psycho. I have obviously come to terms with the fact that I will die, and all that. I am 18, and just worry constantly. Anyways, perhaps others know what this feels like and can help? I don't want to think like this anymore... as I am constantly scaring myself.

 
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March 19, 2008, 11:10 pm PDT

Hey! am I crazy

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I don't know if there is really any name for this problem besides anxiety, but I have had this problem since I could remember. Basically, all I can think of is death, and dying. I haven't confided in anyone about this, in fear of what people may think of me. Any situation I think of ends in death. I I leave the house, and 50 various situations run through my mind. I think of what can happen to me as I drive away. I think of what can happen to my parents while I'm gone. I don't even know how to describe what I think of really. My mind just always wonders. I dream of people breaking into my house, and killing me (not all the time, that was just an example of what I see). Every situation I think of ends in tragedy. Typing this makes me feel like a psycho. I have obviously come to terms with the fact that I will die, and all that. I am 18, and just worry constantly. Anyways, perhaps others know what this feels like and can help? I don't want to think like this anymore... as I am constantly scaring myself.

Hi, I've never done this before and this is the first time I've ever tried, so if I do something wrong tell me.  But I read your message, it makes my heart cry. You are so young and have so much time and life ahead of you. Does anyone in your daily life know you live with this feeling? I'm not trying to be nosey, but I wish you'd e=mail me and tell me more. There is hope! foxy58roxy@yahoo.com. Please read my message and you might understand where I'm coming from. I know its horrible to daily live in fear and torment.
 
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March 20, 2008, 12:47 am PDT

Mental disorders need attention and research

My personal story is 49 years long. This message is to help and let others know, I want more research and recognition about mental diseases. Mental disorders have always been ignored, denied, referred to as dumb, and shameful misfit, mental issues are not anyones fault. A person should not be punished or mistreated for having this disease.

There is a need for places, research, and help for people that have this.

Mental disorders eat away at a persons mind faster, and more damaging then cancer.

 

A person with cancer, draws multitudes of attention

A person with a mental problem becomes alone, people don't want to be around that kind of person, "there's something wrong, I don't want to catch it"

 

I'm ANGRY! This sickness has raped me of 30 years of my life, caused me to be separated from my family, it has not allowed my life to be able to have people in my life, it's caused me to push my children away, it's present every day I wake up. But I taught myself to except it and learned to cope with it.  But now it's gone to far, My son is now laying in a hospital, lonely, scarred, confused, and he don't understand why he feels so empty.   What has me so up set. I took him to 2 different hospitals, called  3 different help centers, and not any of them would help us. We were told he wasn't bad enough  to receive emergence help, Because he hadn't hurt him self or anyone else. We were told to go home and wait until a week day, and make an appointment. This young man was having a mental break down, reaching out for help, he was smart enough to know he needed help and there was no where for him to go and be safe, and not hurt himself or anyone else.  I know he isn't the only person that has experienced this problem. It's time our country, government, scientists or who ever start recognizing this is a growing problem, and it can't be ignored any more.  mental disorders in America should be just as important in politics, and in research as cancer, health coverage, etc...

I would like to know if I'm alone feeling this way about something that effects so many lives but always gets diagnosed and blamed on some thing else.

    THIS NEEDS TO BE ADDRESSED TO OUR GOVERNMENT, THIS DISEASE EFFECTS OUR COUNTRY AS MUCH IF NOT MORE THEN ANY OTHER DISEASE.

 

 FINDING CURES, PROVIDING PLACES TO GET HELP, MORE EDUCATION,  SUPPORT GROUPS.  ALL OF THIS WOULD HELP CUT DOWN ON FRUSTRATED. ANGRY, CONFUSION WHICH ALL FEEDS CRIME. ROAD RAGE  JEALOUS COMPANION KILLING, RAPE, CHILD ABUSE, this ONLY NEEDS EDUCATION AVAILABLE, AND TAUGHT ABOUT,  IT'S PRESENT AMONG US AND IT'S NOT GOING AWAY OR GETTING ANY BETTER.

 

AM I ALONE?

 
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March 20, 2008, 5:02 am PDT

To angel1wings and Ivy

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Hi my name is Ivy and I have been suffering from anxiety and bipolar and ptsd since I was 15 I am now 28.  I just wanted to say that Effexor is an antidepressant and that would cause you to be more jittery.  Do you have problems with depression?  I am on Klonopin and Hydroxyzine for my anxiety.  I have a friend who has anxiety and she is on Ativan.  Maybe you could suggest these to your doctor.  An antidepressant is definitely not the way to go.  Hope everything works out for you.
Girls, you're both so young, let me share this. I'm 49, I've been prescribe over 40 different meds, been to over a dozen different doctors, numerous counselors, and I'm not better, But I am at the end of my rope. I will not live the rest of my life being a slave of this disease. It's raped me of most of my existent life. I'm only one person, but I have a voice,  and the ability of how properly to let it be heard. There are many like us, many experience the same disease. It's a disease, we're not crazy.  With some research education, and team work this could be the beginning of a end of lives being damaged because of chemical imbalancement in our brains and minds.  Together we could heal and experience a new way of life.  There are solutions and answers.  We just need to step forward, bring recognition of the disease to the public, our governor, and whom ever it concerns, and something can be done. I'm writing letters to see what I can start.  There more and more, each day another person experiences for the first time. This disease has been  pushed aside, it  has been ignored,  and the subject scares people because the unknown can't be normal.  People think different is bad, wrong, and can;t be controlled, most people are embarrassed and shame.  If you stop and take a good look at yourself, you'll find you have great qualities, and are qualities that the majority of human beings don't have.  People with this are a selected and chosen few.   SPECIAL GIFT,   work it right and depression can work good ways in a life.  share with me your story. foxy58roxy@yahoo.com
 
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March 20, 2008, 8:49 pm PDT

may I have a minute of your time?

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You can also find so much information on medications and disorders on webmd.com

 You need to know, there's not any more wrong with you then any other human being. Your not stupid, your not losing your mind, being crazy could be fun crazy or peculiar crazy, the only difference about us then most other human beings. There is very few of us that are unusual, which allows us to be unique,  not many were one of God's chosen few,  a few he has a which labels us special, what ever our eccentric purpose is in life, was only able to be fulfilled and done proper with and by only you. your life will contribute much and will be the only person that will be able to accomplish and have what it takes to be done right.  Come on, I understand everyday is an up hill struggle. Surprise! I'll be 50 years old in two weeks I've fought that mental hell and struggle 18250 days.

 
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March 24, 2008, 12:17 pm PDT

Fears, Phobias and Anxiety Disorders

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I'm not really sure if this is the right post for me, since I'm not sure my fear is really irrational. I mean, the extent is irrational, but maybe not the content. I'm afraid of men, most of the time, and I have panic attacks in the classroom (I study at University). It's paralyzing, and now I have to take medication for it. I can't go into a seminar if I'm even a minute late b/c I think people will look at me. I never speak even though it jeapordizes my future in academia because I'm so afraid the professor will notice me. I also freak out in crowds, but the classroom is still the most terrifying. I guess this all comes from me having been raped my professor at the school I went to before; but still! It's been since 2002 (late spring). I've been seeing a psychiatrist twice a week for more than two years, close to two-and-a-half (thank G-d for medicare), and I'm still like this. I guess I just want some reassurance that it will get better, since at the end of next year I hope to return to my former school and train to be a psychiartic nurse. Having been committed to a psychiatric institution myself, I know just how much good dedicated people can do, and I don't want to give up my dream because I am still too afraid to face the environment it's lodged in.

I'm so saddened to read how oppressed you are because of a traumatic experience.  I would like to invite you to seek Jesus Christ.  He can heal you from all disorders, phobias, etc.  He bore all our sins, pain and sicknesses on the Cross of Calvary.  If you would just give him a chance.    I mean if you've been counseled for so long and there's still no real change for the better, what have you got to lose?

 

Just like He healed me, He can heal you.  And He wants to.  Because He loves you.  That's all I wish to say.  Please meditate on this before you respond back.  Should you wish to know Him personally, I'd like to help you find your way to restoration.

 

A believer in Jesus Christ,

Roz

 

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