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July 28, 2005, 11:04 am PDT
Meditation
Quote From: rayvinfiveI am interested in meditation but can't seem to find time to actually try. That, and I'm lazy. I have discovered that if I'm left to my own devices, I won't stick with anything. A while ago I bought Meditation for Dummies, but didn't make it out of the first chapter before I stopped reading. Is there anyone out there that would be willing to help me kick my own butt into actually doing what I know I should? Or, any advice/ideas on how to change my laziness into action? First of all, realize that hypnosis is a very natural state, and you've been there before. You are in a hypnosis state just before going to sleep, and just as you are waking up. Ever woke up with the answer to a problem you were thinking about the day before? That's your subconscious supplying you with the answer you asked of yourself. Have you ever been driving in the car, and arrived at your destination with no memory of the trip? When your conscious mind wandered off, your subconscious took over and got you where you were going. (Although it's not recommended that we do this as a regular practice!) You can learn to "go" to this relaxed state, and give yourself positive suggestions and affirmations. Meditation is newer for me, so forgive me anybody out there who has a more correct description. Meditation is also about "stilling" yourself, the initial phase, where I am, is about emptying your mind. This is very difficult, sometimes impossible at first. You begin to understand how your mind works by trying to get it to be still. Of course there is much more. I'm investigating local meditation centers, as I feel a need for guidance.
As to getting started. I attended a weight loss hypnotherapy class. Having somebody else guide you to that state can be a powerful way to become acquainted with it. Be aware that there are many charlatans out there. I chose a class that was conducted by a very talented, caring individual who works in con-junction with a cancer unit, helping patients. A big tip-off is the amount of time they spend actually helping others, as opposed to just making a pay check. There are books, and tapes, but I find they are nowhere nearly as effective.
So far, meditation has been a solitary practice, but I'm looking for the next step.
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