Hello everyone, 
 
This is my first post to the board but I have been a member for a few years now. I am engaged to a wonderful man (who has his issues but is still wonderful) anyway, I am VERY VERY concerned for his well being and his LIFE!!!!. 
 
Ryan has SEVERE SLEEP APNEA among other heath issues (over weight, high blood pressure, depression and anxiety to name a few). He stops breathing on average 50-100 times a night from the sleep apnea. I am terrified that he will stop one of these times and not start again. 
 
He has to sleep straight up at times so he does not stop breathing but it is very difficult because he had hip surgery (which left him with no range of motion or strength) as a teen and is unable to walk, stand, or barely move because of that issue. Which brings me to being over weight to a dangerous degree. Not being able to move or exercise is a huge part of it. Depression has taken over (he has days he doesn't even want to deal with it anymore but does for me and his mom), he is not able to get a good or even a decent nights sleep and is tired all the time. 
 
He has no insurance as he is unable to work due to the hip issue, weight, fatigue and depression/anxiety. I have gone every avenue that I can think of to get him help and am now considering going to the Dr. in his place to get him what he needs. He has to have a C-PAP machine.............. He Desperately needs one. 
 
I am disabled due to a horrific auto accident in 2001 (I won't even get into my own issues and health problems in this post as it would be too overwhelming) and do not have the resources to get him the machine (they are anywhere from $3000- $5000.) Who the heck could afford that, what is wrong with people. 
 
I need help and don't no where to turn........... Ryan is my whole world and if something was to happen to him I would not know what I would do...... I have not wrote to Dr. Phil as I know there are so many other people that need his help too and some to a more severe degree but Ryan's life is in danger and sadly the people that love him are the only ones that care. He can't even get the meds he needs and the blood pressure meds if not taken can cause a heart attack if not kill him 
 
Due to being overweight to the degree he is he can not even get quality health care at an emergency room as they all say the same thing "you will not fit in this machine" "Your weight is keeping us from helping you get the help you need." "We can't help you because you have no insurance and no way to pay for tests, meds etc. " What the hell is that................. I guess money is more important than a human life these days....... 
 
He needs help losing the weight and can not do it on his own.... Gastric Bypass is not even an option because no one will even let him in the door to get help because he has NO MONEY, NO JOB, and NO ASSETS FOR CREDIT..... 
 
I will end this post as it is becoming a large book. Thanks for listening and I would love to get any suggestions/ideas any of you may have. 
 
Thanks, 
Joey (female)