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April 13, 2007, 2:40 pm PDT

Living with Chronic Pain

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Well today is Friday the 13th just in case you didn't know it ....it seems like everybody had to tell me that today...my daughter at college calls me and says do you know its friday the 13th...and I asked her why she had to tell me...she says you know the day that everything can go wrong ...and I am thinking to myself about the previous few years when not everyday was friday the 13th hmmmm...I don't think it has to be the 13th on a friday for me ..I think there  is an exception to that rule for me...I am thinking lets see I have lost two close friends in the previous month .......and I am not quite sure why ...I have an idea why possibly about a phone number that  I misplaced which isn't hard for me to do ...being that I miss place my house sometimes...I just am not a good friend I guess...maybe only for a little while and then my flaws come out and I guess they must be bad...I try to be a good friend ....well let me get off that one..I am sorry if hurt anyone here..oh Becca I didn't mean you let your standards down I meant just don't sorry about that...just me typing on and on...Becky no they are not going to watch it plus without insurance not able to see doctor right now...actually that feels like loosing friends too...just feel out in the cold now...I still have you guys...and my other groups ...Prof good luck with the van...sounds interesting looking for one...hope hank doesn't make it too difficult...well I guess bye for now

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Tanya

Sorry Tanya! I misunderstood. Not ur fault. AND I'm sure ur a GREAT friend.
 
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April 13, 2007, 3:04 pm PDT

becca

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Ur welcome.

 

I hope things calm down. The ipod and headphones sounds like a really good idea.

 

Hope you start feeling better. It feels more like Christmas than easter!

 

Becca

XOXO

I got my hearing scheduled for may 9th but it could go either way so i'm not trying to jinx maybe i should have ranted on this board long before it brought me luck lol....things are a little better i think dad was just grumpy about my weightt situation, he's so worried, and frankly so am i. I'm on prosac so i shouldn't be losing any weight on twenty mgs twice a day so i should have an appetite been on it long enough it is helping somewhat with the depression....but now they no most of my symptoms are from my medical illness and not just depression, I have a good psychatrist and psychologist. I'll keep you all updated but if idon't post for a while i may be in the hospital because my weight dropped down to 93.8 the other day.

its making me and my doctors nervous....hmmm time for the ipod again...lol
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April 13, 2007, 3:46 pm PDT

Living with Chronic Pain

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Well today is Friday the 13th just in case you didn't know it ....it seems like everybody had to tell me that today...my daughter at college calls me and says do you know its friday the 13th...and I asked her why she had to tell me...she says you know the day that everything can go wrong ...and I am thinking to myself about the previous few years when not everyday was friday the 13th hmmmm...I don't think it has to be the 13th on a friday for me ..I think there  is an exception to that rule for me...I am thinking lets see I have lost two close friends in the previous month .......and I am not quite sure why ...I have an idea why possibly about a phone number that  I misplaced which isn't hard for me to do ...being that I miss place my house sometimes...I just am not a good friend I guess...maybe only for a little while and then my flaws come out and I guess they must be bad...I try to be a good friend ....well let me get off that one..I am sorry if hurt anyone here..oh Becca I didn't mean you let your standards down I meant just don't sorry about that...just me typing on and on...Becky no they are not going to watch it plus without insurance not able to see doctor right now...actually that feels like loosing friends too...just feel out in the cold now...I still have you guys...and my other groups ...Prof good luck with the van...sounds interesting looking for one...hope hank doesn't make it too difficult...well I guess bye for now

Love ya

Tanya

it was a no go for the new 2006 scion and the wheelchair conversion package... we loved the car but the "kit" -- or whatever -- is not available now -- since the '06 is no longer produced.  we could WAIT for the '08 [there is no '07] but no one knows if it will be part of their mobility program.  IT IS COMING OUT this summer.

 

i am sick with a temp of 102 -- so y'all be good...

 

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prof ACK ACK ACK

 
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April 13, 2007, 5:17 pm PDT

Living with Chronic Pain

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I got my hearing scheduled for may 9th but it could go either way so i'm not trying to jinx maybe i should have ranted on this board long before it brought me luck lol....things are a little better i think dad was just grumpy about my weightt situation, he's so worried, and frankly so am i. I'm on prosac so i shouldn't be losing any weight on twenty mgs twice a day so i should have an appetite been on it long enough it is helping somewhat with the depression....but now they no most of my symptoms are from my medical illness and not just depression, I have a good psychatrist and psychologist. I'll keep you all updated but if idon't post for a while i may be in the hospital because my weight dropped down to 93.8 the other day.

its making me and my doctors nervous....hmmm time for the ipod again...lol
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COOL! May 9th is my birthday!

 

Can't garuntee I'll bring u any luck though lol. I hope it goes well for you!

 

<33 *HUGS*

 

Becca

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April 13, 2007, 5:18 pm PDT

Living with Chronic Pain

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it was a no go for the new 2006 scion and the wheelchair conversion package... we loved the car but the "kit" -- or whatever -- is not available now -- since the '06 is no longer produced.  we could WAIT for the '08 [there is no '07 but no one knows if it will be part of their mobility program.  IT IS COMING OUT this summer.

 

i am sick with a temp of 102 -- so y'all be good...

 

love,

prof ACK ACK ACK

Awww!!! I'm sorry Prof!

 

Get better soon! *HUGS*

 

Becca

XOXO

 
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April 13, 2007, 5:58 pm PDT

Living with chronic pain is a pain!

I live with chronic pain every day.  I have muscular skeletal pain in my chest, back pain from a fall at work that damaged my spine and upper back. I have bulging discs in my spinal column, narrowing of the cervical discs with bulging and disc hibernation's of the lumbar region and neck area. Taken therapy to no avail went for nerve blocks of the neck and spine. still am taking a number of drugs for relief of the pain, muscle relaxers antidepressants, pain killers and the list goes on. i also developed fibromyalgia and have degenerative disc disease all through my back. I've been doctoring for this since 1999. this week I discovered now he suspects I have a hemidiaphragm on the right side and possibly beginnings of some kind of breathing problems, such as asthma, etc.. I've survived cancer of the breast, major depression, surgeries on my knee, reconstruction of my breast in 2006, raising two kids alone which are now grown and on there own. I just don't know if I can deal with any more health problems, or pain in my life. So I understand chronic pain all too well. this last problem I'm dealing with though is more than I know how to deal with. I'm 57 years old and shouldn't be having all these problems at my age. what scares me most is that my mother died when she was 57 and so that's on my mind too. I just want to feel better and have a normal life again. 
 
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April 13, 2007, 7:10 pm PDT

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I live with chronic pain every day.  I have muscular skeletal pain in my chest, back pain from a fall at work that damaged my spine and upper back. I have bulging discs in my spinal column, narrowing of the cervical discs with bulging and disc hibernation's of the lumbar region and neck area. Taken therapy to no avail went for nerve blocks of the neck and spine. still am taking a number of drugs for relief of the pain, muscle relaxers antidepressants, pain killers and the list goes on. i also developed fibromyalgia and have degenerative disc disease all through my back. I've been doctoring for this since 1999. this week I discovered now he suspects I have a hemidiaphragm on the right side and possibly beginnings of some kind of breathing problems, such as asthma, etc.. I've survived cancer of the breast, major depression, surgeries on my knee, reconstruction of my breast in 2006, raising two kids alone which are now grown and on there own. I just don't know if I can deal with any more health problems, or pain in my life. So I understand chronic pain all too well. this last problem I'm dealing with though is more than I know how to deal with. I'm 57 years old and shouldn't be having all these problems at my age. what scares me most is that my mother died when she was 57 and so that's on my mind too. I just want to feel better and have a normal life again. 

Welcome to the board. I'm sorry that you've been so much and are still suffering so much.

 

I'm Rebecca and have "Chronic Pain Syndrome" and I'm 18....almost 19. I also have TMJ dysfunction.

 

*HUGS*

 

Becca

XOXO

 
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April 14, 2007, 5:18 am PDT

Fibromyalgia and the uninformed

I was diagnosed in 2000 with Fibromyalgia.  This was after several years of testing, treatments and tears.  My family fell apart as my life spiraled out of control due to the chronic pain and not being able to convey logically why I hurt.  How could I explain something that I myself had no knowledge of ? 

 

Since my diagnosis in the new millennium, they have also found that I have COPD, thyroid problems, my cholesterol is way off and heart problems.  How do you explain all of this to someone without sounding like a hypochondriac?  How do you explain to people that sometimes just taking that first step in the morning is quite an adventure?  Will your legs support you today?  Do you need your cane today? 

 

Oh, and of course, there is always the parking issues.  I have handicapped plates, per the request of my doctor.  The looks I get from people as I park my car are amazing.  They can't see what I am feeling and have no idea why I am parking there.  I have had actual confrontations with people in parking lots where they are yelling at me for parking there.

 

These are but a few of the daily dilemmas that I face.  Does anyone out there have answers for dealing with these stessors?  For we all know that stress induces pain with the fibromyalgia.  It is such a vicious cycle!

 

Thanks,

Deb

 
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April 14, 2007, 6:22 am PDT

Maybe the hospital pool.........

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We live in Central Washington, where there are a lot of small towns.  I don't know if there is a pool around here that doesn't use chlorine.  We have the Lions Pool, the YMCA, and the hospital pool...those are the only indoor pools in our area.  I'll have to call them to see what they have...the Lions pool is the one with all the chlorine.

 

I'm a little less tired today...must do laundry.  I will do some grocery shopping this afternoon, while my oldest son is in drivers ed.  Stay off the road...here he comes!!!

 

I hope everybody has a good day today...Becky

has less chlorine  or an alternative . I guess you could check. Driver's Ed.!!! Wow, We're 1 1/2  yrs. from that but makes me nervous thinking about it. I just checked back on this board today and saw your post. The convent thing didn't work out....:>)  I only lasted a week....Bummer..... :>) Chris
 
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April 14, 2007, 6:36 am PDT

Puppet show

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Migraine headache that started two days ago....have tried "everything"...could be all the stress I've been experiencing lately.

 

When I make a shopping list for Goodwill or Value Village, I always find what I need...read on...

 

My middle son did a puppet show for his Drama class (8th grade).  His partner for this project is known for her unreliability in following through with anything that is remotely homework related...so my son ended up doing it all. They did the Rumplestiltskin story, and my son was to make the Prince, the Narrator, and Rumpelstiltskin.  His partner was to make the King and the Miller's Daughter.  My son kept on her case to get those puppets.  Finally, in an act of desperation...trying to get her to get off her butt and get those puppets done, my son told her that if she didn't make her puppets, that he was going to bring some really hideous puppets for her to use...had to have the puppets to avoid failing the assignment.

 

Here's where Goodwill comes in.  I had a few things to get there, and I decided to look for some "hideous puppet" materials...the kind that take no effort...and look like no effort was given.  My son and I thought a Barbie tied to a stick would fit the bill.  Well, we found better than that!!  Half a Barbie...the top half...missing from the waist down.  Perfect!!  We put her on a stick with hot glue.  The King puppet was made from a wooden spoon, with bad drawing (on purpose), and a foil crown that made him look like the "Jiffy Pop" King. 

 

My son's intent was to embarass his partner for not doing her part of the project...he let the teacher know this too.  My son's puppets were elaborate and  well-made, by his own design, from felt and cloth scraps, with fake fur for hair...I have all of this stuff on hand, just for projects like this.  Most of the kids in the class made puppets from magazine cut-outs taped to a ruler.

 

Everybody in the class got a good laugh from the Barbie on a stick.  The teacher thought it was a very creative idea, so she kept the Barbie on a stick to show to future Drama classes.  "Shish-ka-Barbie".  Too funny!!  His partner, good natured as she is, got a good laugh too, and the puppet show was a hit.

 

Tanya...that's great news about the money and the bone scan...are they going to do more in the future...just to keep an eye on things?

 

Prof...good luck with the van...Hank really needs to consider your needs...not just his own need for "Farfurgnugen".  Vans aren't cool as far as cars go, but a wheel chair won't exactly fit in a sports car.  I'll keep my fingers crossed for you.

 

Becky

The puppet show sounded hilarious:>)  The Shishka Barbie and Jiffy pop King :>)  Kids school projects are something else. Well, you could always use the Barbie on a stick for ordering at a drive thru. Roll down the back window and let your kid stick the barbie out the window, duck down and say in a high voice " I'd like 4 burgers, 3 fries and 3 strawberry shakes ". I have a  very  high metabolism. :>) 

       

 
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