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September 10, 2007, 3:31 pm PDT

Living with Chronic Pain

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what do you all think of the new "look"?

Hi Prof, hope today is going good for you. I really have to get used to this new look, personally, I like the old look better.

 

Love,

Ms Sassy Lashy Lashawnna

 
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September 10, 2007, 3:49 pm PDT

HELLO EVERYONE...

Well, I have been sooo busy with the grandchildren. They had photos taken in school today, so I stayed with them to make sure that hair was neat, face was clean, and that they would smile pretty for the camera!!!

 

My Lady Diah- I've been thinking about you, and I do hope that everything is fine with you. When are your children coming to North Carolina? It has been so difficult to catch up on all of the posts but I'm trying. Since the weather is sunny there today, what did you do to enjoy it? I was very angry at my youngest daughter because she told me that there had been only three girls involved in the accident she was in on last week, I had an attorney to call me today and disputed what my daughter had intially told me. There were 7 women in the car with her! And she knew that I would be very upset with her about that. That' s too many people riding with her!  Two of the young women were seriously injured in the accident. So I am waiting with bated breath that the young women recover quickly. I have been so busy that I can't even remember to eat during the day. I will do my very best to post on tomorrow, if not, please know that you are all on my mind, and in my prayers!!!

 

Love,

Lashy

 

Morgan-Hey Morgan, how's Robert and our soon-to-be-Mother? Please forgive me Sweetie, I have been so very busy that I haven't had time enough to do much of anything by way of recreation. I have a box of things sitting in my diningroom ready to ship off to you, and just haven't found time to do it but just know that I will notify you as soon as I am able to send it off as I did a few months ago.

 

Love,

Lashy

 

Sims-Hello My Fair Lady, I am just sending my love your way today. I am thinking about you often, and my prayers are certainly with you. I promise to take time to sit and write a decent post to you ok? Love you Much.

 

Love,

Lashy

 

 

For all that I failed to mention, Iove you, and I'm thinking about you too. May you have a pain-free day.

 

Love,

Lashy

 
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September 10, 2007, 5:24 pm PDT

Chronic Regional Pain Syndrome

I suffer from Chronic Regional Pain Syndrome. Pauls Abdual has shed light on her personal battle with this misunderstoon disorder.

 It was called RSD before. I personally have challlenged myself to feel better. I would enjoy to hear how other's are handling this serious painful condition.I also would like information on medical care. I have been to Seattle, WA for help and they can't help me anymore.

 
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September 10, 2007, 7:54 pm PDT

Hi

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I suffer from Chronic Regional Pain Syndrome. Pauls Abdual has shed light on her personal battle with this misunderstoon disorder.

 It was called RSD before. I personally have challlenged myself to feel better. I would enjoy to hear how other's are handling this serious painful condition.I also would like information on medical care. I have been to Seattle, WA for help and they can't help me anymore.

 Unfortunately, what we have in common first and foremost is this horrible health issue.  Prof is actually the resident expert on rsd/crps here on the board.  I was diagnosed back in December, 2006, but no cause has ever been determined for me.  I am still going through tests - in fact, I have a 48 hour portable EEG beginning tomorrow morning.  I have various other symptoms as well that as of late, have become worse and are unexplainable.

I am sorry to hear that you too suffer.So far, I've had some relief by taking Lyrica.  I think it's great that you are trying mind over matter but I have found that it's not too successful for me.  this is an extremely depressing syndrome and I am finding that all kinds of other things are now having to be treated in addition to the initial diagnosis.

You will find much comfort from the wonderful people here on this board. When I was first able to think past the pain, I immediately went to the Internet looking for this type of place where people - even just one - might understand.  I found many. many new friends - ALL of whom suffer from some type of chronic pain and offer me new insight everyday - new treatments, new meds, new outlooks.

Lucky for us both, we have found the right place :)

you take care and we hope to hear from you again soon- all my best to you for pain free days ahead!

~Debbie
 
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September 10, 2007, 8:52 pm PDT

Hey Prof

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what do you all think of the new "look"?

I think it's boring and blahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.

 

And if anyone knows me, we know it's the med's, the use of pot in my teens or my hair color or the dye..... and I am the S-L-O-W one.. so change is hard on me.... but, it's not killing me.. but it's boring.

 

Dianah

 

 

 

 

 
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September 10, 2007, 9:00 pm PDT

Hi there

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I suffer from Chronic Regional Pain Syndrome. Pauls Abdual has shed light on her personal battle with this misunderstoon disorder.

 It was called RSD before. I personally have challlenged myself to feel better. I would enjoy to hear how other's are handling this serious painful condition.I also would like information on medical care. I have been to Seattle, WA for help and they can't help me anymore.

I wanted to say hi and also "welcome" to the board..

 

It's amazing how much "help" our celebrities have been with so many issue, just in the past few years. Micheal J Fox, Brook Shields and Paula also.. it's amazing.. Christopher Reeds come to mind and his wife..

 

Again, welcome...

 

Love Dianah

 
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September 10, 2007, 9:20 pm PDT

Dear Lashy

Hi Lady..

 

Hey, "we" all know you are one busy girl.. so don't worry about coffee or catching up with us hot-air ones..

 

My kids will be there on Dec 8th... too cool and so exciting for them both..  They just went to Jamaica in May and now NC and next year I think Canadia or Alaska.. Not sure yet...

 

They want to "do" a bunch before having a family... way smart and will be so good for their marriage also.

 

Oh, I am feeling for you on the accident.. oh no.. and it would have been so much better coming from her, than, the Ins Person..

Hang in there..

 

I had an up-setting phone call this afternoon.. A good friend (more like a kid to me) was assaulted (raped) and asked if I could please come and spend a few days with-em.. You bet .. so will be doing a road trip at the end of this week.. thinking Thur or for sure Friday.. Thinking it's a three hour trip one way.. so will have to do it in the morning.. I get so sleepy in the afternoon...

 

So, have had that feeling like I want to throw-up and then just not feeling "together".. And I don't like either one of these... I know.. who does.. right...

Just that feeling of being angry and sick and scared and worried and ... the simple fact, I have never had to deal with anyone being raped.. So, not sure what to say or do...

 

I will call our local help line when I feel more together and get some needed info.. So I can be of help.

 

Thanks for letting me air-out here.. it's helps to just "talk" about it...

 

Love Ya Girl.. Also.. Love the picture... Love Dianah

 

 

 
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September 10, 2007, 10:00 pm PDT

Living with Chronic Pain

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I suffer from Chronic Regional Pain Syndrome. Pauls Abdual has shed light on her personal battle with this misunderstoon disorder.

 It was called RSD before. I personally have challlenged myself to feel better. I would enjoy to hear how other's are handling this serious painful condition.I also would like information on medical care. I have been to Seattle, WA for help and they can't help me anymore.

welcome --

 

crps/rsd sucks and that's an informed opinion!  just trying to get off on a cheerful note...  paula abdul hasn't been the most enlightening source of information for the public, but anything helps, i suppose.

 

one of the best places online for information on all aspects of crps/rsd is rsds.org -- their information and advocacy are based on the best science available.

 

challenging yourself to feel better?  tell me more!  if you mean "mind over matter"-- well, it's always helpful to have biofeedback and relaxation techniques to fight pain (or just life in general).  i try. 

 

but if you mean looking on the bright side and being generally upbeat, well, please give me lessons!

 

i also am a big fan of exercise -- and if medications and treatments have failed to control the intensity of the pain or the spread of your crps/rsd -- then exercise can be THE BEST and ONLY OPTION! 

 

even the meds and the initial spinal blocks are meant to relieve pain just enough to allow you to have very intensive physical therapy -- because it is the PT that *may* "reset" the misfiring nervous circuits. 

 

i have it now in every limb, which is pretty depressing. (crps/rsd sucks!) today has had both ups and downs -- medicines helped some (amitriptyline, cymbalta, trazodone, baclofen, fentanyl, percocet, ibuprofen, prednisone, and a partridge in a pear tree) and working out at the gym for 75 minutes *may* have been of benefit.  only tomorrow will tell.  actually... i can already tell you that the gym was overdone by about 35 minutes.  there is a very fine line between how much you should push yourself to do, even in pain, and how much will just sideline you for a while.  it is one of those things that i cannot seem to get.  what kind of (intentional) exercise do you "do"?  swimming is wonderful, i hear...

 

the past month or so has brought new difficulties that i find, and my household finds, difficult to accept.  who would think that going from using a wheelchair but being able to get up for short periods and walk -- going from that to having standing being nearly impossible -- who would think that it could completely confound a person on so many levels?  rising pain levels have accompanied this decline in mobility.  as i say, have said, or will say, crps sucks!

 

i share that not looking for sympathy (though a sympathetic thought is cool!) but as an example of my experience of this sucky disorder.  it plays on the mind as much as anything. that's why, as is the case with all of us with chronic pain, having a support system is so vital.  i've had times recently where i cannot even remember why i was trying to get better, it seemed so pointless and hopeless.  in addition to being a sucky disorder, we have to remember that crps/rsd is ultimately a disease of the central nervous system, and that's where we deal with *everything*, eh?  it's a real trickster... 

 

welcome to the board -- everyone here has pain -- some are grown-up enough not to whine too often -- others (guess who!) will whine every day, if allowed.  the best share news of daily life that remind us all what the struggle is about.

 

it's all good -- we cannot "compare" pain.  we can just meet each other where we are, you know?

 

i'd love to hear more about you -- and get some pointers on how you're dealing with crps/rsd --

 

be well,

prof

 
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September 10, 2007, 10:10 pm PDT

with an "h"

dianah --

 

calling the hot line for info on how to help is a great idea -- but i think pure, unadulterated diana-with-an-h has it in her to do just fine.  the reactions you are having, yourself (the anger, nausea) are the reactions i bet your friend is having.  you have an understanding and loving nature that is offended by rape.

 

i'll think good thoughts...

 

did she i.d. the rapist?  has there been an arrest?  was she (physically) hurt?  damn, damn, damn.

 

love,

prof

 
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September 11, 2007, 8:06 am PDT

Hello I am back...

Quote From: profderien

welcome --

 

crps/rsd sucks and that's an informed opinion!  just trying to get off on a cheerful note...  paula abdul hasn't been the most enlightening source of information for the public, but anything helps, i suppose.

 

one of the best places online for information on all aspects of crps/rsd is rsds.org -- their information and advocacy are based on the best science available.

 

challenging yourself to feel better?  tell me more!  if you mean "mind over matter"-- well, it's always helpful to have biofeedback and relaxation techniques to fight pain (or just life in general).  i try. 

 

but if you mean looking on the bright side and being generally upbeat, well, please give me lessons!

 

i also am a big fan of exercise -- and if medications and treatments have failed to control the intensity of the pain or the spread of your crps/rsd -- then exercise can be THE BEST and ONLY OPTION! 

 

even the meds and the initial spinal blocks are meant to relieve pain just enough to allow you to have very intensive physical therapy -- because it is the PT that *may* "reset" the misfiring nervous circuits. 

 

i have it now in every limb, which is pretty depressing. (crps/rsd sucks!) today has had both ups and downs -- medicines helped some (amitriptyline, cymbalta, trazodone, baclofen, fentanyl, percocet, ibuprofen, prednisone, and a partridge in a pear tree) and working out at the gym for 75 minutes *may* have been of benefit.  only tomorrow will tell.  actually... i can already tell you that the gym was overdone by about 35 minutes.  there is a very fine line between how much you should push yourself to do, even in pain, and how much will just sideline you for a while.  it is one of those things that i cannot seem to get.  what kind of (intentional) exercise do you "do"?  swimming is wonderful, i hear...

 

the past month or so has brought new difficulties that i find, and my household finds, difficult to accept.  who would think that going from using a wheelchair but being able to get up for short periods and walk -- going from that to having standing being nearly impossible -- who would think that it could completely confound a person on so many levels?  rising pain levels have accompanied this decline in mobility.  as i say, have said, or will say, crps sucks!

 

i share that not looking for sympathy (though a sympathetic thought is cool!) but as an example of my experience of this sucky disorder.  it plays on the mind as much as anything. that's why, as is the case with all of us with chronic pain, having a support system is so vital.  i've had times recently where i cannot even remember why i was trying to get better, it seemed so pointless and hopeless.  in addition to being a sucky disorder, we have to remember that crps/rsd is ultimately a disease of the central nervous system, and that's where we deal with *everything*, eh?  it's a real trickster... 

 

welcome to the board -- everyone here has pain -- some are grown-up enough not to whine too often -- others (guess who!) will whine every day, if allowed.  the best share news of daily life that remind us all what the struggle is about.

 

it's all good -- we cannot "compare" pain.  we can just meet each other where we are, you know?

 

i'd love to hear more about you -- and get some pointers on how you're dealing with crps/rsd --

 

be well,

prof

Well I am back after a long time of trying to find a way to get away.....I did go to Michigan with my sister and her family it was fun for a little while but then it just seemed like I was just trying to run from problems so after three months I decided to face them .........in doing that a lot of doors opened for me with insurance help I am now able to go get my teeth fixed.....also able to see doctors......to update condition my knees are causing alot of pain......speech is bad.....and off balance........oh yeah yesterday I turned 48 .....I will update more as I go ......I intend to be back now for awile........Prof I was so glad to see you here well not glad about your pain..........I am sorry to hear about  your mobility and wish I could have found you better..I did some swimming when I was gone but unable to use a computer..........I missed being able to talk......everyone here understands Hello to the new people and a hello to all I missed so much........

Hugs and Love

Tanya

 
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